Being a person should be a book, you have to focus on the table, but also take care of it

Author:Books and newspaper Time:2022.08.28

Wen | Zhuyu Anan

-The book and signing author-

Every time I open a good book, I feel unconsciously. Such a good book has devoted the effort of the author.

But in fact, if you think about it, we can write a good book ourselves. Why isn't our life a book?

In this book, the content of the life requires us to narrate one page by page. Whether the content is rich or not, or not, it is how you write.

The appearance of the person, such as the cover of the book

Have you ever had an experience in buying books because you like the cover of a book?

In fact, the cover of the book is like a person's appearance. We often emphasize not to take people with appearance, but in reality, the first impression we give people is often passed through the appearance.

There is a colleague who has a strong ability to work and knows the minds of leadership.

Once, the company participated in the bidding activities of a project, and the leader wanted to take her to learn. However, the leader made a request.

This colleague usually likes to wear sportswear, very comfortable and casual. This bidding review is a relatively formal activity, so the leader asked her to watch the occasion.

After listening to the leadership, colleagues set up a few sets of clothes. When she was wearing new clothes to work, everyone was bright, and her colleagues seemed to be professional and capable.

Since then, she has changed the style of dressing. Coupled with her strong ability, the leader is willing to give her more opportunities.

Now she can not only leave a professional good impression on the customer, but also make the work well and satisfy the customer. Promoting salary increase is naturally indispensable.

For the company, personal image not only represents individuals, but also represents the company. Therefore, the company's requirements for the image are taken for granted.

For individuals, we should pay attention to our own image in daily life.

Those who pay attention to the image are impressive and more likely to cause goodwill.

Those who pay attention to the image often emit a temperament from the bottom of their hearts. In the process of packing themselves, they know how to avoid their shortcomings and grow their own advantages.

In the subtlety, you will have higher requirements for yourself, so that you will get better and better.

People's goals, such as the catalog of books

The directory of a book is the shelf of this book. For the author, the directory can be determined to complete the content in the inside.

If you compare your life to a book, the directory of each chapter in the book is like the goals of our lives at different stages. Only by setting the goals can we better enrich our lives.

During the student period, neighbors Li Zhi was outstanding, but because of his publicity, everyone didn't seem to like him very much.

But his open personality is actually inseparable from his goals. As his good friend, he was fortunate to have heard his dream -he became a master of speeches like Anthony.

Therefore, in the case of no basis, he just practiced his own ability through constant expression, so that others thought he was high -profile.

Later, he was admitted to college all the way and still did not give up his goal.

During college, he used the spare time to walk around the motherland, and gave a lecture all the way to tell his dreams and tell the world story he saw.

After graduating, he founded a company and started his lecture course. I saw the style of his speech on the short video, and I understood that it was not the result of it overnight.

As the book of life needs a directory, it is the direction of our efforts and the guidance of our rich life. If there is no directory, writing life at will, and harvest will be a casual life.

Life with a goal is like we grab one end of the rope, then throw the other end of the rope to the target, and then climb along this rope to reach the target.

Conversely, a life without a goal is easy to lose effort, and eventually leads to no effort.

The connotation of life is the content of the book

Some books are unreasonable and read it for a moment. Some books are boring and tasteless, making people have no interest. These are determined by the content of the book.

And the content of our own life is naturally written by ourselves.

Xiaoye is my junior high school classmate. I used to enter the society early, difficult to distinguish people's hearts, and went astray with others.

In the end, the law punished her, and her life changed completely. She was very frustrated for a time, did she think her life was like this?

He is already an adult, but he cannot support himself, and he has to rely on family relief. Find a job everywhere, in the eyes of others, she is a bad girl.

Fortunately, she was not depressed because of this.

She understands that the life she wrote before can no longer be changed, but the future life will be created by herself.

She borrowed money from her parents to learn technology and promised to return within two years. She used a year to learn technology, worked to make money for one year, and returned money to her parents.

Two years are enough to make a person reborn.

She is no longer the girl with a low head, and she can also stand up to prove herself and prove that there is room for reversal.

Life ups and downs is not terrible. The terrible thing is that it has been falling to the bottom of the valley without self -rescue.

No matter how bad the current story is, how to write the next page depends on ourselves.

Every page of life requires us to write carefully. If the story is not satisfactory, then find a way to turn the story and develop in the ideal direction.

Opening this book in my hand, whether there is a flat story in it, or a fantasy trip, these are written by our own hands.The book of life was written by hand, the feet came out, the heart felt, and it was cast with time.