The depth of a person is by no means a deep city, but a kind of temperament and heritage.

The depth of a person is by no means a deep city, but a kind of temperament and heritage.

2022-06-17 23: 24 · Qing Miao essay

Su Shi said: "Those who are in ancient times are not only the talents of the world, but also the will must be tenacious. Since ancient times, those who can become a big event not only have outstanding talents, but also have a tenacious will. Essence

In this life, it is impossible to always be smooth sailing, sometimes thorns, and sometimes the future. No matter where you are, you are a correct attitude towards life.

The way to walk, everything is full of moss, everything is changing. What is unchanged is the essence of life, and you can understand the eternity.

Prosperity is the coat of life, loneliness is the essence of life, passing through the hustle and bustle of life, and seeing the true appearance of life. After reading the ordinary, understanding life, understanding of loneliness, and understanding of life.

Zhuang Zidong said: "Good things may bring bad results, bad things may bring good results. Reality is like a huge oil painting. ","

If you are no longer limited to the fixed thinking of narrowness and habits, it is often not the difficulty and complexity of the result itself, but the perspective of our view.

When your thinking and perspective are liberalized, insisting on objective opening up, emotions can naturally be converted. Different angles will have different results, and bad things will have different fun.

"Zhuangzi" has a cloud, "well frogs cannot speak to the sea, and summer insects cannot be ice." The argument with the wrong people is both light and cheap, but also a waste of life.

When encountering misunderstandings, learning to be silent is to whisper to the villain, and it is also a silent cultivation of self -cultivation.

Facing malicious tramples and unseen prejudice, perhaps "silent victory" is the best answer. As Teacher Luo Xiang said, "People must accept their limited nature, and people's logic, rationality, and reading are limited.

Silent is the protection of self. Life is alive. The good deeds are always concerned about the lives of others, so speaking less is the protection of themselves.

Living in the era of the Internet that everyone is in danger, our privacy has actually been picked up. Therefore, if we do not pay attention to our words and deeds, we will always be rejuvenated one day.

In addition to the reasons, people are also an uncertain factor. Just as Dazaizhi is writing, "the timid ghost will be scared even happiness, it will be injured when encountering cotton, and sometimes it will be injured by happiness."

Sometimes, the happiness we mentioned casually, for others, maybe it is the weapon that stabs their self -esteem. Therefore, learning to silence is both protecting ourselves and protecting this relationship.

Silent is the shaping of the mentality "greedy" is the weakness written in human genes. No matter who it is, it is difficult to control yourself not to show off, and it is difficult to control yourself not to complain.

Therefore, learning proper silence can make our mentality healthier and make us more reasonable. Life is alive, and the blessing is always silent.

The "Xianglin Xun" in Mr. Lu Xun's writing, I am afraid that everyone knows that her encounter is regrettable, but it is endless that she can only reduce the patience and sympathy of others, and her mentality has also reiterated again and again. Among them, the more unhealthy.

If Xianglin can learn to be silent and try not to mention the damage as much as possible, maybe it may be time for a long time, and this incident will be blown up by years, and her mentality will not be so complained.

"Silent" in today's society is definitely not a derogatory term. It is a smarter choice and a more rational attitude.

Whether it is facing the sinking of others, no reason, or showing off the heart that you can't avoid, and self -reliance, silence is a good choice.

Silence is not cowardly, but knowing what is more important, not entangled with bad people. In the future life, I hope that we can "often compete with their fellows and not to discuss with fools."

The ancients said: "God is idle and calm, wisdom is deeply courageous, these eight characters are the ability to do big things." A lot of words must be lost, often those who are loud and show off everywhere basically have no true talent, and never estimate their own own. strength. After all, a person's ability is not how much he said, but how much he has done.

Screaming will not improve yourself. If you don't get well, you will be clumsy. Knowing the silence can you make your heart settle down and face everything with the best attitude. People who are really calm in their hearts rarely speak.

If you have experienced more things, people become calm and less words. There are some dumb people around us. Although not much words, they are particularly stable.

The ancients said: "Noble words are late", not saying that noble people speak too late. Instead, when encountering things, people with high realm always think first and then talk.

Life is alive. Three thousand prosperity, but for a moment, after a hundred years of clouds, it was a lot of yellow sand.

There are no, no one, no, in the end, in the end, the life is reluctant, and the end will be given up. In the days of living, it is not necessary to give up the pursuit of the last zero, but to see the true meaning of life and make yourself less obsessive and forced.

Many things do not have to chase deliberately, follow the laws of nature, happy and relaxed, live every day. If you should get it, you can't get it, you may wish to relax and relax the heart appropriately. Sometimes, we are anxious because we are not calm enough; sadness is because we are not strong enough; anger is because we are not generous enough; depression is because we are not open -minded.

Some people say: "The gods are quiet and hearthearted, and the heart is harmonious; the heart is stunned, and the heart is divergent." That is to say, when a person's heart is irritable, the square inch is chaotic, which will inevitably lead to abnormal behavior. According to reports, the correct judgment will be lost.

Conversely, the heart is calm and calm, and you can't hear the hustle and bustle of the outside world, nor is it interfered by his things, and words and deeds will not be lost and impulsive.

There is everything in the heart, everything is empty. Only those who keep their hearts peaceful are the most powerful people. Every time there is a calmness, it is for everyone. Only by letting your heart calm down can you understand his heart and benefit his ambition.

Being a man should be as light as clouds, and it is like a rock. When you should follow the fate, you can calm down the mind at will; the belief that should be defended is unswerving and religious belief. Between the heavens and the earth, you have to enlighten the avenue, and to standardize yourself.

Deep in the thoughts, you should retire first, and you can rest when you are proud. The potential is not enough, the blessing cannot be enjoyed, the cheapness must not be available, and the cleverness cannot be used. There is room for everything, leaving themselves with a retreat, and leaving a roundabout space for others.

Cause and effect reincarnation, never if you do n’t believe it, there will be no way, because the fate is not reported at this time, and at that time, it is never empty. In this life, I do n’t want to be deliberate for goodness, at least my heart has good thoughts. The mountains and rivers are beautiful, and the water clouds are simple and simple.

Life, from ordinary, is all virtual, from loneliness, all clouds. It is helplessness, but also the realization of life; realizing loneliness is pain, but also a clear love for life.

After reading life, you are far away from the troubles. In the year of not confused, in loneliness, you ask the meaning of life, sort out a messy life, and calm down the restless heart.

Life is not complicated, the complicated is human heart, the reality is not terrible, the terrible thing is ignorance. People, only when they hit the south wall can they suddenly open up. Only after half a lifetime can they get out of the fog.

Life is like a dream. After waking up, it is life. Only by crazy can you be at the moment. Only when you cry can you be mature.

In the first half of life, it is like a farce. The second half of life is a real life. In the first half of my life, living like a dream, life is like a sleepwalking. In this life, half of the dream, half of the wake, half of the virtual, half of it.

The essence of dreams is virtual, no root, no evidence, there is no way to say, life is like a dream, dreams are just a prelude to life, some dreams are long, some dreams are short, some people are in dreams in their lives, all their lives are in my life, my life is in my life, my life is in my life, my life is in my life, my life is in my life, my life is in my life. Sleepwalking.

The life in the dream is too painful, the life outside the dream is too lonely, the life in the dream, like the rushing sea, life outside the dream, like a quiet path.

Life hurried for dozens of years, half of them gave dreams, and half gave reality. The memory of the dream was the remaining temperature of the dream. Only when you walked out of the memories can you wake up thoroughly.

There is only one life once, and no matter whether the reincarnation exists or not, at least each of us must cherish and treat our lives. Do your best to go well, finish it, and improve yourself on the one hand.

On the one hand, as much as possible, the people around them are helped because of their own existence and getting comfort and joy. This may be the value and significance of ordinary people's lives.

Some people feel that they are very tired, because they have not been satisfied with what they want, and they must not be very painful. Then we have to start to reflect, these things we want.

Is it really so important? Where is the value and significance after getting it? How much did I really pay for it?

If this is your own greed, why can't you reduce it, and you have to make yourself so heavy?

If the value and significance of the future are not great, it is just to satisfy your vanity, to who to see for the so -called proof, or for your own desire to splurge, is this meaning really worthy of your giving?

Even if this is not greedy, the value and significance after getting are great, then ask yourself how much energy and time do you pay for it.

How much sweat sprinkled? If not, do you want to obtain it without working hard, do you have to get a little bit, do you have to get a great return?

All of the above are actually weaknesses of human nature. The greed is too heavy, the selfishness is too heavy, and he refuses to do it in the dead.

As long as you pay a diced point, you can get rich fruits. This is simply nonsense. Dreaming during the day is completely inconsistent with cause and effect.

Others felt too tired because in the past, irreparable things happened, so I kept tangling and endless aftertaste.

Do you have to know what kind of changes can your aftertaste in the facts change? Obviously impossible. In this case, why do you want to hurt yourself over and over again and to dispel time?

What you should do is let go of the past, focus on the present, really plan for your future, and then work hard step by step. Once you make yourself busy and do something on your hand.

I have ambitions and goals in my heart. Do you think you will still remember the past so leisurely? Your life will be a brand new, full of infinite and beautiful life. There is only one life once, please do not live so tangled. Let him pass in the past, let the beautiful dream in the future fill your heart, and give it firmly for it. You will definitely see an extremely good self. Essence

Being a person, knowing a little more self -knowledge, less self -affection. I can't help but make a smile, yes, people are knowing themselves, and they can know themselves more clearly.

What people are most afraid of is to make love, and love must not be used too much. If you use too much, you will become more affectionate, too deep, and even hurt people. It has been ruthless since ancient times, so it is better to be a person who is less affectionate.

You know, in the hearts of most people, you are not so important at all. If you overestimate your position in the minds of others, you will be upset and lose yourself in order to please others.

In life, people and people get along with each other, and their hearts are mutually mutual.

However, it seems that not everyone knows this truth. We should not be indifferent to you, but we should not be indifferent to you, and leave a last dignity for ourselves.

Be a person, don't think too much, don't think too much, in fact, you are not so important, don't think too much, there are not many people who really care about you, maybe in the eyes of others, you may no.

Many times, we have a psychology that is eager to be valued, respected, and recognized, and always unconsciously hopes or considers we are important, indispensable.

So in the dream world weaving, I am confident and passionate, and take myself seriously. But when I was bruised one day, I found out that I was so disappointed that I could ignore it. Some people say that the real maturity is not old -fashioned, but less self -affection and more self -knowledge.

The most rare thing to be a person is not clever, but knowing what you want, knowing what you want, and knowing what you can do. Therefore, it is important to have a clear understanding of yourself. Do not take it for yourself and be passionate.

"Appreciating a wise, knowing those out". Knowing self -knowledge is a kind of cultivation degree, and it is a wiseness to not be passionate. The most rare thing to be a person is not particularly clever, but to be self -knowledge, not to be passionate, know what you can do, and understand what you want.

Fools often think they are clever, while wise men have self -knowledge. However, many times, if you are not careful, you will make people confused. In some places, in some occasions, you know that the other party is perfunctory, but you lie to yourself. To reality.

In fact, living in the vulgar world, you and I are all ordinary people, and no one else may take you seriously. You in your mouth, that is not the real you, the real you, you should be able to face yourself and understand your you.

Therefore, we must know how to reflect on continuously so that you can know yourself more clearly and see yourself clearly. Those who like to be passionate are often lacking self -knowledge, and they are too overestimated, which leads to self -righteousness.

This is a narcissistic. You know, someone holds you, you are a cup; if you let it go, then you are a glass tadpole. Those who take themselves seriously will eventually feel disappointed, and their troubles will follow.

who do you think You Are? In fact, you are not so important. Maybe you are just a passenger in the lives of others. In this world, no one is whoever, and many times are the wishful thinking you think.

The existence of a person may be insignificant in the world of another person, perhaps just a breeze, a little fun. Under the situation at the time, it was embellished with the lives of others.

Without you, everyone will live well. Leaving this platform, you may not be nothing. Being a person, you are knowing yourself, don't be passionate.

The water is low and the sea is low, and the person is low as the king. If you lower yourself, your strength will bring you to you. If you work hard to be yourself, it is the root of being a person. It is the most wise manner of cultivation. Intersection

People, the biggest misfortune is not to know themselves. As the saying goes, there are people outside, and there is a sky outside the sky. He seems to be an inconspicuous person in Beijing. He may be the director or university professor; in Shanghai, maybe a cycling person is a billionaire. People should not be attracted, and seawater does not fight.

Aware of your shortcomings, see your shortcomings, and you can go further by doing things. Every day we face the mirror, to be in the right crown, and ask ourselves: Do you know ourselves?

The strong is low -key, and the weak show off. "Ge's words" said: "Husband's Gao Hua is only the fame. The scornful husband only shows off, but ask for all the costumes."

An explosive household showed off how rich and achieved it showed off in front of everyone. Do you not know that the three people standing in front of him have no downturn.

Hyphodia bamboo has a bowed head, and the proud plum has a face. People can have proud bones, and they must not be high. Humbling and learning, hiding the sharpness, the tightness of the light, and the accumulation of hair, which is the wisdom of life.

Some people enjoy the worship of others, forgotten why, do you not know that what others worship is not you, but their needs for you. Once you go down the altar, leave the position, and after the shelf life, you will be abandoned. Everyone sincerely worships great men and saints such as Mao Zedong, Wang Mingyang, Zeng Guofan, etc.

We often pay attention to learning and improve our literacy. There are two things that are different, that is, character and effort. If you lose money, you can earn it again. If you lose your character, you will lose everything.

When you encounter difficulties and setbacks, you ca n’t stop, you must summarize the lessons and lessons, and work harder. Character is the highest academic qualification, and hard work is the cornerstone of success.

Confucius said: "Ethics with both virtue, headed by virtue", "the source of virtue water is the wave of water." The world is unpredictable. The water depth is not flowing, and people are expensive. The three provinces daily, self -shown by the mirror, can be posted and lived in the present. Wish everyone peace and joy!

The peaceful mentality is a kind of wisdom, a life state that has long been constrained and self -cultivation.

Its existence is a manifestation of mature experience, and it is a phenomenon that transcends ordinary knowledge and ideological behavior. When a person really understands the law of life, then he can become calm.

Because he has developed the correct understanding ability, he can see the cause and effect of things more thoroughly through causality. He will no longer go to self -disturbance, no longer worry about pain, but becomes calm and firm.

People with peaceful mentality know how to control their words and deeds, and how to adjust themselves to adapt to others. On the other hand, they will respect your spiritual power and think that you deserve their learning and respect. If a person becomes more and more calm, he can achieve bigger and bigger results.

Even if an ordinary trader can cultivate a stronger self -control and calm ability, he can gain greater business prosperity.

Because everyone is always willing to do business with people who are fair. The peaceful mentality is a kind of wisdom. It is a state of life that has long -term self -restraint and self -cultivation.

People should not give up at any time. You don't know what surprises will be waiting for you in the future. You only need to work hard to live well, pass warmth and kindness to the people around you, and live a temperature. All the beauty in the world.

The early morning sunshine comes on schedule, which means that today is another good weather. The care of the sun is our benefits and free resources. We respect the love of the sky and gratitude. It should be the morality we should have. People always like to enlarge pain and ignore the subtle beauty in life.

Or the grace of enjoying the sun and rain, and ignore the little luck in life. Those who listen to the flowers say that there are not many flowers on the gardenia tree, and they are about to come to an end. This time has also become the past with the curtain of gardenia.

The flowering season of this one is never absent, and Yichihe Yun is waiting to bloom. If you want to see it as soon as possible, I believe that there is always a pool of lotus, just like the old people return. There is always a lotus. It is the long -awaited surprise in my text.

There is always warmth from the distance from the distance. It is the greetings of loved ones, the blessing of friends, all familiar and strange friends, unconditional love and attention, it is all far away and kind hearts, unknowingly, no, no, no Thicker and not faint, warmly traveling.

Maintaining a kindness at any time is a kind of goodwill for other manpower, and it is a kind of energy. Everyone will go through the high mountains and troughs. Your good deeds today are the blessings you have accumulated in the future.

Destiny paved the way for us, and the rest rely on your own practice. Your quality will guide your life, and the practice of your life requires the awakening of the soul.

There are thousands of things in the world. Don't shake your original intention because of negative things, let alone lose the kindness and sincerity of the heart, protect the good heart. Don't forget your original intention, always.

Most of the beauty in the world is static, flowers are quiet, the grass and trees grow quietly, the stars are quiet at night, the sun is full of the world, the late wind comes quietly, and the sunset leaves silently.

The sky is unspeakable, and the earth is speechless. Nature has always dedicated it silently.

The spirit of grass and trees is the most rare practice. Life is the most painful, but life is different, and the fate gives arrangements. That is a fixed number. It is painful, it is the most amazing practice. Everyone is a pawn of fate, and your destiny is tie your cause and effect.

The meaning of life lies in dedication rather than requesting. The significance of life lies in awakening rather than experience. Be a kind person, regardless of whether you are successful or safe in the future, do not give up this belief. The positive energy of your physical and mental will eventually allow you to meet your best yourself.

The elderly old man staggered, and their eyes were full of peace. Perhaps they had experienced too many storms in life, understanding the humanity, and washing the leadership, leaving only a indifferent heart to move forward. I always feel that the twilight years are synonymous with the era, the testimony of the year, and the spirit of a generation of dedication.

When Nian Hua is late, I only do my own return, understand that everything is used for me without belonging to me. The so -called quietness is good, it should be the right sun, the breeze is not dry, the time is dyed, and the body and mind are not good.

The fireworks on earth are the context of the years, the flowers are not, and the long summer. I hope you can find a coolness in this enthusiastic season. Ying Xiu, cooking wine, breeze crossing, good heart! Life, there is no smooth sailing, pressure, and hard work, and it is difficult for you to say the bitterness of exports. There is no Ma Pingchuan, there are changes, thorns, and fatigue you can't express. It is not easy for people to be alive. When we feel easy, it must be painful for us. When we were young, we were parents and people who loved us when we grew up.

But life is just a long way, you need to go alone. In this world, there are always people who guard us unconditionally, and there are always people who need to do our best to protect them. The responsibility on the shoulders cannot be lost, the pressure in my heart cannot be left.

Boiled, very bitter, but also a improvement. After spending it, you will renew from the inside out and have a lot of energy. It is very astringent, but it is also a kind of exercise. I have survived it. Those common gaps are no longer afraid.

In this life, you can defeat, but you can't lose, you can lose, but you can't admit it. Before letting go, encourage yourself, carry it for a while, support yourself, and go for a while! Remember, a good life is boiled from bitterness, maybe, you are only one step away from the goal!

"Zhuangzi · Zhibei Tour": "There is great beauty in heaven and earth, there is a clear law without discussion at four o'clock, and everything is reasonable."

Hua but not revealing, rich but not dazzling, expensive but not showing, is the greatest charm of a person who lives in life. People who are truly capable.

Being a low -key man is not only an attitude, a wisdom, but also a kind of strategy and responsibility. Only by knowing how to be low -key and dormant can we appreciate the beauty of the feathers into butterflies.

The same is true of life. The encounters of life have never been smooth sailing, along the way, and there are always many ups and downs of frustration to see the most beautiful scenery of life. When they are in unfavorable low positions, the wisdom of being low -key can help us out of trouble. The peak circuit turns. Realize the reversal of life.

The world has great beauty but does not need to be preached. It has obvious laws to operate at four o'clock without discussion. The changes of all things have ready -made rules without discussions.

If a person can understand this truth, all is purely allowed to be natural, not to be tired for gains and losses, do not argue your own credit, and do things silently. Such a person's life will naturally have "great beauty" and "the beauty of heaven and earth" like "heaven and earth".

Taoism thinks that you have done success and do not occupy credit. This is what Avenue tells us that the Dao produces everything but does not say that it has everything, but it does not think it is your own credit, but leads everyone to say that you are the master. In history, Taoist figures do this. Such as Zhang Liang, Fan Ye, and so on.

The best state of life: I do n’t love in the past, do not stain now, do not worry about the future, the best state of life, the best state of life, not in the past, do not worry about the future, not to be addicted to fantasies, do not blame the future, go under your feet Road, live a good present life, this may be the best state of a person!

"When the day is so bad that it can't be broken, it will get better." Just like a person falling to the bottom of the valley, how hard work is up.

This does not think of Su Shi's: "There is no wind and rain or sunny, and the smoke rain is rained." What kind of departure should a person go through so that you can have such a transcendent feelings and realm?

"I am turbid in the world, I am alone, and everyone is drunk. I wake up alone." The vast world, I am so transparent as Qu Zi, I don't want to combine with the same world. For those who do n’t understand, no matter how much you speak, it is not as nonsense as you keep in real time.

As the saying goes: "Zi is not fish, the joy of the fish". Zi Fei, how do you know my mood. The world is its own, and it has nothing to do with others. "All beings look like everything, but they are not as loyal to you."

Whoever likes you is not as much as you like yourself. Others like you are only outside. Only if you like yourself, agree with yourself from the bottom of your heart, and fall in love with yourself, can you live? It exudes a charming light, and it is not easy to want to live in their hearts and ignore the rumors of others.

I remember that Zhuangzi once said, "The world has great beauty and nothing, and there is a clear law without discussion at four o'clock. Time is the best filter, and it will leave the most true thing, just like people who pay attention to fate.

People often say that things are gathered, people are divided into groups, and people who argue with people at different levels are unnecessary consumption, and they will only increase their troubles.

Some people say: "It's like arguing with people at different levels right or wrong, it is better to agree with him, and let him go further and further on the wrong road."

Because you can't change a person, just like you can never wake up a person who pretend to sleep. Therefore, we must remember that never argue with people of three views, and never communicate with people at different levels.

You are just you, you are unique to you, you do n’t see others, let alone others understand you. The key you need to understand yourself. This is enough. If everyone understands you in this world, what do you have to look like?

Live your heart and live yourself. If you are grass, don't rather be compared with the tree. If you are a tree, why fight with the grass. If the words of others can control your thoughts, it means that you are not firm enough. If you care about the rumors of others, you can only show that the height of your mind is not high enough. In this life, it is not for others to see others, but to see himself. It is the biggest ability to live as himself.

In this life, the best state is that it is not in love, the present is not dyed, and the future is not worried. You and I are a hurried passenger in the world. It is complete at the moment.

There is great beauty in heaven and earth; there are clear laws at four o'clock; everything is reasonable without saying. In the reincarnation of the seasons, the free value of life, Zhao Yin in the natural trend, conforms to it, respects it, thinks of it, realize it, and understand it.

Is the alternating life evolution of the four seasons, and does it have some laws in accordance with the operation of human body? Nature does not, treat life in accordance with the laws of nature, and seems to be omnipotent.

For beauty, it can shock people's hearts, such as the statues of the caves of the Chinese dynasties; or the inscriptions of calligraphy and calligraphy with emotion; or through the ages.

Such as the ingenuity of the literati case, they are enduring and comforts countless future generations. Aestheticians from ancient times to the present have their own aesthetic consciousness, and no matter what form, they are pleasing to themselves.

In Xizhe Kangde's view, "beauty has nothing to do with the joy of subjective emotions", and Wang Guowei said: "The nature of beauty, cute play but not available". In their eyes, the value of beauty lies in the aesthetics itself itself , Instead of involving any material functions, the heart is clear, but there is no go and not beautiful.

Jade is moist in the mountains and plants, and the pearls are not withered. ——Izi. The Chinese have endless admiration for the United States. It is a belief that the ancestors have adhered to. For example, Confucius said: "Content in poetry, stand in courtesy, and entertain" is the beauty of Ya Zheng;

Zhuangzi said: "The heavens and the earth are beautiful without saying, and there is a clear law without discussion at four o'clock.

And whether it is the moral article of Confucianism or the Laozhuang's heaven and earth, it allows every Chinese to find an exit. Aestheticism is the most free relationship between individuals and the world. It is the best choice that individuals can make when facing limited life.

With beauty as the belief, life can extend a broad life. May you live with a good life with a aesthetic effort, and live a sunny day in those days that are moist and not withered.

Everything and people have internal and external words. The inside is substantial, the outside is the surface, which is the positive and negative sides of the thing. And smart people often use this to disguise and achieve the purpose of deceiving each other. If you don't want to be controlled by your opponent, you must learn to see the other party's disguise in a timely manner.

We can despise the bad behavior of villains, but we must not admit that villains can often be proud. For a while, we cover the sky with one hand. If you want to uniform strong opponents, the eggs are about to touch the stones, you still try not to do it well; hopeless fighting, sometimes it is better to wait silently.

As the saying goes, staying in the mountains, not afraid of no firewood, eliminate the imminent disaster, and will be more responsible in the future. Seemingly fierce and unconvinced villains, although they are cunning, it is difficult for them to resist the law of justice.

Taoist Roukegang is a means. Softness is rigid, weak is to be strong, with softness and softness, this is the essence of softness. Many people have been talking about this since ancient times, and have tried it repeatedly. The way of heaven and earth, rigidity and softness, this is a philosophical problem, a practice, or a tactics.

The cowardly people may be soft and rigid, and the tough guys may also be softened, which depends on what specific situation is in. Smart people lived in the world for the sake, just to attack.

Hugging before and after, it is impossible to live, no matter how big the scene is, it is the power, not your own, the real strong, not angry, prestigious, strict, itself comes with a deterrent aura.

There are two kinds of people who are in awe; one is the fox fake tiger power and the fighter. It is only a momentum that others are afraid, and it is impossible to interact with you, but the scene on the face. The second is those who have strong strength but hidden. They are always calm and dripping, and they are respecting people.

As soon as people get the momentum, they are easy to forget and be high. Except for the dirty power, they can't put the location of anyone, honor, disgrace, and bottom lines in their eyes. Everywhere I go, we wear a mask that is high and unable to live, but mosquitoes and flies in midsummer do not know.

These people have a commonality, that is, if they are stinky, they tend to be ashamed. On the surface, it seems that the scenery is infinite, but it actually enjoys the encounter with "crossing the street mouse, everyone shouts".

They are the strong of material, but they are the weak of the spirit; they are shallowers of life, and they are short -sighteders in life. The flowers are not fragrant for a hundred days, the wind is not crazy for a while, the warmth and warmth, and the fourth time is the norm of life.

Zeng Guofan often abstains himself; "In the adversity, all the need for pills in the whole body, and the festivals are not conscious; in the country, you can do his best in front of you. There are unexpected situations, and people have a good blessing. We must be in danger, and we must be prepared.

Zeng Guofan has been a very person, but he is very low -key and self -discipline. It is awe of life. When you are in the right place, you have come to adversity. You need to watch the sixth road and listen to the eight directions as you are in the battlefield. Essence We all have desire and selfishness. This is not terrible. What is terrible is that we have no bottom line and scale to condon this kind of selfishness. Intersection

Really powerful people often look like the abyss water.

When they are in height, there are no villains that are arrogant. When you treat people, you always make you like a spring breeze. When you speak, you are polite and not chaotic.

At the low place, they did not complain about the heavens and people, and they were decadent and fell. They were often indifferent to their strengths. They had the nature of plums and chrysanthemums.

Those who have the power and noise are like Xia Chan's Mingxin. With the potential of Xia Chan, the felling leaves can sound the alarm of the curtain. Strong.

People who are really amazing are not attached to the situation. Spring is coming to enjoy flowers, the wind comes to listen to rain, the autumn to the chrysanthemum, the winter is over Yingxue.

Zeng Zi said, "My three provinces and my body are conspired and dismissed? Do you believe it with friends? Is it possible?" In fact, whether it is learning or doing a career, even if it is a trivial matter in life, get along with people, get along with people, and get along with people with people. We all need such a kind of wisdom, my three provinces.

Life is a continuous practice process. Only by continuously improving yourself can you keep pace with the times. When you get better and better, you will encounter better people and things, so your life trajectory changes quietly in the meditation.

Just like this world is an unknown world, but it is also a world -knowing world. No one can understand since birth. Whoever knows that people are born, who can be confused. So in the process of continuous exploration, your understanding of this world is a bit more. When your level of cognition is getting higher and higher, there will be a little more calm in life.

Life is always accompanied by risks. It is in this journey of blessing. We must continue to improve our cognitive level, constantly self -cultivation, and hard work.

A person's itself will always have such problems. If you do n’t have a habit of self -reflection in life, you will often fall into a standby person. Often the reason is not found.

In fact, in our lives, the biggest enemy of a person's lifetime is ourselves. Do not establish too many imaginary enemies in life. You have to continue to treat yourself as a real opponent, and your shortcomings and shortcomings are the direction you try to overcome hard. Essence

But many times, what people do not know about themselves are themselves, even when they know others in many places, they are like a few treasures. In the TV series of Tiandao, Ding Yuanying said: "You don't know you, you are you; when you know you, you are not you."

It can be seen that more researching ourselves is the most important subject in life. Even if some people spend their lives, they often understand themselves in depth, because he always nails more experiences and vision to the outside world, and naturally lacks the wisdom of endlessness.

No matter what kind of industry you go to, no matter whether you are big or small or family trivial matters, when you face them, you will encounter more or less confusion. If the reason for the problem is on you, then you must remember it more in mind Afterwards, the right medicine was prescribed, and the road of life afterwards can gradually be smoother.

Just like when a person is studying and studying, I can't remember some knowledge points. Some theories can not be able to raise one or three even if I have mastered it. To study, you will naturally get better answers and methods.

Confucius said: "Learning without thinking, thinking without thinking, but not learning." Einstein also said: "On the road of scientific exploration, sometimes a question is raised, which is often more important than the answer to the question."

These seem to be telling us that you have to develop the habit of often reflection in life, just like Zeng Zi said that the three provinces of my day and my body, your quality of life naturally has more guarantees, and the path of life will gradually go. Some.

The complexity in life requires us to constantly summarize experience and accumulate sufficient wisdom of life, so as to face risks to be calm and not humiliated.

Just as what we see in the book: people are paying for their own cognition in this life, every penny you earn is derived from your cognition; and everything you lose penny.

It is due to the defects of your cognition. Even if one day has obtained wealth beyond cognition with a little luck, it will be put into east flow because of exceeding your cognition one day.

If a person does not know how to reflect in his life, he will definitely face a continuous dilemma of life, and often can't find a way to solve the dilemma, that is, the ability to break the situation is not enough. Worrying, risks are constantly inevitable. This has to let us sigh that why Xiao Yawen is the last winner in the heavens. She never gives up any opportunity to contact experts and does not give up every chance to study and awareness.

As she said in the play: "Knowing this person is to open a window, you can see different things, hearing different voices, which can make you think and awareness, which is enough.

There are many others, such as opportunities and help, I'm not sure. This may not be important to ordinary people, but I know this person is very important. "

The wisdom in life often needs to ask inward, rather than blindly pursuing it. Just as nature gives us a pair of eyes to watch the world, but the more important ability of the eyes is to understand our hearts.

Just as we have one mouth and two ears, it means that you must learn to say less and listen, so that you can gain more wisdom and answers.

The more we survive in an era of information bang, the more we need to develop the ability to think deeply. We can find a little light in the fog of heavy mountains and worship daily.

mutual encouragement!

Author; Qing Miao

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