When you understand the "Biography of the Hulan River", all the suffering will pass

I like Xiao Hong's work because she has experienced the temptation and suffering of thousands of red dust, and she can still be so clear.

And she really knew her from the book "The Biography of the Hulan River".

In the book, there is not only Xiao Hong's memories of childhood, but also the exposure and thinking of the small city.

In the past, I only read the customs and customs in the book; now I revisited it that the author told us the story of life with a brushstick.

Watching cold eyes, pushing the lively life to the abyss; the optimistic and openness of the rebellion allows his life to make a happy flower.

The fate of everyone in the book is different:

Some people look for hope in the dark, and some people lose their conscience in the world.

Mao Dun once evaluated this work:

"A narrative poem, a colorful local painting, a bunch of euphemistic ballads."

When you understand the "Biography of the Hulan River", all the sufferings will pass.

Resolve suffering

Companion is more precious than letting go

What kind of life experience a person can make the text cool?

Xiao Hong gave the answer when he recalled his life with his grandfather.

When she was 8 years old, her biological mother died and lacked motherly love since childhood.

Picture source: The movie "Golden Age" Tang Wei plays Xiao Hong

And his father's duties, he is often disciplined by Xiao Hong. Later, her father married again, and she was not treated by stepmother.

So that Xiao Hong has been rebellious since he was a child and wants to escape from his family.

But her grandfather's love for her, like a beam of light in the darkness, brought light and warmth to her gray childhood.

The back garden of my hometown is where the grandparents go the most.

Grandfather can stay in the back garden for a day, Xiao Hong becomes a small follower.

One old one wearing a straw hat, what Xiao Hong did what his grandfather did.

When her grandfather buried the seeds in the soil, she looked at the pits on the sowing seeds and smoothly with her small feet.

It is said that it is a helper for grandfather. In fact, it is a mess. Not only does it not cover the seeds with soil, but also often kicks the rapeseed.

The labor of the back garden carried too many laughter and laughter, and the trauma brought by the parents to Xiao Hong was also cured at this moment.

In addition, children's dedication to food has also become her fun with her grandfather.

After the pigs and ducks fall into the well, their grandfather will wrap them with yellow mud and burn them in the pits.

After eating the "things in the well" twice, Xiao Hong thought about the taste.

However, no duck fell into the well again.

She often greeted the children nearby and helped herself with sorghum stalks to rush to the well with sorghum stalks.

When she was caught by her grandfather, she said innocently:

"Rove the duck into the well, remove it and cook."

Whenever Xiao Hong chased the duck, his grandfather would come forward to hold her in his arms, wiped her sweat, and coaxed her to say:

"Go home with Grandpa and catch a duck to burn it."

Her grandfather held her on his palm, and was the strongest background in Xiao Hong's life.

As she recalled in a prose:

"From my grandfather, I know that life except for cold and hate, and warm and love."

Everything left in pain is a wealth.

It is lucky to be accompanied by loved ones.

Ostrovsky said:

"Human life, like floods are running, and do not encounter islands and reefs, it is difficult to arouse beautiful waves."

Xiao Hong, who has experienced the coldness of the world, has experienced the coolness of the people. Although he has experienced sadness, he has also felt good.

The best day is not prosperous, but to accompany.

Solve suffering, and companionship is more precious than letting go.

Don't overestimate the goodness of human nature

Don't underestimate the evil of human nature

Xiao Hong wrote in the book:

"As long as the cold winter arrives, the earth will be split."

The sad atmosphere foreshadowed the endless ending, and the smiley daughter -in -law died in such a cold winter.

When she first met her daughter -in -law, she was not a daughter -in -law in the eyes of others, just a little girl.

The neighbors in the courtyard were not dissatisfied with the daughter -in -law, but the gossip did not stop.

Some people say that she is too generous and shame; some people say that she can eat three bowls of rice and lie to her age.

Before the reunion of the reunion daughter -in -law, her mother -in -law started to do her, and the crying often spread throughout the yard.

In that era, the feudal customs had transformed into people's "collective unconsciousness" and deeply rooted.

After the cry in the yard was replaced by the drums of "jumping gods", the reunion daughter -in -law was not normal.

So, Lao Hu's family began to seek various remedies to "drive ghosts" and let her eat pork stewed Huanglian;

Taoist priests "draw" to cheat money, and the old Hu family spent many years of saving money to eliminate disasters;

Later, he pressed her in the large tank full of hot hot water in public and took a bath for her.

She was scalded three times and even forgot to resist.

Ironically, when she asked for help, no one came forward to rescue her; after she fainted, these people rescued her with compassion.

We seem to be an invisible membrane across the world. Although occasionally we are in it, we often look at it coldly, and then raise the sense of ignorance.

In the end, the reunion daughter -in -law was killed by her mother -in -law's ignorance and the hypocritical "goodness" of the spectators.

After someone helped her back back, there was no mercy on everyone's face, but she laughed and said:

"Jiucai is really good ..."

Some people live indifferently, just like machines without emotion, losing their conscience in a world without light;

Some people live pessimistic, just like the prisoner who committed the fate consumes life in the days of oppressed. Xiao Hong once sighed:

"Full of the sky, the moon in the room, why is life? Why is it so sad?"

Walk around the world, don't let yourself live under the darkness of human nature, and don't wait for others to redeem in the darkness.

Don't overestimate the goodness of human nature, nor do you want to underestimate the evil of human nature.

Live a day

More important than anything

Rhabels in life must also live in an orderly manner.

When you strode forward in a sad day, life will treat you well.

Living to live well is more important than anything.

There is a strange temperament, often "negotiating" with animals, with people, but always without saying a word.

There was a time Xiao Hong's father hit Er Bo, and finally Er Bo fell to the ground and let others watch the fun.

He doesn't help him, he can't get up either.

For a long time, only two ducks smelled bloody smells around him.

That night, the second uncle couldn't think of it, crying and crying.

The old chef was frightened and shouted:

"There is a second grandfather hanging up!"

When the people in the courtyard heard the sound, they rushed to the sound. The person hanging on the house did not see it, but saw a rope hanging in the air.

When everyone discovered that there was a second uncle, he was sitting on the roots of the room wall without any loss.

Later, a neighbor reported that there was a second uncle jumped.

Everyone ran to the well and found that he was not in the well, but calmly sat on the firewood pile with smoke.

After that, I heard that the second uncle "jumped the well" and "hanging".

There are two uncle who will be strong in his life, but he will be weak and afraid of strength; if you want to attract the attention of others, you have a joke.

as the saying goes:

"Don't care about the eyes of others, they are just spectators."

Living a good present is not how the outside world thinks of you, but to live yourself.

In the silent time, it is as comfortable as poetry, making ordinary triviality, and as delicate as painting.

In the end, you will find that people who live a good life are the real winners of life.

One person survives all the suffering

Just understand

Balzak said:

"Life is really bitter everywhere, fake joy."

Living, sick, sick and dead are the norm of life.

People are alive, their parents are raised; people are dead, and people who are alive cry for two or three days, and they have to continue.

Feng Xunzi was a grinding. After marrying his wife and having a child, he moved from the wind -transparent tile house to a warm cottage.

Although his life was tight, after having his eldest son, he felt that his life was running.

Whenever he eats at other people's house, he always leaves a few delicious foods and takes home to his eldest son.

When the child was older, he began to play in front of the puddle in front of the door. The wife sat next to him embroidered the bellyband for the child.

After a few years of good days, his wife was going to give birth to a second child. Feng Xunzi was full of joy.

But before he was pulled out of joy, his wife died unfortunately.

As soon as Feng Xunzi's wife died, some people felt that he couldn't live on this day.

A person with two young children, the owner Xishe is waiting to see the fun.

However, Feng Xunzi did not feel desperate through himself, let alone stop because of the eyes of others.

He turned his grief into strength, feeding his younger son for dinner, and watched his eldest son pull the little donkey to drink water.

Sometimes he suddenly blushed, but looking at the two children grew up day by day, his tearful eyes would be full of smiles.

There is such a sentence in "Bookstore on the island":

"In everyone's life, there is the most painful year, and life becomes beautiful and vast."

There is no shortcut life, just slowly boil.

The accidents and changes in life are like the cold wind of the cold winter, and it is virtually blowing to everyone.

Some people become as cold as this cold wind, and some people always maintain their temperature like Feng Xunzi's mouth.

Only through that dark day can we really understand:

Those cone wounds need to lick ourselves.

At the end

I really like Xiao Hong's words:

"What kind of thing to do, what kind of freedom to choose, what kind of person to be, what kind of love and life to win."

All the suffering and endlessness are the comfort and hope of water to complete.

Every character in "The Biography of the Hulan River" has a little sad color: there are compromises, unwillingness, and resistance.

This looks like every ordinary us, stunned in the dilemma, and move forward after the epiphany.

No one's life is smooth, and life is life, and it is life.

Pay attention to [Reader], I hope you have light in your eyes, dreams in your heart, suffering, and happiness with happiness!

Author: meet Xiaoyuan, write in one hand and write thousands of mountains. Public account: Xiaoyuan freehand. The first public account of this article: reader reading club (ID: duzhe0423). "Reader" magazine's official reading and exchange platform, here, see the world, read life. The picture originated from the Internet. If there is any infringement, please contact and delete it.

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