If you want to be a calm and restrained person, it is enough to achieve 10 o'clock

How to be a calm and restrained person?

First, talk less

How much knowledge do you learn, how much truth, how much ability, how much achievements you have, and how much achievements you have, do not talk about everywhere.

There is a saying that the most full rice must be the lowest.

Second, keep your inner gratitude

When you meet someone who is not friendly to you, when you encounter something that hurts you, they are here to hone you and help you grow up.

Those people make you understand human nature.

Those things let you see your potential.

And gratitude, let you know how to cherish the present.

Third, keep independent and not depend on

Have you ever heard a word: beasts always do alone, cattle and sheep are walking together.

People who are truly powerful will not deliberately think of anyone to win, but focus on their goals.

The existence of partners is to strengthen their strength, not the object of dependence.

Those trustworthy people can support and encourage you to go alone.

The gentleman's friendship is as light as water, giving you enough space for yourself and friends, and maintaining a certain distance in order to keep the water long.

Fourth, have a good job

A job that suits you and can exert its own value at the same time,

Not only to improve work quality, but more importantly, to enhance your self -confidence, open up your horizons, and enhance your thoughts.

Fifth, the attitude of lifelong learning

Real learning is obtained from little things in ordinary life.

No matter how trivial work, how small people are, there are places worth learning.

Everything with learning has a learning mentality, which can not only make yourself progress, but also increase wisdom quickly.

Six, treat others equality

I do n’t read it very high, and I do n’t look down on others at will.

With a normal heart, you can see your ordinaryness and the excellence of others.

Do not degrade yourself at will, nor do you raising others casually.

Seven, always planning ahead

Don't wait until the last moment to act, it will look very passive.

Before doing things, prefer to think about the complicated difficulties,

Be full preparations in advance, and it will appear at ease and increase the probability of success.

Eight, life must be balanced

Don't love your brain, don't "brothers first", do not do "workaholic", and don't just turn around the family.

There should be many parts of our lives, not only one key point, which will easily be unbalanced.

Nine, peaceful expectations

Never have too much expectations for one thing.

The higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment. The psychological gap will increase a lot of unnecessary emotions, complaints about others, dislocation of themselves, and so on.

With the greatest effort, do the worst plans, and accept all the results.

Ten, unlimited, not controlled

Respect each other's behavior and thoughts, realize that everyone is different, and understand how to think in other places.

Do not ask others like themselves, and do not force others to cooperate with themselves and obey themselves.

Willing to open your heart to communicate with the other party while accepting all the feedback of the other party.

Focus on yourself and treat yourself tolerant.

If the other party allows, you can guide and affect the other party.

Eleven, face it calmly

There are always many problems that make us angry, helpless, want to avoid, and feel tricky.

The soldiers came to cover the water and accepted it frankly.

The less unacceptable things, it means that you are getting more and more open and mature.

Twelve, give the meaning of incidents in life

Life itself is meaningless. The key is to experience and experience it in what attitude and angle do you use.

There will be a lot of unsatisfactory life in life.

For example, frustration, giving it a significance of learning, gaining and growing, which will make you feel a lot of nourishment.

Once you are given meaning, it is a unique part of life for you.

Thirteen, I have been injured

We have been criticized, deceived, mocked, isolated, and secretly calculated ...

These experiences let us understand what is human and what is human.

Let us see who is worthy of maintenance and who is far away.

Let us know how to get along with different people.

Let us know how to protect ourselves from the premise of not harming others.

Before dealing with others to do things, we will weigh them in advance and think about it. These will make us more calm.

- END -