When you slowly forget these people, it means that you are already a person with a story.
Author:Uncle Nanshan Time:2022.08.20
■ Author: Uncle Nanshan
■ Original works, plagiarism must be investigated
01, the first saying.
Recently, there is a very hot song on the Internet, called "Faith in the same bed":
The traces written with memories are reviewing the clothes I wore countless times in each night and still left your breath at the pillow. The words you said are sad. Our ending years. In the end, she accompanied you to become a confidant who was marrying me just to marry me ...
The song title of this song seems a bit ambiguous. In fact, the lyrics have revealed that countless people have experienced the sorrow of love. Yes, people are alive, and we will find that from the young and frivolous at the beginning, it has slowly turned into a vicissitudes. In such a life course, we will encounter a lot of things, recognize many people, and even love many people who should not love. And only after one person really experiences the vicissitudes of the world and the road of love is bumpy, will we truly understand: when you slowly forget these people, it means that you are already a person with a story.
02, the first person: a teenager who is walking around the world.
When we were young, when we saw martial arts novels, we always fell into some kind of longing: a person took a sword and walked in the rivers and lakes, not being disturbed by everything from the outside world. As a result, there is a life of unrestrained but unrestrained but unrestrained. On the road of rivers and lakes, we will meet a lot of real friends. Everyone is happy together, drinking a big bowl of drinking meat is really happy. Therefore, when we reach the age of we can go out, we will carry back bags, with the ideal of our hearts higher than the sky, and walk into a complicated society. At that time, we always thought that we could rely on our own efforts to achieve our outgoing life goals. Perhaps, in the course of struggle, we will also meet many friends, and have the determination to "fight the world to the world" with these friends of the same blood.
However, when we walk into the society, we will find that "the ideal is full and the reality is very skinny." After walking, we have suffered countless sufferings and encountered many unexpected setbacks and blows. Perhaps when we were quiet, we really understood that we really understood that we really understood that we paid so much hardship, but it was difficult to get a common life. Maybe this is life. At this time, we finally annihilated our dreams and returned to a down -to -earth life. And the young man who had been fighting with us to go to the end of the world has not been contacted for many years, and in the end, we slowly forgot.
03, the second person: the confidant who does not come and go.
There is a sentence in the eighty chapters of "Lao Tzu". At first glance, it is very poetic, but it reads it in detail, but it is slightly helpless: "The neighbors look at each other, the sound of chickens and dogs smells each other, and the people are old and die." This sentence is now used to describe each other never connects, never associated. In the ancient society, "the old death does not come and go", but it is just to express people's longing for peaceful and peaceful life. This sentence is placed on the interaction of people. Helpless and sad. Perhaps when we were young, we had made a lot of friends. Although many of these friends, many of them are also muddy, but in the back, we often play with some of our people. And these friends who have played very well with us have gradually become our confidant.
However, life is always full of uncertainty and many helplessness. When we go too close to our confidant, we ignore such a possibility and change, that is, "people walk too close, it is actually a disaster." Yeah, because we are confidantes, we may cooperate in cooperation, and we even fall in love with the same opposite sex. However, such cooperation, even falling in love with someone, is likely to make our own friendship become hatred. In the end, two friends who wanted to be good may become a stranger who did not communicate with each other. In the end, we also slowly forgot. And this is really a very sad story.
04, the third person: the predecessor who used to go to bed.
On the road of life, we will always encounter our own love story. However, not all love stories, there will be no results. Some love has entered the palace of marriage, and even has their own children. However, the contradiction in marriage, the crisis of people to middle age, the seven -year itch for marriage, and the impact of "poor couples and wives", in many cases, it will become the last straw that crushes marriage. When the marriage of the two people disintegrated, when a couple left each, at that time, the feelings between each other slowly faded and even disappeared.
"The wind is still, the years are reversed, and the sorrow is shining." After losing his marriage and lover, how many people stood in the sunset and thought about their rest of their lives. How lonely and helpless they were. And the former lover slowly turned into the predecessor of his same bed. It is only occasionally remembered by accidental nights of a quiet night in one night, and such sorrows will not understand.
05, the fourth person: who was once wondering.
Regarding the young and frivolous, some people laughed: People are not crazy about the teenagers, and they are deserved to be true. Tang Bohu in the Ming Dynasty also wrote such a poem "Old Man": people are worried about teenagers and old people. The old and young people don't care, and the poetry wine is drunk. The meaning of this poem is to say that life is worried about the young people, and the flowers and plants are ruthless but sad. But whether you are young and young, you are drunk before spending. And this must be telling us that you should have a spirit of energy and fighting spirit. And when we were young, we did have many stories of young and young. At that time, we liked the baptism of chicken soups that bleed and did not cry, and they also liked to be brainwashed by those successful stories after vicissitudes. When we were young, no matter how hard we had eaten, we would not feel how difficult life was. However, when we stepped into the age of people to middle age, we really found that we could no longer toss, so those past personnel have become a stories of rare. Slowly, we have begun to forget the self -strenuous self, and become a middle -aged man who keeps himself in peace.
06, end.
Friends, when you slowly forget the four people, "young people who are going to go to the world", "confidant who do not come and go with each other", "the predecessor who once passed the same bed", and "the once -ups of yourself" It shows that you are already a person with a story. Do you think it makes sense? Welcome everyone to leave a message in the comment area. Thank you all.
[About the author]: Uncle Nanshan, focusing on original emotional stories, folk stories, and emotional beauty writing, published 6 emotional, beautiful texts, storytelling books. The original self -media platforms created the authors of V, and the major platforms accumulated a total of millions of fan authors. Uncle Nanshan aims to give you more positive little stories through simple text, tell you some truthful truths, and realize some beautiful little luck in life.
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