The best attitude of adults: self -discipline in bustling, self -motivation in the trough

Author: insight, Yimo

There are only failures in the world, no losers.

"Cai Gen Tan" said:

"In the adversity, the whole body is needle, and the festivals are hard;

A person is in a trough, like a needle with a needle and applying medicine all over his body, and has made progress unknowingly.

In the current situation, it is like surrounded by various weapons, and the will unconsciously.

Instead of joy, adversity is not worried.

The more people are in the state, the more they must be sober and self -discipline;

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Bustling self -discipline

Feng Tang once said that there are eight calamity in life, one of which is "Shenshun".

Be wary of life too smoothly.

When a person is too smooth, it is easy to lose the clearness of his heart.

Because of his consequences, he lost his judgment on the environment; he indulged himself in order to chase the desire and gave up the bottom line of persistence.

In the Qing Dynasty, Yao Yao made a good contribution to Yongzheng's succession.

Yongzheng gave him the entire northwest army, fiscal and taxes, and officials.

Nian Yaoyao fluttered, and he regarded himself as the northwest king in a praise.

He ordered a five -claw gold dragon in the house. He was called "meal" and appreciated others.

When you go out, you need to fill the loess, a pair of emperors.

These crickets gradually made Yongzheng gradually dissatisfied, and soon Nian Yaoyao was locked into Beijing and became prisoners.

In the end, Nian Yaoyao committed suicide in prison.

From the two to the discharge of the family, it was only two years.

The more you climb, the more you must know how to discipline yourself, restrain your greed, and restrain your arrogance, so as not to recruit yourself.

Zeng Guofan can be described as the great minister, but he always stretched a string, strictly demanding himself and his family.

Zeng Guofan once warned his brother:

"When my family is in the heyday, I should always converge at this place, and should not be too carried out. I hope my brother always pay attention."

Our family is very beautiful now, but the more beautiful, the more you have to converge, don't be too public.

The Qing Dynasty had strict rules for the ride of cars, and officials with more than three grades could take a four -person sedan.

At that time, his son Zeng Jize had no official position, but often took a four -person sedan. The four brothers took care of their family affairs at home and often took the four -person sedan.

Zeng Guofan wrote a letter in the past, scolding his son and brother, so that they should not pass through and strictly observe the rules.

Ping the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom, many people let Zeng Guofan "become emperor".

The couplet of the generals of the Hunan Army once wrote "the prince has no planting, the emperor is true" suggests Zeng Guofan.

After the opponent Li Xiucheng was captured, he also believed that Zeng Guofan was able to recruit the country and was willing to recruit the old ministry and support Zeng Guofan to call it the emperor.

But Zeng Guofan was unmoved.

He himself had no ambitions, and he did not want to restart the war.

There are many people who persuade him, but he always maintains a soberness and self -knowledge.

Soon after capturing Nanjing, he took the initiative to abolish the Hunan army, suspend the army, and let his brother Zeng Guoquan resign from illness.

Eight years later, Zeng Guofan died as a governor of Jiangjiang, and he was given a gift to Tai Fu.

Gong Gao Zhenzhu, but he can retreat throughout the body, and such people have flipped through history, but only a few people.

Masters across the beach, but it is easy to turn the boat in a broad place; the mountain road is peaceful, but it is easy to have an accident when it comes to the avenue.

The more prosperous, the more self -discipline.

"Master" says: The more the masters who can really do things, the more cautiously, the more cautiously, and never forgetting and forgetting why.

Keep cautiously and unwilling to forget, one person can be safe and smooth, avoiding calamity.

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People have a good blessing, and our destiny will never be the master.

Really powerful people, in the huge suffering, can still be able to promote their spirits and encourage themselves.

At the end of the Ming Dynasty, Gu Yanwu had a smallpox when he was a child, and he almost lost his life. Later, although he was lucky, he became weak and sick since then.

And because of the smallpox, a layer of white film has grown on his left eye, and his vision becomes blurred.

But he never complained about himself and complained about fate.

With the teachings and encouragement of her mother, Gu Yanwu studied hard.

Two hundred pages of Wenshu every day, you can't finish your homework and never sleep.

Eye disease is not his obstacle, but let him cherish the days when you can read.

He copied three million words of "Zi Zhi Tong Jian" with his perseverance.

When I went out, I also had a book on the donkey, read while walking, and checked at any time.

After decades of hard work, he finally became an excellent scholar of the Ming Dynasty.

Writer Hu Haibo said:

"To solve the problem instead of fighting the problem; change is the way to solve the problem, and complaining is the way to fight the problem."

Many people suffer from suffering and always feel unfair, and feel that their tragedy destiny is different from God.

Therefore, we are complaining about the heavens, and abandoning himself.

Such people will only continue to sink, and there is no hope of turning over again.

Learning to accept it calmly and seeking breakthroughs and changes is the best solution in the trough of life.

At the end of the Qing Dynasty, the painter Ren Bo started painting at the age of three. At the age of twelve, his father died and his family fell.

He was forced to go to a fan shop as an apprentice.

From the young master who raised his respect, to an apprentice who could not eat enough, the huge gap did not defeat him.

Whenever he has given up painting, no matter how tired every day, he always takes out a few times.

Without money to buy paper, he secretly collected waste paper painting in the store. Other apprentices felt that he was strange, he couldn't eat food, and he thought about painting.

Later, the shop owner discovered his paintings and was surprised by his skills, so he made him draw on the fan in the store.

Since then, Ren Bonian has got rid of the miscellaneous service and concentrated on painting.

He became more diligent, and he was unwilling to waste at all. He was frostbite everywhere in winter, but he still persisted.

More than ten years later, Ren Bonian began to become famous and became a famous painter in the Qing Dynasty.

Writer Li Qian once said: "Before God gives you a gift, he will become a devil to test you."

Misery has never been a bad thing. It is a challenge of life, opportunities, and even grinding stones.

If a person is smooth and smooth, he can only be a mediocre person.

There are only failures in the world, no losers.

Don't be easily defeated, don't admit defeat easily.

When you really go out, you will find that the so -called dilemma is mostly a paper tiger.

Bite your teeth, carry it, life will promise you deep and vast.

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Zhou Guoping once said that there are two situations in life that can test the quality of people's souls. One is success, and the other is suffering.

Life is far away, the world is impermanent, and there must be suffering if you go smoothly. If you have prosperity, there must be a trough.

In the bustling, we must strictly discipline yourself; when you encounter a trough, do not abandon yourself.

Not arrogant, not humble, not humble, this is the best gesture of adults.

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