Talk to Germany, pay attention to things, and keep people staying

The ancients often said: "Everything is left in the front line, and you will meet in the future."

The practice of life is not in the mountains, not in Taoist outlook, but in the humanity.

The highest state of practice is to cultivate the mind in Hongchen everything, reflect on speech conversations, and hone to people.

Mature people know how to speak, pay attention to things, do things, and stay.

01 Talking and staying in Germany, deposit Ford

The ancients said: "The sharp blade cuts the body marks, and the evil language hurts people."

The tongue is soft, but some languages ​​are as sharp as a knife, stabbing others, and cutting themselves and blocking blessings.

During the Three Kingdoms period, there was a famous man named Youheng.

Kong Rong recommended it to Cao Cao, but he insulted Cao Cao on his tongue twice.

At the banquet, Cao Cao's conspirator was suitable for mourning, saying that the general Zhao Rong could manage the kitchen diet.

Even Cao Cao, who was very talented, began to slowly dislike He Heng, and wanted to kill him many times. Fortunately, there were Kong Rongyang Yang Xiu and others for pleasure, but he sent him to Liu Biao, Jingzhou.

He Heng did not change his problem at Liu Biao, insulting and slow Liu Biao, and was later given to Jiang Xia's eunuch Huang Zu.

One day, Huang Zu set up a banquet on the boat, drinking a happy place, and asked Heng Heng, "What am I in your heart?"

You Heng still speaks inferior: "You are like the gods in the temple. Although you are sacrificed, you are not spiritual!"

Huang Zu was furious and ordered to kill him.

This time, no one would help You Heng for pleasure.

Good words with others, warm as cloth. It hurts, pain is like a knife cut.

The most exposed person's heart is language, the most sad is language, and the most deepest is language.

Staying under the mouth, mastering the square inch can we show wisdom, show character, and achieve the future.

02 Pay attention to things, get people's hearts

In life, people who are really amazing are approachable, pay attention to things, and treat others attentive.

As Lao Tzu said: "Dunxi is like a simple, and he is asleep."

They are pure and simple, have a wide heart, can do everything well, and treat everyone sincerely. Over time, they will be respected by others.

"History of the Ming Dynasty" records the experience of Minister Ge Zhi:

Ge Zhi has been poor since his childhood, and he has not been able to get the name.

Helpless can only be a famous housekeeper in the prime minister's palace, but he never bully the people, but pay attention to everything. When others have difficulties, they help in time.

Once, a servant in the house was detained for theft.

Ge Zhi saw that although the man was wearing a simple, he was very bone. He asked that he learned that the old mother was seriously ill in the servant's family.

After hearing it, Ge Zhi took out his own money to treat his mother.

Later, the person in high school was a high school, and he recommended Ge Zhi to the court.

However, because of the intention of doing things, Ge Zhi was sincerely supported by more people.

Many things may not be seen on the surface. The truth of things often calm down to see clearly;

The truth of the facts often requires extra attention to discover.

Pay more attention to doing things. You can see the difficulty of others and understand the difficulties of others.

Unconsciously, you will also be recognized by others, win the sincerity of others, and have good luck.

As a writer said: "You and goodwill for others, you will be yourself in the end."

03 Being a person to stay, len off the road

"The Tao Te Ching" said: "The heavens and the earth can last long, so they can live a life."

Since ancient times, heaven and earth existed for a long time, and everything has been endless because they can accommodate all things and accept symbiosis.

The same is true of life. In social life, everyone cannot leave others and exists alone.

Helping others is to help yourself and keep the way for others, to pave the way for yourself.

In ancient times, a monk was purchased with Sha Mi down the mountain.

When passing by a river, the monk moved to many big stones. Every time he took a step, he moved a stone and put it on the foot.

Sami said puzzled: "We can cross the river, why do we still have a hard work?"

The monk didn't speak, but he continued to move stones.

Three months later, the weather entered the cold winter and the river became cold.

When they went down the mountain again, Sami found that more stones were piled up next to the stones paved last time, and it was also filled with gravel, and it was flat, and it became a stone bridge.

The old saying often says: "Given people to help others, middle people are crowded, and people step on people."

The path of life is never crowded. The wise man can always push himself and others, keep the way, and eventually achieve a win -win situation.

The fool often crowded others, stubborn and narrow, but stopped.

Those who really have a pattern have passed the river and do not forget to pave the way for others. From then on, the road of life will become wider and wider, and the more stable.

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"Small Window Young Ji" said: "Everything, leave the meaning of incompetence;

Speak away from Germany, do not judge, and do not say blessings;

Pay attention to things, no arbitrary, no suspicion, to get people's hearts;

Being a person to keep the way, not narrow, and not crowded, it is feasible and far away.

Each of us is not an island, learn to connect with others, use praise to replace indifference; replacing suspicion with sincerity; replacement of narrowness with wide vastness is the most important homework for our life practice.

In the second half of our lives, we hope that we can practice words and deeds. In the social affairs, we are ease and treat others.When you are still thinking alone, you are peaceful inside, and you are happy.

Source: Lao Tzu Tao Te Ching (ID: lzddj-1)

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