Night Reading: Busty is all the time to learn to reconcile with this world

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Xin Qiji wrote in "Bride and Groom · Use Qianyun Re -Ending",

"Sighing life, unsatisfactory things, always eight or nine."

When many people encounter unhealthy things,

There are often such emotions.

Lin Qingxuan said in "I often want one or two",

It was not eight or nine that determined the quality of life, but one or two.

So learn to reconcile with the world,

Life can happen more.

02

Chat with friends,

He always advised me to learn to reconcile with the world.

I always think, how many things do a person go through,

In order to learn to reconcile with the world?

It may be a encouragement from a friend,

Maybe it was suddenly open to the angle.

Last week I talked to my friends about some of the confusion I have encountered recently,

He told me a story,

There are two people who are classmates and good friends.

There is a rich life in a family who has a rich life,

The other family is slightly poor.

One day, this classmate who had a poor family bought a rice cooker,

The rice made for the first time to eat rice pot is particularly fragrant,

He invited his friends to come to his house for dinner and wanted his friend to taste the rice.

He asked me, what would I do if I was this friend?

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The first reply: "Why am I,

It turned out to be a rice cooker steamed rice,

I do n’t need a rice cooker in my house, all of which are steamed rice in a purple casserole.

Special incense, you come to my house to eat all day. "

The second reply: "It's good, the taste is good,

Thank you for your invitation, I think this rice is particularly fragrant,

I really like the meal made by my aunt. "

If two different styles, there will be different development results.

Tell us this matter,

Don't disturb the happiness of others at will.

In other words, don't let others be embarrassed at will.

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My friend said me, the biggest disadvantage is that it is true.

I want to make me know my mistakes.

I will encounter a lot of unhappy points in life in life,

Unhappy and can't solve the problem.

My friend said, "You have to learn to compromise and compromise with yourself.

You don't need to prove anything to others, your ability does not need to be proved.

What you need to do is to let others really accept you.

I hope you can change yourself and be a sunny boy.

Revitalizes, rationality also needs emotional to ease your world.

Many people will not reconcile with this world,

This is a proposition and a standard for doing things. "

05

"Shawshank's Redemption" said: "Those things that make you sad,

One day you will say a smile. "

This is the light and wind after reconciliation with this world.

Teacher Fan Deng once said: "Deep self -blame and shame,

It will cause a person to improve without motivation,

First of all, you must know how to accept yourself to move forward. "

The result of many things is not important,

The important thing is that in the process, we learned tolerance and compassion.

Keep walking and constantly running with this world.

Facing the impermanence of life, we need to reconcile with this world,

To others, don't blame, to yourself, not humble,

If you don't tangle the past, you can live up to the following.

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