After watching "Piao" 3 times before understanding, why should a woman make a living and then love?

In 1935, in a small apartment in Atlanta in the United States, the writer Margaret wrote the last line and completed her first and only novel in her life.

The editor who came from New York after reading a whole box of manuscripts in one breath immediately signed a publishing contract with her.

The following year, the novel called "Piao" was born, breaking all the publishing records at the time, and was later moved to a large screen.

The story in "Floating" happened before and after the American civil war. The protagonist Scarlett was happy and worry -free since childhood, and the arrival of a war completely disrupted her life.

The homeland was overwritten, the mother died of illness, and her father was mentally abnormal.

In a series of brutal blows of fate, Scarlett was forced to transform into a savvy and capable female businessman from Miss Gui, who has supported the excellence.

In order not to bear the hunger and hungry, she did not choose to make money desperately. In order to get rid of the dilemma, she even married a man he did not love.

The book "Piao", I read it 3 times before and after.

The first time was in high school. At that time, I was not in the world, and I was deeply convinced of Scarlett's tenacious life toughness;

Later, I read the workplace involved in the work of college and experienced social poisoning. From the ups and downs of Scarlett, I felt the cruelty of fate and the impermanence of the world;

Now that I am about to enter the door of middle -aged, I turn back and forth in my family and work, tired of running, and often feel that I am not happy.

When I opened this book again, but I got completely different feelings from the uncomfortable marriage of Steeli.

1

People who don't know how to love themselves are destined to love others. The protagonist Scarlett has grown up in the Tara Manor since she was a child. She was loved by her parents and had no worries.

As one of the best beauties in the local area, Scarlett is close to more than half of the young boys.

The boys had a warm pursuit of her, and they were proud of her heart, but only her neighbors Aixi was in her heart.

Aixi is beautiful and extraordinary, not only proficient in riding and dancing, but also full of poetry, calmly self -sustaining, and looks excellent among men.

In the past two years, Aixili will visit the Tara Manor almost every week to accompany Scarlett to the ball and go out for an outing.

Although Aixi never confessed to Scarlett, he has always been gentle and considerate, and Scarlett always believes that he loves himself.

Just when Scarlett fantasized that she was able to cultivate with Aixi, she suddenly received the news of Eshel and his cousin Melani engaged.

For Scarlett, this is no different from the thunderbolt.

She was unwilling to give up, pretending to attend Aixi's engagement banquet, secretly expressing her love to the other party, and hoped that Aixi would be elope with herself.

Unexpectedly, Aixi rejected her firmly.

Scarlett was ashamed, slapped the other party fiercely, and fell into a piece of pieces on the table.

She couldn't accept that she could not get Aixi, and she couldn't accept her diligence. She was laughed at by other ladies.

There is only one thought in her mind at this time: she must save her face!

At this time, Scarlett, as if a drowning person, appeared as long as there was a life -saving straw, would catch it regardless of everything.

At this time, Melanie's cousin's cousin appeared.

Charles is shy, and almost no girls are willing to get close to her, except for Scarlett

He confessed to Scarlett, hoping to marry Scarlett as his wife.

In order to retaliate against Ai, Scarlett immediately agreed to Charles' proposal.

She attempted to use this sudden marriage to make Aixi regret it. To this end, she also rushed to hold a wedding before Aisi.

In just two weeks, Scarlett hurriedly married his wife.

But in less than two months, Charles appeared in the army and died of illness during the march, and she became a widow.

Charles's death did not bring much sadness to Scarlett, leaving only her endless confusion in the future.

Scarlett understands that this hasty marriage is just a meaningless farce.

The saddest thing for a woman is not to encounter love without results, but to know that there is no result, but also gamble on the happiness of her life.

Continue to consume yourself in the unwavering relationship, in order to face your face, and degenerate from being willing.

Those young and ignorant choices often need to use their lives to pay.

2

Those who take marriage as tools will eventually become a tool for marriage. If Scarlett's first marriage was destroyed, the second marriage was lost to life.

After Charles died, Scarlett was invited by Melani to live in Atlanta.

Unexpectedly, the fire continued to spread, and the danger gradually approached.

After Atlanta fell, Scarlett returned to Tara Manor with a fire.

At this time, the courtyard was messy, the servants fled, and the food was ransacked.

The night before Scarlett arrived, the mother spoke to the world. The two sisters couldn't afford to bed, and the father became mentally confused under the strike.

Overnight, Scarlett was forced to become the only pillar of the family from the Joliao Miss Gui.

She forced herself to be strong, began to learn to be the master, and tried to solve the dilemma in front of her.

Without food, Scarlett was looking for wild vegetables without income. Scarlett took a group of people to pick cotton.

In the future, a little bright, but immediately ushered in a disaster.

After the fall of the south, the situation was chaotic. The supervisor who had been fired by his father before turned over. In order to retaliate, he levied up to $ 300 in taxes to the Tara Manor. But how can she afford this high woman?

Scarlett has no dignity, and only one skin is still valuable.

In desperation, you can only use your own paper marriage contract to get free worry about the manor.

She ripped off the velvet curtains, made a gorgeous dress, hid from everyone, and came to Atlanta.

Her goal is that she has a good impression, and her waist is full of wealthy merchants.

But in the inquiry, it was discovered that Ryde was arrested by the northern government.

Instead of success, Scarlett found her sister Saeline's fiance Frank again.

At that time, Frank was running his own shop and was planning to propose to Surlen.

Scarlett knew her sister. After she married Frank, she would not get money to relieve her home.

If you want to get funds, there is only one way, that is to snatch Frank and take over the money yourself!

Scarlett coaxed Frank, saying that Surlen had been empathized and wouldn't be in love, and she was about to marry another person.

Two weeks later, Scarlett married Frank as expected, and with the help of Frank, she paid a high price tax.

After getting married, Scarlett wanted to make money, but Frank wanted her to teach her husband; Scarlett had always been independent, but Frank tried to control her words and deeds.

The contradiction between the two of them. For Scarlett, this marriage that is divine and divine has endless quarrels and deep loneliness. There is no so -called love at all.

Choosing a compromise marriage for material is destined to write all kinds of unsatisfactory.

In this life, there is no right to pursue happiness without the capital of life; without the confidence of independent life, she will lose the freedom to choose marriage.

In the end, he can only be trapped in the cage weaving himself, consuming his life in remorse and regret.

3

If you have the ability to make a living, you can be qualified to love. Not long after marrying Frank, Scarlett found that Frank did not have much talent for business at all.

The shops in his hand were countless, and the profits were very meager.

While Frank dyed the influenza bed in bed, she slowly took over the management of the shop and saved the trend.

At that time, it was reconstruction after the war. The business of wood was very hot. Scarlett fancy a wooden factory and wanted to take it down to operate it, but he had been suffering from no funds.

Ryde, who has been eluted to get out of prison, heard the news of Scarlett's wanting to open a wooden factory, and lent her money to her without hesitation.

With this funds, Scarlett bought a wooden factory and became the boss in the opposition of everyone.

She showed up to talk to the man, hiring prisoners under pressure to work as a labor, and even paid the northern government in order to make money or even hesitated.

Scarlett's savvy and iron -fists showed to the fullest in the business field. She quickly made enough funds and bought another wooden factory.

When everything slowly entered the right track, the accident suddenly struck.

After Frank handed over the business, he hid Scarlett to join the 3K party, and he died in a operation during an operation.

Ryde, who had been waiting for a long time, immediately proposed to Scarlett. Although Ryde knew that Scarlett didn't love himself, he did not want to watch Scarlett marry someone else.

Scarlett once again entered the marriage. With the blessing of Ruide's funds and contacts, Scarlett made the power and the orders came.

When Scarlett had running for business, her father died of a sudden illness, and she hurried back to the Tara Manor.

When he saw Aixi, who hadn't met for a long time, Scarlett found that he was still unforgettable to him.

At this point, the Aishi couple are planning to leave here and go to the north to develop.

Scarlett made every effort to stop them from leaving, and in order to leave Aisi, she even handed the wood factories to Aixi to manage.

Unexpectedly, after Aixili became the factory director, he not only did not know about it, but caused the wood factories to lose his own. When he encountered difficulties, he had no responsibility and only hid behind Scarlett.

Faced with the weak and incompetent Aisi, Scarlett finally recognized that she had only fell in love with a illusion in the past.

She looked back in the past. Every time she encountered a predicament, she was Ruide around her. Every time she didn't understand, it was Rude who firmly supported himself.

She finally woke up, and it turned out that Ryde was the one who could work with herself for a lifetime.

Scarlett thought she finally gained a complete love, but fate joked with her again.

Ryde knew that Slite had never been thinking about Ai Sili, and even made Aixili as the factory director regardless of his opposition, so he poured all his love for Scarlett on the daughter Bonnie of the two.

But in the middle of the youth, Bonnie accidentally fell into a horse and died.

His love for Scarlett, in the waiting for more than ten years, has been disappeared in the disappointment again and again.

At the end of "Piao", an open ending was left.

Scarlett was not discouraged because of this, she said to herself, "I will come up with a way to get him again!"

Now she is no longer placed by her life, and she does not need to compromise with fate. She can finally pursue her love with her enthusiasm.

There is a saying: "The more economical the more economical, the more free.

Women's freedom of happiness is actually given money.

If you have the ability to make a living, you do n’t have to sell yourself for money, nor do you need to marry by money. With independent capital, you have to marry love to love, and you are qualified to control your life.

The greatest soberness of a woman is to love themselves and then live, and then make a living and then love.

4

The author of "Piao", Margaret, has a similar life experience to Slite.

At the age of 19, Margaret's mother died of illness, and her father fell into a weakness.

The carefree life ended, and she had been burdened by her family, and hurriedly married the wine merchant Reid.

Unexpectedly, the Reed, who seemed to be a talent, had alcohol and domestic violence after marriage, and repeatedly derailed.

This failed marriage maintained in just three months, and Margaret chose to stop loss.

She went to the newspaper as a female reporter under the recommendation of her friend John and prove herself with her pen.

John often talks with Margaret, reads famous works, and encourages her to create writing.

For a long time, the two were in love and walked into the palace of marriage together.

After the marriage, with the support of John, Margaret worked hard for ten years and took his feelings and thoughts on life all in the book "Piao".

She wants to tell everyone:

With the ability to settle down, there is the confidence of love and love.

With the ability of independence and autonomy, you have the freedom to choose fate.

Love and marriage have never been a woman's lifelong career, independent self.

Like a praise, I hope that you can hold the fireworks in your hand to make a living. Author: insight · Fang Yuan

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