When people reach a certain age, they are not capable, but the pattern of Rongren

Author: insight allergy

Non -wide and unreasonable, non -kindness.

Liu Ye told a story in the book.

Xiao Qin and Mavericks are employees of the company. They went abroad to talk about business together. They performed well and raised their salary. The other could only be covered.

They secretly competed, and both hoped that they could stay.

The Mavericks always led Xiao Qin, and Xiao Qin's heart was counting, but he not only did not argue, but also divided half of the credit to the Mavericks.

After returning to China, the party was opened, and the company was surrounded by the "hero" Mavericks, thinking that the calf was left on the board.

Unexpectedly, the chairman left Xiao Qin:

"Being a leader is not only learned, but also elegant. The Mavericks sued all the way.

I really agree that your ability determines what you can get, and your pattern will determine where you can finally go.

At a certain age, if you want to go far, you must repair the amount of people.

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Rongren

"Zhuangzi · Geng Sangchu" said: "Those who cannot accommodate people are not relatives, and those who have no relatives."

If people do not have the elegance of people, they will only make people far away.

Those who can do things will be able to accommodate better than him.

When he was young, Zeng Guofan was arrogant and he often felt that others were not as good as yourself.

As he got older, he suddenly realized: "People are worse than me, I am infinite;

He began to take the initiative to pave the way to the subordinates, without worrying about his subordinates over himself.

Among the officials he promoted, Li Hongzhang's career was better than him, and Zuo Zongtang led his troops to be stronger than him.

However, these people are willing to worship him and listen to his command.

A entrepreneur once said: "I don't know how to appreciate others, and I always feel that they are more intelligent than others, the most stupid."

People with a large pattern have applauding others.

We all know the founder of Kuaishou, but few people know that Kuaishou's other founder, Cheng Yixiao.

The predecessor of the fast hand was founded by him.

As a first -class talent in technology and algorithms, Su Hua attracted Cheng Yixi's attention.

In order to pull the Hua Hua, Cheng Yixiao showed the difficulty of ordinary people.

He gave up 40%of the shares to Su Hua. Not only that, he also agreed to let Su Hua be the company's CEO, retreat behind the scenes, and concentrate on product development.

If you want to work hard to get half of your own, you need to give half of it. This kind of abandonment requires great courage.

But because of Cheng Yixi's heart, the fast -handed ride was unprepared later, and in the short video field.

The ancients have clouds: The wise will be humble, and those who are good must be tolerant.

In this world, those who can take the overall situation are often the best and most capable person, but those who can tolerate people.

How many people can tolerate a person's mind and how many people can win.

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Rongren

What is tolerance?

Mark Twain said that Violet left its aroma on the horseshoe that flattened it, which was tolerance.

Mao Dun Literature winner Mai Family wrote a story in "The Sea of ​​Life".

At first, because the little blind man framed Grandpa's report, the "I" family was spurred. "I" was forced to kill the end of the world, drifting a foreign country.

Because I am young and do not understand local dialects, "I" has to be hungry every day, like a mouse of the gap, living a lingering life.

And the family of "I" has since changed their life trajectory and moved towards sadness.

When I think of the little blind man, "I" hate gritting teeth, so angry that he wanted to kill him.

But after entering middle age, when "I" returned to his hometown and saw the little blind man's half crazy foreign appearance, I finally chose sympathy and helped him.

Before leaving the village, "I" also left a short -footed tiger supermarket: "In the future, the little blind man comes to the store to eat what he eats, and I will come to checkout."

Wilde once said: For myself, I must forgive something. Because of a person, he can't get up at night and plant thorns in the garden of the soul.

The mind is a limited container. If you can install hatred, you can't let go of love and warmth.

Only letting others' faults be relieved of their own hearts.

Song Taizong once evaluated Lu Mengzheng in this way: "Lu Meng Zheng Qi, I'm better."

He resented his virtue and obtained his name, and served his father who had rushed to his house until he was old.

He knew the good use of people and recommended to the court, Wen Zhongshu, who had a bad thing about him.

The broad gas and the great mind have achieved his beauty.

The ancients said: "Non -broad and unreasonable, not kind."

The time of Rong people is also a self -defeating self.

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Short of Rongren

Qin Chao Li Si said in "The Book of the Wheel":

"Taishan does not allow the soil, so it can become big;

Taishan does not dare to abandon any soil, so it can be so tall;

People are the same. Those who become big things must not only have the ability, but also have the wisdom and vision that do not abandon the beauty of the people with the small evil.

In an exclusive interview with CCTV, Ren Zhengfei mentioned a story:

Huawei's 5G has always been in a leading position, related to a Russian guy.

But the young man of this Russian Institute was very inconsistent. He stayed in the company for more than ten years and did not communicate with others. He played the computer all day long.

"The person in charge of research goes to see him, and he ignores someone to say hello. He is not good at dealing, we don't know what he is doing every day." Ren Zhengfei did not give up him because of his shortcomings, but cherished very much. His technical place is specifically for the establishment of a Huawei Science Research Institute for him in Russia.

And when he questioned him within the company, he tried to maintain it: talents knew only at critical moments.

Sure enough, suddenly one day after 8 years, he contacted Ren Zhengfei and found that he found an algorithm that broke through 2G to 3G.

This technology breaks through the leading countries in the world and allows Huawei to quickly occupy the European market.

He even proudly said: "We are very powerful now, which is related to this guy who can't even talk about love."

Shakespeare said: "Tolerance is like the drizzle in the sky nourishes the earth. It is blessed to the tolerance, and it is also blessed to the tolerance."

Instead of enlarging the weaknesses of others, it is better to take people's strengths and tolerate the shortness of people.

When you go to the short heart and tolerate the shortness of people, you can win more admiration and respect.

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Rongren's Story

Zhou Guoping once said: "How a person treats people holding different views than what the view he holds, can better reflect his pattern."

Those who really have a large pattern can accommodate the differences between others while insisting on their own claims.

When Hu Shi went to Shanghai and lived in the Yadong Library, Chen Duxiu often visited.

Every time the two meet, one talks about Marxism and the other is talking about pragmatism;

Every time I will fight red ears, but "in a few days, Chen Duxiu will come again and re -provoke a controversy."

Although the two have different positions and different views, their personal relationships are better than their loved ones.

Chen Duxiu has been imprisoned many times in his life. Each time Hu Shi actively rushed to rescue, and helped him to reduce his sentence and released his prison many times.

In 1925, Hu Shi wrote in a letter to Chen Duxiu:

"The two old friends, although the political propositions are different, despite their different careers, they still have their old friends. It is precisely because of your head and me.

Xue rended that only Kuan can tolerate people, but only thick can carry objects.

When you encounter different opinions, you must see the length and not be subject to its shortness.

This is the case for scholar Gu Hongming, the president of Peking University.

Many people who support the new culture movement are difficult to accept the old Gu Hongming.

They believe that people like him are not suitable for staying at Peking University, and they have called for him to expel him.

Cai Yuanpei supports Gu Hongming: "Xiamen Gu Tang's nature is particularly strange, but the English level is not shallow."

In Cai Yuanpei's view, although Gu Hongming and his cultural perspectives are biased, Gu Hongming is well -known and has a good side.

Sure enough, Later Gu Hongming's lectures on the "Chinese Spirit" series of lectures swept Peking University and caused a strong response.

If people live in the world, it is impossible for everyone to be consistent with you.

Those who have a pattern can not only appreciate the flowers of the whole courtyard, but also cherish the weeds on the ground.

The human heart is mutual, and you can respect you one foot to others.

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"Sometimes the moral vibration caused by tolerance is more intense than punishment."

At a certain age, you feel that you can win for a while; you can win for a while;

When you can support the boat in your belly, everyone you meet is your ferryman.

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