Night Reading | You won't have everything, nor can you have nothing

Source: Nian Nian Mu Xin (ID: NNSG1021)

Author: Nian Nian

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When people reach a certain age, it is easy to feel lost.

The friends around him were getting away, and the intimate lover began to become nothing to say.

Even his youthful appearance, health and energy have been going downhill.

Looking back at the past, there are many beautiful memories, as if they are alive yesterday, vividly.

However, the story can no longer be repeated.

Things are non -affairs. Only the helplessness of "people do not know where to go, peach blossoms still laugh in the spring breeze".

No one likes to lose, but the loss of loss is like a black hole. The more you stare at it, the more it will continue to zoom in.

It is enough to make you ignore everything else in your hands.

For this reason, you are always trembling, such as thin ice, lest you lose more.

You have also forgotten the taste of happiness. Do only one thing every day, count the fingers of your fingers, and count all the things that have been lost in the past, and then pity yourself.

But the truth is obviously not all.

At the same time, we actually have something, but what we already have often not cherished and valued.

What really makes people feel sad and sad is not the end of someone and something, but the desire and unwillingness of my heart.

Why can others get it easily?

Why do people who stay in the place always have themselves?

Of course, there will be no answers to these questions. It will only turn you into the cage of obsession and let you live as a person who is scared.

In the corner of the garden, there was a wild flower bouquet driving gorgeously. When the fire monk saw it, he transplanted it into the flower pot and put it in the room.

He carefully took care of the flowers and watered it carefully, but did not expect that the flower died in just a few days.

When the Zen master learned, he smiled and comforted the lost monk: "This flower belongs to the heavens and the earth, it does not belong to you, but you can lose it if you want it."

If life is regarded as a school, it is a compulsory course for acceptance.

We have experienced pain and mature in the loss, so we understand that people cannot get it.

Some things are beautiful, but it is not suitable for you; some people are very good, but he just missed you.

If you are too persistent, you will only be counterproductive and torture yourself.

"I want to buy osmanthus with osmanthus and carry wine.

Yesterday, the regrets that could not be taken away, it was a final matter, and no matter how reluctant you were.

At this time, what we should do is to learn to change.

Seeing the growth of ability and wisdom while seeing the passage of the year.

The so -called acquisition and losses were born with each other.

When you are willing to think about problems from another angle, pay more attention to what you have around you, in fact, you will find that your life is also envious of others.

I like a word very much:

"Don't be greedy, you can't have everything; don't be discouraged, you can't have nothing."

Some things are not so bad in itself, because our mentality is too bad, we get lost.

I hope that for the rest of my life, you and I can never read the past, be afraid of the future, look at the loss of gains and losses, and live every present.

Author: Nian Nian, Nian Nian Mu Xin's original writer. At nine o'clock in the evening, pass the warmth with the sound, and heal the mind with the story. This article was first released (NNSG1021), and the article was reprinted by authorization.

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