The benefits of reading: promoting writing, mentioning mood, and understanding

The time passed so fast, the three -week reading camp soon ended, and it was time to re -inventory.

In the reading camp in July, I have three major gains.

01. Persist in reading every day and complete reading notes

This month I have been busy taking care of my sick parents. The daytime time is usually filled with trivial things. I started reading and writing after they fell asleep at night.

Even so, I will complete the daily reading and writing tasks on time. Because I think this is a kind of attitude, since it is involved, it is necessary to achieve the goal.

With such a goal every day in my heart, I will try to complete it. This is my first big gain in my reading camp in July.

In fact, if you are busy during the day, you will be tired at night. If you do n’t participate in the reading camp, I believe I will never read books and write again at night.

Without pressure, there is no motivation.

This is really the case. This month, I read three parenting books. When I wrote reading notes every day is a process of deep thinking. This will give me a new understanding of the relationship with my children, including my parents, including my parents.

I have new feelings every day, and I am progressing every day. This feeling makes me very happy, and it also makes me more motivated to complete my daily reading tasks.

The bamboo couch slumped into the book, and the pillow was more than a pillow.

Reading is a beautiful process. It makes me feel relaxed every day and stable dreams.

02. Mood is more peaceful

I still remember Teacher Youyou said on July 13:

"Today's notes have improved to varying degrees. I feel that I have entered the Xueba Group, and it is really difficult to choose. Therefore, no matter who you choose, you do n’t want to choose a glass.

Everyone has different opinions to put forward it to discuss together, the purpose is to really gain something. "

I still remember when I first participated in the reading camp in January this year, I was looking forward to the excellent selection every day. When I couldn't choose, I was a little lost.

Now, when you look at the reading notes at that time, you will feel ashamed. I have to lament that the reading notes I wrote at that time were really bad. I didn't know how to write reading notes at all.

This month is the fourth time I have participated in the reading camp. I feel a lot in writing reading notes, and the speed of writing reading notes every day is getting faster and faster.

Now I no longer care about whether the reading notes have been selected well. I see the comments given by Teacher Youyou every day, and I will work hard to modify the teacher's review that day.

Teacher Youyou's reviews are very detailed, which will make me clearly know where I need to improve, which is very helpful to improve my writing.

I think that's enough, this has achieved my goal of participating in the reading camp.

Therefore, if you have such an idea, you will not care whether the homework is good. The goal is different, the direction of hard work will be different.

This will make my state of mind more peaceful, no gains and losses, will not suffer, and live very well every day.

Anchen may not need landscapes, but the heart is cold.

The mood is peaceful, like drinking a glass of herbal tea, and the heart is quiet. This is my second largest harvest in my reading camp in July.

03. Improving the relationship with parents

In the past three weeks, we have read three books, from "Psychological Raise" and "You are the best toys for children" to "positive discipline".

The deepest one I feel is:

Raising children, psychological support is more important than material support. Accompanying children is more valuable than earning money to children.

Children do not need intellectual toys or TV shows. What they need is parents. What they really value is the happy time with their parents.

Learn to enhance the principles and communication skills of mutual respect, cooperation, joy and love, focusing on solving problems, making mistakes is a great time to learn ...

Nourishing children and taking care of parents are actually very similar. If we put these parenting methods in taking care of our parents.

In the past for so many years, I have been in a hurry to be busy with my own affairs, and I rarely have time to be with my parents so close to my parents.

In the past, I always felt that my parents were always so powerful, and they would never grow old. They were always my strong backing.

During this time, I found that they were old, and they also needed their children's company, care, respect, and understanding.

With this, I will overthrow my previous views on my parents in my heart, reconcile with the parents in my heart, and understand them more.

Now, in the twilight of their lives, I am their strong backing and strong support, and I will work hard to accompany and take care of them.

The transformation of these ideas has actually improved my relationship with my parents to a large extent, and we need each other.

Whoever speaks of grass, reports San Chunhui.

In terms of taking care of our parents, we have to give love, as we have got.

04. Write at the end

The ancients said that opening the volume is good.

More reading will always benefit. This month's study camp has benefited me a lot.

I always feel that the time passes quickly, the time is in a hurry, and the 2022 will pass in the blink of an eye. I hope that the second half of the year's reading camp will be involved in each period, so that daily reading and writing will become a habit.

Let the books nourish the soul, integrate into the heart, and become the norm of life.

-End-

Author | Like Jin

Edit | Beibei

Picture | Network (if you infringe, please contact delete)

- END -