The highest -level living method: convergence of the heart, the words of words, sensitive to acting

Author: Ciyu

If you are cautious, you will be safe, and things will be done.

"Huainanzi" has a saying: is meticulous, unsatisfactory, choose good and then engage in good.

If you are living, you should have both inside and outside the outside world.

A high -level living method of a person is: converge in the heart, talk about words, and be sensitive.

01

Converge at the heart, light but not shine

There is such a story in Zhuangzi Xu Wu Gui.

Wu Wang boarded the Monkey Mountain by boat, and the monkeys saw Wu Wang, and they fled in panic.

Only a monkey relying on agility and dexterity, he was free to show off in front of King Wu.

Wu Wang ranged the archery, and after hitting, he let the followers catch up. In the end, the monkey died tragically under the arrow.

Wu Wang and his friend Yan Yan said:

"This monkey showed off in front of me so that you were killed. You have to be a precepts, not arrogant and rude."

Yan Budi noticed his heart, and later worn off his pride in three years, became humble and peaceful, and praised by the time.

Many people, like this monkey, are self -proclaimed a little, and no one is in the honor.

Blindly showing the ability and showing off talent, often recruiting themselves.

Shen Deqian, a literati in the Qing Dynasty, was not admitted to Jinshi until the age of 67. He had reached the age of retirement, but was focused on the Emperor Qianlong because of his poetry.

"Once I got the Dragon and Tiger List, I arrived in Phoenix Qi for ten years."

Qianlong even agreed that Shen Deqian's request for his parents begging for his parents also gave three generations.

When Shen Deqian told the old age at the age of 80, Qianlong again named the title of the Ministry of Rites; at the age of 90, Qianlong was promoted to the prince.

Both the gas are strong, and the heart is full, so you should avoid dew.

No matter how big the honor, it will be arrogant.

Later, Shen Deqian relied on Qianlong's grace, often proudly showing up, and helped those who were rebellious.

In the end, Qianlong's anger was attracted, the title was captured, and the tombstone was pushed down.

As "Zhuangzi · Geng Sang Chu" said, the birds and beasts are tireless, and the fish is not tired.

It is easy for Peng Bird's wings to protect themselves; fish tadpoles swimming in the deep sea, it is difficult to attract attention.

A person's way of protecting his body is that he is talented, light and not shining.

02

Neat words, be cautious

When Confucius traveled to the country, when he watched the ancestral temple of Taizu, he saw a copper -cast portrait on the right side of the steps, and three seals were affixed to his mouth.

On the back of the copper man, there is also a line of inscriptions:

"Ancient Career speakers also, abstain from the abstinence; no more words, more words and defeat."

After Confucius, he often taught his disciples, keep his mouth, and avoid unnecessary scourge.

The more transparent people, the more they know that words must be timely, words must be moderate, and words must be moderate.

As the saying goes, it is safe to say with caution.

One day, Wang Xizhi's three sons, Wang Huizhi, Wang Caozhi, and Wang Xianzhi went to visit the general Xie An.

During the banquet, Wang Huizhi and Wang Caozhi talked, while Wang Xianzhi simply said a few words, and then silent.

After the three left, the guests here asked the general: "Who has the most promising after these three wise men?"

Xie An said, "The best one."

The guest asked curiously: "How do you know this?"

Xie Anyan said deeply: The wise people are dumb, and the impatient people have more resignation

Zeng Guofan pointed out in "Zeng Guofan's Family Book":

In the ancient times, the losses were about both ends: said Chang Ao, saying more.

Hold your mouth, it is a lifetime practice.

The distinction between the realm and the difference between cultivation is often at the moment of opening their mouths.

03

Affairs, do not delay or be lazy

Kangxi talked in his later years:

"That is to say, if you leave one or two today, you will be more or two tomorrow."

For decades, he has always adhered to the principle of "today's events and today", governing political affairs to well.

Diligence is not difficult in the world, and it is difficult to get easy to drag.

Procrastination has become a stumbling block and a road tiger in many people's lives.

Liang Shiqiu is a translator of Shakespeare.

He originally planned to translate two Shakespeare's works every year, and completed the task for 20 years.

But because of laziness, he spent 30 years.

He laughed at himself that the reason why the translation was completed is because he lived for a long time and was very thrilling.

After the translation was completed, although he still had other jobs, his physical strength gradually declined, and he felt strong.

Liang Shiqiu regretted it, thinking that if he was young, he could constantly spur himself, and his achievements would definitely not last.

There is an endless period of heaven and earth, and life has a poor period. It was wasted for one day.

As soon as a person is dragging, it is easy to become lazy, and it is easy to turn yellow when things are dragged.

There is a well -known monk in Japan called his pro -people.

When he was nine years old, he asked the Zen master to shave for him.

Master Zen asked, you are still so young, why do you become a monk?

My parents said that my parents have died. I don't know why people must die. Why must I separate from my parents?

In order to understand this reason, I must be a monk.

The Zen master nodded happily, and promised, I was willing to accept you as an apprentice, but it was too late today. Tomorrow tomorrow morning, shave it for you.

The pro -minded said, Master, I am still ignorant, and I can't guarantee whether the determination to become a monk can continue until tomorrow.

Moreover, you are so old, you can't guarantee whether you are still alive when you get up early.

After listening to this, the Zen master couldn't help nod.

The delay is time, and the fighting spirit is overwhelming.

The so -called is a lazy world.

Three days of fishing, two days of sun exposure, destined to find nothing.

Being diligently and diligent in doing things, and doing things clean, can avoid small things and become difficult.▽

There is such a sentence in "Senior Records":

"Doing things cannot be stunned, the conversation is not cluttered, the soul is not anxious, and life can be stable and worry -free."

To face life calmly, keeping your mind to cultivate your mind is the law of life; if you do not drag down, it is the way to achieve things.

Like a praise, practice your words and deeds in Hongchen Dao Farm, and achieve a great realm of life.

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