Destroying the most ruthless way for a person is to let him be abolished

Author: Insight · ELM

Whenever you make you better, the process is often accompanied by discomfort.

In the end of the Qing Dynasty, Hubei Youth Li Xingbao opened a braised duck shop with a red business.

The chef Li Zhengsheng was jealous and picked up the medicine in the halogen, causing hundreds of customers to have diarrhea, and Li Xingbao's business was also greatly hit.

Li Xingbao did not investigate thoroughly, and this matter was gone. Then he gave Li Zhengsheng a double salary and let him move from a humid kitchen to a spacious and clean account room.

Considering that Li Zhengsheng had not read the book and could not account for accounting, Li Xingbao deliberately arranged a assistant for him.

After that, Li Zhengsheng gave everything to the assistant to do it, and only need to accompany the guests to drink tea and chat every day.

Twenty years later, Li Zhengsheng sued the old return to his hometown, and Li Xingbao also set off a feast for him.

Li Zhengsheng was ashamed and confessed to Li Xingbao before leaving.

Li Xingbao laughed: "I knew it was you who had done it. Because of this, I wanted to stay in the store comfortably. Otherwise, with your craftsmanship, you can drive you away, you will definitely open a store yourself. I don't necessarily compete with you yet. "

It turned out that the most ruthless way to destroy a person was to keep him in the comfort zone until he was idle.

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Samuel once said that people continue to break through their roots, because they want the life and cannot get it at hand.

Many times, we are stagnant, not ability enough, but the appropriateness in front of our eyes. Give you an illusion that you don't have to work hard and live a good life.

In the 1970s, the sales of many McDonald's stores in the United States fell sharply.

After the president Clock inspected the loss of a loss, he asked to cut off the back of the office seat.

The assistant puzzled, Clock explained:

"Sitting on a comfortable chair, who would be willing to leave the office? Without the back, they sat in the restaurant for a long time, and they would naturally go to the restaurant to walk around, and it is easy to find the problem of operation."

In the next half of the year, the operating conditions of the loss of losses have improved significantly, and they have successively turned to profit.

Writer Wu Jun said: "No one can truly refuse the comfort zone, but some people will give themselves a reason to refuse themselves."

The determination to move forward is not forced to fight.

If a person wants to get out of the comfort zone, he must force himself to cut off the back of the chair.

There was a traveler who saw a tribe who was migrating.

Travelers ask the elders if they are no longer suitable for living because of the original place?

The elder replied: On the contrary, it is too livable there, which will make the people deserted the skills of survival.

It is necessary to move regularly to force people to maintain the skills of learning to survive, so that the tribe can always flourish.

The same is true from ethnic to individuals.

As the host Liang Ning said:

"The highest achievements have a very important talent -keeping themselves slightly painful at all times."

02

Boston University has done an experiment.

Each experimental participant will adjust the alarm to six in the morning.

Some of them put the alarm on the desk, and the other person put the alarm on the bedside table.

Two weeks later, most of the first group developed the habit of getting up early, and the average time to get up in the second group had almost no change.

Whenever the alarm sounds, people can instinctively reach out and turn off the alarm, and then continue to sleep.

But if the alarm is placed on the desk, you must leave the comfortable quilt to turn off the alarm.

In this way, people with no drowsiness will naturally start a new day of life.

There is a sentence in "Uplot": "Only when the ease in front of you cannot last, the talent will want to make a change."

Really powerful people are willing to take the initiative to break the comfort in front of them and force themselves to get out of the comfort zone.

When the writer Stephen was young, he walked for half an hour a day and read a book in a open space in Houshan.

Friends are puzzled, and you can read books at home.

Moreover, it takes an hour back and forth. If you stay at home, you can read more books.

Stephen replied: "So I can save an hour on the road, but it takes two hours to convince myself to refuse soft sofas and interesting programs."

Later, Stephen still maintained this habit.

When he wants to watch writing, even if he is raining on the road, he will leave the apartment and go to the company's self -study room.

The humble self -study room has no network, no fan, or even hot water.

But in such an environment, Stephen can completely cut off his thoughts and write a desk.

He said in an interview:

"I never feel that I am a self -discipline. I must create a less comfortable environment so that I can only do what I should do."

People always form an inertial thinking in a comfortable environment.

Even if you want to change, you will comfort yourself: No, even if you don't, anyway, it is good now.

Only by removing the stable safe haven and no choice of life, can it be sailed.

IBM cut off the only profitable project, forced himself to transform, and finally became the world's largest information technology company;

Li Ning gave up the iron rice bowl of lifelong coach and joined the clothing industry to have today's national sports brands.

When you take the initiative to escape the comfort of your drilling, you will calmly accept the suffering of growth.

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Remember the story of "Who Moves My Cheese"?

He is willing to endure hunger in the dark corner, just because someone will provide a small amount of cheese every day.

Once you stop the cheese, you have to be self -reliant, but you can cross the maze and find more food. Su Qin had emotion: "Make me in Luoyang two hectares of good fields, and Anneng Peng Six Kingdoms?"

Thinking of Daniel Rudy, who is short in the movie "Dream Chasing the Heart", he wants to become a rugby player.

In order to realize his dream, Rudy must be admitted to the University of Northon, Indiana, to join the university football team.

He resigned from the stable work of the steel factory, left his parents, and moved to the University of Northon to prepare for the exam alone.

Rudy explained to my loved ones and friends: "I can't use a comfortable life to deceive myself a lot of options. Today, I have no other way to go to college."

Because there is no money to stay, Rudy lives in the abandoned grocery room. He studies more than 10 hours a day, and he also has to make miscellaneous workers to earn living expenses.

The more difficult life, the more difficult it can stimulate him to double the effort.

Four years later, Rudy was admitted to college and had been a four -year sparring in the school team. He was finally selected as a formal player before graduation and got 27 seconds of playing time.

Some people say that it is not worth 27 seconds in 8 years.

However, Rudy became an inspirational speaker and best -selling writer with his study experience at the University of Northon, and established his own foundation in 1982.

Life is like this. A comfortable environment will only dispel the determination to grind.

Going out to fight, even if you do not have the wish, you can change your life in a better direction.

Human potential is forced.

Give yourself a reason to work hard to know how high you can stand on.

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Some people bring the carving eagle on the Amazon Plain home to support it, providing warm nests and top feed.

When the carving eagle grows, it can only fly on the roof, and the wings of more than two meters are bloated.

Shortly after the carving eagle growing in the wild, the bones of the wings will be broken by the mother eagle.

The young eagle had to desperately practice his wings, and he was congested through wings to regenerate the bones.

Only in this way can sculpting eagle grow strong muscle groups and fly to high altitude.

Whenever you make you better, the process is often accompanied by discomfort.

If you are now painful, tired, and bitter, please believe that you will meet yourself better.

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