The simplest education is to avoid the embarrassment of others

Education is a kind of beauty that does not need to be said.

Author: CC

On a rainy day, an old professor was taking his student to the college.

Not far ahead, there was a female teacher in a cheongsam.

The rain was still under the ground, and the female teacher walked in a hurry, and she fell without paying attention.

As soon as the student wanted to go forward to help, the old professor pulled him and hid behind the tree.

The female teacher who fell to the ground looked at no one, hurriedly stood up, and quickly walked towards the dormitory.

The students are very wondering. The old professor is usually helpful. Why is it so indifferent today?

The old professor saw the student's mind and said, "If you are ugly, do you want others to see it?"

The student shook his head.

The old professor continued: "If she can't stand up, we must help. But she just wet her dress, and naturally didn't want to be seen by others."

When I heard this, the students understood instantly:

It turned out that there was a kind of kindness. It was not that others fell. You immediately helped her, but that after she fell up, you didn't go to see her.

Knowing how to avoid the embarrassment of others is the best education of a person.

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Education is a restraint in words

Writer@作 作 作 作 once told a story:

On one occasion, he was invited by a sister to guide an interview with a teacher recruitment.

During this time, a bamboo girl attracted his attention.

Bamboo girls have a good written test, and the lectures are also very passionate. The disadvantage is that her face has a small blue and purple fetal notes on her face.

Even if she covered a part of her long hair, she could still see it faintly.

The writer knows that the teacher's appearance will affect the scoring of the examiner, which may directly cause her recruitment results to be unsatisfactory.

He wanted to suggest that the girl covered it with a light makeup, but she was afraid of reminding so nakedly that it would make the other party feel embarrassed and could not help but have some difficulties.

Suddenly, he thought of a way.

Taking advantage of the time to write a book on his back, he quietly wiped some chalk on his face.

When he turned around, everyone, including the girl, reminded him with chalk ash on his face.

He quickly wiped it out, and then told everyone:

"When writing a book, don't get the gray on your face, you will let everyone see a joke like now. In the whole process, keep your face clean."

Girl Bamboo hurriedly asked him, "Brother, what about my born?"

The writer answered with a smile: "Then you may need to wipe some white chalk first!"

Not long after, the girl Zhu took the initiative to contact the writer, saying that she had successfully applied for the teacher and thanked the writer's goodwill reminder and cultivation that day.

In life, everyone will encounter an embarrassing moment, and the shortcomings that desperately want to conceal.

If you do not consider the feelings of others, you will only make others more embarrassing in public.

As the saying goes, the wise man thinks, and then the fool says.

When you are not sure which sentence will make others embarrassed, don't rush to point to others;

When you don't understand the situation of others, don't make an easy evaluation.

A truly educated person knows how to observe the unspeakable minds of others, restrain his words, and resolve the embarrassment of the other party with good and sincere.

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Education is behavioral respect for behavior

Shi Tiesheng has seen a surprise in the newspaper:

At a solemn and solemn wedding, the bride suddenly put an extremely loud fart.

All the guests laughed instantly, and the bride's face rose.

The priest quickly showed that the family was quiet, but many guests were still laughing.

The bride felt embarrassing and emotional, causing a heart attack and death on the spot.

The reason why this tragedy is caused by this tragedy is actually unprepared responsibility.

If they know more about the bride, they have more "ignoring" her behavior.

Things will not evolve to such a point.

Chekhov once said: "There is no educational is not to eat or soup, but when others sprinkle soup, don't look at him."

Sometimes, if you restrain your own behavior, you are not putting others in an embarrassing situation, which is the most advanced expression of a educated person.

I have seen a young mother -in -law before and shared an experience that made her feel warm:

Once, she took a taxi with her child back to her hometown.

Along the way, the child couldn't stop crying, and he couldn't coax well.

She guessed that the child was probably hungry. But now in the car, a male driver is still sitting in front of him, breastfeeding in front of others.

But the child's tender crying was constantly stimulating her as a mother.

As she was in trouble, the driver had drove the car to the service area.

He whispered to her, "You feed" and got out of the car.

In the big sun, the driver took half an hour before returning to the car.

I really agree with one sentence: Education is not what you want to do, but what you should do.

Those who really educate will never build happiness on the pain of others, let alone put others in a embarrassing situation.

They know how to respect the feelings of others in their hearts, and set themselves to the other side for each other.

This meticulous education reflects a person's character in interpersonal communication;

Inadvertently, the most noble appearance of a person's soul shows.

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Education is a sense of confusion

Zheng Banqiao once said: "Smart and difficult, confused is also difficult, it is even more difficult to turn from cleverness to confusion." Indeed, the most difficult thing to do in life is not the savage of life, but to know how to converge your cleverness.

Sometimes, it is precisely the most educated manifestation of a person's most educated manifestation.

The blogger @Alicia has shared the story of her grandmother.

Once, my grandmother went to the good sister's house to be a guest. When she farewell, the sisters were very reluctant and insisted on sending my grandmother to get on the car.

The wind was particularly strong that day. In front of the bus station, the two elderly people stretched out their necks and waited for the car.

Grandma just wanted to break the weather. I saw a black lacquered thing when she saw the light at the corner of her eyes. She turned her head and happened to see her sisters bent, picking up the wigs that were blown off on the ground.

Grandma immediately turned his head and pretended to see nothing. When he estimated almost, he slowly turned around.

I saw that the good sisters were calm and comfortable, and the wigs were worn perfectly without deviating, as if the scene of "thrilling" just happened.

Hearing this, the blogger was already angry and said, asking grandma, "Did you laugh at the time?"

Grandma replied like this: "I have to bear to laugh again and get along with each other. At this time, I have to decorate a silly, otherwise it will be embarrassed by others, but I will hurt my feelings."

Some people say that confused is a paper lantern, and it is understood that it is a burning candlelight.

When the candlelight was too bright, it burned himself and stabbed others.

Therefore, why is it true that doing things is more real and everywhere.

Those who understand again, what you understand, also need to pretend to be confused.

Seeing through other people's embarrassment, the choice of choice is not visible, it is a rare consideration;

When encountering the embarrassment of others, turning silently is the kindness of a person to the bones.

The more educated people, the more confused.

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Writer Kelu Yak said: "Education is a goodness that does not need to be said."

The highest state of education is comfortable. The most direct manifestation of education is that it is not embarrassing.

An educated person cares about the human body and be careful.

While it is comfortable, it can also make yourself lively and make the world full of love and warmth.

Like a praise, I hope we can all be a soul with temperature and educated person, warm others, and illuminate ourselves.

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