The best outlook on life of adults: rare people, concentrate on making money

Author: insight allergy

The success or failure is dyed.

Tagore once told such a story:

A painter who is good at portrait painting refuses to sell paintings to his enemies.

But the Qiu family was looking for him three or five times in order to buy paintings, and each time they had fierce quarrels.

Over time, it is difficult for painters to concentrate on painting.

Because in his mind, he was all like an enemy, and even portrait paintings painted to others also had the shadow of enemies.

I really agree with one sentence: not entangled with bad people, live a valuable life.

The best outlook on life of adults is to be rational and concentrate on making money.

01

In "Poor Charlie Calendar", the author Benjamin Franklin wrote:

"A rotten apple, damaging a basket of apples."

When you allow "rotten apples" to appear in your life, you are actually acquiring their behavior and providing them with soil suitable for rotten apples.

A friend Darius Foroux, a well -known entrepreneurial instructor, is the CEO of a medium -sized and large -scale enterprise.

A friend told Darius Foroux that he made a mistake and recruited a person full of negative energy to his company.

Before that, his company's sales team's performance has always been good, and the growth goals have been achieved for five consecutive years.

The person he recruited back was very good in his personal resume. In the first six months after the employment, the sales performance was also very good.

But then, he began to slack off. The whole person was full of negative energy.

Over time, it affects the emotion and enthusiasm of other sales staff.

One and a half years later, the performance of the entire sales team was severely damaged.

When he finally made up his mind to fired him, it was too late, and the morale and hard work of the sales team had been difficult to return to the past.

I have seen a word in the book that energy is a valuable resource, and harm friends will be attached to people like a leech, and slowly suck your energy.

When a person's heart is full of negative energy, it will not only hurt himself, but also makes the surrounding magnetic field disordered and worse.

In life, you will inevitably encounter some people who consume us.

This person may be a colleague who loves to complain; it may be a friend who shouted to drink and bragging all day; it may even be your relatives who love to say three.

When you encounter such a bad person who consumes you, don't care about him, don't take care of it, just leave.

The stupidest thing in this life is: those who are not worthwhile delay their value -added.

02

I wonder if you found it?

The people around you are muddy, and you will have nothing to do all the day; the people around you are working hard, and you will also work hard.

As the famous Tang Dynasty minister Wei Zheng said, the success or failure of the standing was in dyeing.

What kind of gesture to keep moving forward in life often has a lot to do with the people around you.

A young man named Chris met a group of roommates who were keen on playing games when he first went to college.

Soon, he was addicted to the game, fell asleep, and stagnated his studies.

Occasionally, Chris met his friend Mark.

Mark loves programming and learning, either studying or studying.

After spending time with Mark, Chris gradually quit his obsession with the game.

Later, Mark invited Chris to create a social networking site in school.

A few years later, this website has more than 500 million registered users worldwide, and it has become one of the world's most influential social software.

This website is called Facebook. The young man named Mark is Mark Zuckerberg, the founder of Facebook.

Chris once sighed: "I met Mark and changed my life."

Without knowing Mark, he may still be a young man who can't extricate himself, maybe he is worrying about work now.

Maria Robinson said, "No one can go back to the past and start again, but everyone can create a new future from now on."

People who always put themselves in garbage dumps will sooner or later become garbage.

03

From the media@自 自 自, I said a word that made me feel deeply:

"We have to take the initiative to find those who can increase our energy rather than weaken energy."

At that time, Axiu met a colleague who had a significant impact on his workplace career in Baidu.

At that time, he participated in an academic project, and one of them was a well -known scholar.

His operation path is: send an invitation letter -not back -forget it.

Because he feels that he is slightly loud, these academician -level scholars do not agree to be normal, so he can only scatter the net to anyone.

But his colleagues were not like this, and the invited scholars sent an email and did not return:

When I heard this teacher run at the Tsinghua West Playground every afternoon, go to Tsinghua to find him and run with him for a week until he agrees;

When I heard the lectures and courses of this teacher, I went to the scene to discuss again and again, and took this teacher for a month until he agreed;

The teacher was wary of strangers, so he asked the teacher to introduce all kinds of friends ...

The scholars he wanted to invite were basically invited, and he also did a lot of follow -up work, and he had forgotten the annual friendship with many experts.

Axiu said: "He is like a rocket in his body. The huge enthusiasm does not allow him to turn around, let alone retreat."

Affected by friends, Axiu began to change a lot. When she encountered difficult things, she no longer gave up easily and forced himself to meet the difficulties. Philosopher Jim Ron once mentioned the five -dimensional theory of close friends.

That is, a person's wealth and wisdom depends on the average value of 5 friends who have close contact with him.

The talents that often interact around you determine your value and circle.

Reduce your energy to consume your energy and close your friends who can grow up can store energy for life.

04

There is a well -known law of attractiveness in psychology: the people and things that a person encounters is actually attracted by their own characteristics.

It is a sycamore that Phoenix will come to live; he is the sea, and Baichuan will come together.

Best -selling writer Yang Yanwen was a waiter in a restaurant.

Yang Yanwen likes to read and write. She hides in the corner to read and write in free time. She never goes shopping with other waiters to discuss the most popular clothes nowadays.

Over time, she was excluded and isolated by the girls who worked together.

After get off work, she was going to read a book in the library.

But she never ignored them, but turned those ridicule into her motivation to grow up.

She read nearly 200 books and insisted on writing an article on her self -media platform. Later, by chance, her text was watched by a publishing house and helped her publish her first book.

She finally relied on her own efforts to stay away from those who looked down on her.

A paragraph of the Internet is very hot:

"If your ambition is an eagle, don't just like the group in the hen nest in a group in the front courtyard of the court. Remember that your dream is to show his wings high and shuttle in the clouds. The place you are going to go is rivers and lakes, the horizon and the ends of the world. "

When you cultivate yourself, you naturally stay away from bad people.

When you block the useless information, you can naturally live as what you want.

Writer Zhou Guoping claims to be a otaku, and he has lived a boring life for decades.

In the early morning, he would go around the lake and walk around the lake, and then go around the table with his family to enjoy breakfast.

After the child goes out to school, after his wife goes out to work, he will stay at home and write.

Only one mobile phone with him, and most of the time he turned off the phone and devoted himself to creation.

In the morning and evening, I turned on the mobile phone to see the news and deal with related affairs.

He said that I have to write every day. Reading and writing not only occupy my time, but also occupy my soul. I have been doing it for decades. I also feel good and enjoy it.

Time is like a net. Wherever you sprinkle, wherever you have.

Lingling in noise is not only a disappointment of time, but also the disappearance of mind.

The most awakening of adults is to improve themselves at a limited time.

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Even if Bill Gates is busy, it will leave the time of "thinking week" within one year.

During this time, he would hide in a lake hut, cut off all social networks, closed the door closed, only used to read and think about, and study the next business decision.

There are too many bad things in life, and the main energy can be used in real important things in order to dig deeper.

If some gatherings disrupt your normal life, just refuse it directly;

If there are colleagues who often drag your hind legs at work, just stay away from him;

If a friend seriously affects your emotions, he invited him to his own life.

Like a praise. While you are still strong, you rarely rational and concentrate on making money.

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