Night Reading | The best investment in life, but three pieces

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Some people say that forty -year -old is a paragraph of life. Before that, it was a period of "savings" in life.

After that, it is the "investment" period of life. You start thinking about how to invest in the experience of life and savings established before, including assets and invisible assets visible to the naked eye.

You no longer see everything like when you are young, but concentrate the firepower and bet on what you like.

The movie "A Mercy Crazy Confession" said: "People who can spend money know how to invest in themselves; and the real investing yourself is not to spend the money in the place where it reflects self -worth, but to spend on the most new value that can generate new value best to generate new value place."

For those who have entered middle -aged, they are just three: body, wallets and relationships.

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An engineer on Weibo shared his story.

In order to repay the mortgage in advance, he was particularly desperate at work, one time, staying up late for a week, and fainting at home under severe fatigue.

Afterwards, he said, "That morning, I only remember my wife's cry, and I couldn't forget this life."

A girlfriend is often worried about her husband: "I have to come back at twelve o'clock every night, and sometimes I am drunk. I am really afraid that he will die suddenly."

Every time he persuaded him not to make money with his life, he said, "I work hard, you and your children are more comfortable."

Everyone is carrying the pressure of survival and wants to live a better life, but often forgets that there is no health, everything is zero, the disease comes, and even dragging the family into a more difficult situation.

Schopenhauer said: "The biggest mistake that humans can make is to take health in exchange for other things outside the body."

It doesn't make sense to support a healthy body to support.

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Some time ago, it was promoted in the middle of the year. Many people's consumption enthusiasm is no longer before. Everyone's consumption is becoming more and more rational. A friend said:

"I used to say that when I have money, don't get big and big, I have to think about what to do when I have no money. Finally understood this sense of crisis. "

In the past few years, you can spend a month's salary to buy a new phone, you can use the credit card to pay for a big -name bag, but the happiness of buying a bag has passed at most a few months.

Now gradually mature, watching the number of bank cards is constantly rising, it feels more fragrant.

Working hard to make money and save money well is not only the ability to resist risks, but also the price that must be paid for life autonomy.

If you have money, you will not be trapped in a unfortunate marriage for a dependence; you will not reach out to others.

Making money is a kind of ability. Investment also needs to learn. Only if you read more books and insight can you continue to improve your ability to make money.

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Li Xuan said a very warm words:

"In this era, there is a tendency to let everyone alone. And this year I organize a party at home almost every week, and I often chat with friends on the street and drink with strangers. I provide all the help I can give to give me around People are not afraid of asking them for love. This year, my most important experience is to find a way to build watching around them. "

More and more people are accustomed to one person, as if they are omnipotent, but people always need family, friends, and face -to -face eyes and warm hugs.

The media has interviewed Li Chenyang, a notary officer who intended to be the first case of "connuncia for guardianship".

The so -called monitoring means that adults with complete civil behavior can negotiate with their close relatives and other individuals who are willing to serve as guardians to determine their guardians in writing.

Li Chenyang introduced: "Some lonely old people have property and pensions, but the nursing homes dare not accept it. Why? Now the body is good, what about a few years? Who signed him? This is a very real problem."

The notarization office he lives is 80 % of the cases of alone, or elderly groups such as losing independence, loneliness, and loneliness.

An old man in Shanghai left the real estate and property to the boss of the fruit stalls who took care of him, instead of the sister who was far away in Hainan.

People will experience countless changes and bumps throughout their lives. No matter how powerful you look, you will be powerful and exhausted. At this time, your family and friends can help you solve the actual problems. Comfortable and supportive people.

Spend more thoughts and energy for lovers and friends. We will harvest the most precious sincerity and warmth between people, and we will also gain the most rare watch and help.

Chen Pingyuan, director of the Department of Chinese Department of Peking University, said:

The book itself is fine, but the behavior of reading means that you have not fully agreed with this present and reality.

You still have the pursuit, still struggling, you are still dissatisfied, you are still looking for another possibility, another lifestyle.

Watching the years, waiting for the flowers to bloom.

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