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The so -called confidante, has nothing to do with the face value

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Those who trigger a sense of intimacy

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Numerous men are poisonous, hoping to have a gentle and intimate confidant -she is as smart as Yun Niang in "Six Ji", Liang Hongyu in "Double Lie", and treats feelings like "Yi Tian Tu Long Ji". Zhao Min, as well as fame and wealth, as dung ... Usually such a "middle second" symptoms will gradually disappear with age, but there are also many people who have not been able to reduce fever for life. For example, in the early years, some investors issued a publicity declaration for "Hongyan confidant". In recent years, real estate gangsters have been cooking red -roasted meat for "red -faced confidantes".

There are also people who eat melon feel that some parties who have been involved in the gossip vortex are not outstanding, neither beautiful, nor the talents of the cone, and the name of humiliating "confidante". Such discussions often extend to some celebrities' spouses, and others wondered these people who seem to be very ordinary. Man is Zhu Xijun, the Ming Shenzong.

At the age of 16, he met Zheng Guifei, a "red confidant", who had lived in his life. Until he died, he had been inseparable from Zheng Guifei in the past 40 years and was deeply affectionate. Zheng Guifei is not beautiful, but the two are like the young children of the people. They often hold their hands in front of the Buddha statue worshiped in the palace. The ancestral system of the Ming Dynasty, the emperor's mausoleum had only three positions, one was the emperor himself, the other was prepared for the queen, and the other was the biological mother of the emperor.

In order to be buried with Zheng Guifei after his death, Ming Shenzong tried his best. The queen was not healed for a long time. The Ming Shenzong seal Zheng's concubine, that is, to prepare the queen to die, Zheng Guifei can make up for the queen. However, the queen died only three months earlier than Ming Shenzong. Only when the Prince Zhu Changluo was abolished and the son of Zheng Guifei was successfully buried, he could be buried with Zheng Guifei. However, the ministers resolutely opposed it on the grounds of "shaking the country", and the Ming Shenzong, who could not do so, was awkward with the ministers. As far as love is concerned, he is much greater than the emperor who has only heavy colors such as Tang Xuanzong.

Zheng Guifei, who looks flat, attracts the Ming Shenzong so much? The answer is not complicated at all. Zheng Guifei is the only one who treats him Zhu Xijun as a person. It is not a national machine, a moral model, and a furnishings on the court, but an ordinary person with flesh and emotional needs. Many people start their relationship and projected the hard standard of "face value" into emotions. From the beginning of contact, they will pay special attention to the opponent's shortcomings, and then deny the other party. Only those who know how to tolerate each other's imperfections and establish a close relationship with them will get a spiritual deed, and they will know each other.

The so -called confidant confidante has nothing to do with the face value, but has a linkage effect from intimate communication, and people who cause each other's intimacy. Just like Zheng Guifei, he can ignore the external aura of the Ming Shenzong, pass through his heart, and understand his embarrassment and distress. In front of her, the emperor does not need to live a fake manner every day, always playing a moral role, and you don't have to worry about no conscience friends. No one tells the distress of his heart, how can he not try to report to such a person?

Similar to it, British writer Gybelin. His wife Kelly is an American, with ordinary appearance. The combination of the two has encountered a lot of resistance. The woman's parents were not assured that her daughter was married to the other end of the ocean, while the man's parents felt that the son found a "American villagers". However, Kelly worshiped Jimblin's talents for three years, and gave up the right to inherit the property of the mother -in -law. At the age of 30, she married 27 -year -old Gilprin.

After marrying to the United Kingdom, Gybelin's friends did not like Kelly. They felt that she had a strong possessiveness and rarely made Gyprin come out to contact others. But emotions have always known as people drinking water. Jiopalin not only willingly stayed with his wife every day, reduced social activities, and he was weak in personality. He was also well protected by a smart and powerful wife. He won the Nobel Prize in Literature at the age of 42.

Tang Bohu's poems in the Ming Dynasty said: "Every horse goes on the man, and his wife is often accompanied by the husband." The world often feels confused about the phenomenon of marriage that he can't understand, but he does not know that this is actually a kind of life of life. Floom's "The Art of Love" said: "Unburreous love is because I need you, so I love you. The mature love is because I really love you, so I need you." This is also a "confidante" for "Hong Yan confidant" The best explanation.

Send 2022.6.20 Total Issue 1048 "China News Weekly"

Magazine title: Hongyan confidant

Author: green silk

Edit: Wang Xiaoxia

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