Zhongyun Night Reading | Friends

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Some time ago I watched the movie "The Great Gatsby", which was quite touched. After Gatsby, who wielded gold, the so -called "friends" who had been treated with his affection disappeared in an eye. For them, Gatsby was just the buried bills of enjoyment. Essence

Human society, as large as the country to individuals, must have partners to support each other with you. People can only reflect the value of existence in interaction with others. "The Analects of Confucius · Ji" said: "Three friends of the benefit, three friends of the damage. Friends, friendly, and friendly smells, benefit; friendly, friendliness, friendly, damaged."

In life, we will know many people. When you meet, we can say hello and talk about it, but this is not a friend. At best, it can only be regarded as acquaintances. Some people seem to know a lot of people. When they go, they can quote the category. The scenery is unlimited. In fact, it is the attitude that others have to ask for him, or have a picture, or a fear, or have to make. Some people are "familiar" to anyone. When they first meet, they will leave a phone call, and they will be "fanned" without any matter. For many years; some deliberately knotted, the picture is the benefit of fishing, and the brothers and brothers are used. When they ca n’t get it, they immediately turn around and rush to the next goal.

Real friends are far as simple as knowing. To be a real friend, you can't do without the two major elements: the first is to respect each other. It is also important to respect others and gain respect. Real friends do not account for the differences in status and income wealth. They value the equality of personality. The second is to interact with each other. Friends who have more focused their attention to spiritual support and reliance are the collision and perception of the soul. Do not reverse the heart, the heart does not declare, and look at each other, and it is a common state of mind to make friends with friends.

"Peng" is composed of two "months", and real friends can stand the test of years. "Friends" is leaning together in the armor in the Oracle Bone. Just like the current friends meet again, both of them stretch out their right hands and hold each other tightly and cherish each other. Dating is a technical work. This is the same as work and reading. Some people's reading is "not refused", and they can't enjoy the astronomical geography, ancient and modern China and foreign countries. The same is true for work. The tasks are one after another. The snake array is set one by one. In fact, those who really read books do not deliberately pursue reading group books. As long as one or two good books, they read them in detail. Similarly, there is no need to pursue the number of friends, the level of the level, and the quality and efficiency must be paid to the quality and efficiency. It can be able to make a friend who can watch a lifetime.

Make more friends and friends, friends of more virtues. The foundation of friends with friends is the personality status of highly recognized value orientation and equality. It is to achieve self -improvement in the process of pursuing health and interests. The correct view of friends should be attracted with the charm of personality and maintaining feelings with sincerity, rather than impact through the power, money, and relationships in the hands. Spring and autumn is with.

Author: Zhao Qingyun

General planning: Shi Hua

Chief Editor: Zhang Zhengzhu

Editor -in -chief: Zhao Hu

Guidance: Liang Zongsheng

Anchor: Qi Kai (Ningbo Maritime Affairs Bureau)

Produced: Hong Bo

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