The retreat of adults is not given by money

Recently, a 36 -year -old college entrance examination has attracted the attention of the media.

18 years ago, the luggage (pseudonym) took the college entrance examination for the first time, and obtained a major of nationalology and journalism at the Central University for Nationalities, and then went to the Yunnan Institute of Nationalities to study graduate students.

After graduating, he entered a publishing house.

Development author, planning book publishing, writing book reviews, making new media, planning cultural and creative, and often visited colleges and universities in various places, participated in academic conferences, or signed and sold with authors of different nationalities ...

During the busyness, he gradually suffered from anxiety, resigned from the work with good treatment, and went home to open a small shop.

Some people think that he is to relax. In fact, he knows that you only know that freelance needs to be self -disciplined.

The luggage said, "No one stares at you, takes your mind for you, depends on consciousness and action. If I go out today, I will go out tomorrow night, and go out to watch a movie the next night. I haven't opened the door for a few days. This shop is unreliable, I won't come later, and I am not happy to deliver the goods. "

The experience of going to Wudang Mountain once changed his career choice again.

On the mountain, he met many people who were suffering from illness and wanted to use Taoist health methods to change the status quo. Coupled with the epidemic, he saw that everyone's life changed because of the virus.

Systematically and in -depth study of medicine, floating on luggage.

After making up his mind, he decided to re -examine the college entrance examination and be admitted to the medical school to study medicine.

After New Year's Day this year, he bought a lot of teaching auxiliary books and reviewed it in the small sales department.

In the past six months, the middle -aged men in the past year were drowned in the bitter sea of ​​mathematics and creatures. After experiencing anxiety and depression, insomnia and insomnia, repeated questions, silent writing, and finally scored a total score of 493 points. Admission of Medicine University.

Some people say that he will be willful. At the age of getting married and having money, he should not do business. He just wants his own interests, and some people envy him for "anti -society time", live himself, and cool.

And the understanding of my luggage is simple: "I just made a choice, and I assumed the consequences."

There will be regrets how to choose a choice of life. The terrible thing is that letting you fall into the dead end of other choices.

What everyone keeps working hard is just a power and ability to choose for themselves.

There is a detail in "My First Half of Life". Luo Zijun's child Ping'er asked Chen Junsheng: "Dad, what is the cornea?

Luo Zijun's mouth on the side said, "The foot mask is the film on the feet." He also said that her husband had never been to the beauty salon, and did not know that the mask on the face was called a foot mask on the feet.

In fact, she has the same education as Tang Jing, and she must know what the "cornea" is, but she does not work for a long time. In addition to shopping every day, she is beauty and beauty, and subconsciously thinks of what she hears in.

Demonstrate day after day in the life of nourishing the gesture, stopping learning and self -growth. When her husband suddenly proposed a divorce, Luo Zijun was stupid.

The options of free choice have never been fell out of thin air, but they worked hard.

Many people are familiar with the name Yan Ning. She graduated from Tsinghua University and was selected as a new generation of "Star of Chinese Sciences". She is a professor at the School of Medicine of Tsinghua University, a professor at Princeton University, and a doctorate instructor in Tsinghua University.

Now that she is still single, she is still single, and there is a word of words: "I don't get married, I don't owe anyone to explain."

Because of her study, her life has a broad path to go, whether to stay in Tsinghua, go to the United States, or not to get married, she does not have to be subject to others, just follow her heart.

Why do some people start the point when they enter the society, but the roads are getting narrower and narrower; some people take the road more and wider regardless of the starting point?

The difference between the two is whether you are lying on the current credit book to eat old books, or are not satisfied with the status quo and continuous learning.

There is a famous saying in Franklin: "Some people died at the age of 25, but they were buried at the age of 75."

What he said was actually a person who stayed at the age of 25 and never made progress.

There was a paragraph saying: "I only found out that after graduating, the first three months of the college entrance examination was the peak of the level of life knowledge '. Remember to live in the climate, and you can memorize the historical year ... "

Once you work, life is like going to the clockwork, sometimes at work, and time after get off work, some people are eight nights and nine, and there are 996 people.

Every day when I get home, I just want to fall asleep. I have no time to read books and study, not to mention the leisureness of the stars to watch the moon.

I am busy with work all day and exhausted for life, but I do n’t have time to study and have no time to think. Our busyness will be more effective.

Wang Manni in "Thirty", when she appeared, was a capable and neat urban beauty. When I bought herself, I brought a copy of the community security guard and walked to the shop. Guests have places to park and have a better consumer experience.

In order to miss VIP customers, she did not dare to drink plenty of water, and often took urination, and as a result, acute nephritis fainted in the rental house. Lying on the bed to answer the phone call, he dared to hide in the bed and crying.

For so hard, she did a sales of seven or eight years in Shanghai. When she reached her thirty mouths, her career stagnated.

I thought I could be promoted to be the deputy store manager. She is like many people who appeal on the Internet all day. They seem to be struggling. In fact, they just repeat the daily mechanical work.

A space of a sales must also need to have its own knowledge system:

Understand a little psychology to poke the customer's psychology more;

You can have a deeper understanding of your post to understand a little brand communication;

If you understand a little management, you can have room for promotion as the deputy store manager ...

If a person is just repeating the same thing during the work, your vision and knowledge boundary will never be opened.

Reading is the best way to open vision and enhance self.

Ogilvy once had an advertisement on the classic World Reading Day called "I am afraid of reading."

"I'm afraid of reading. When I talk to them, I am like a transparent person. The pale head cannot be hidden.

They are Newton who understands aesthetics, Van Gogh, who understands anthropology, and Gandhi, a grandchildren's warfare. The blood is full of answers, and the less and less questions can make them fear. As if standing on the giant's shoulder, he used to look down at everything. That confidence is the best face in this world.

I'm afraid of reading.

Because they are lucky. When the crowd hugs loneliness or is embraced by loneliness, their lives are not closed, no lack of loyalty of friends, the tenderness of the comforter, and even the opponent of each other is not scarce. "

Those who have a stable life but still read peacefully after the age of 30, after the age of 40, and 50 years old. They will not feel lonely when they are alone. I feel confused about the direction of life.

they know:

Read one more book today, and I will ask for a few words tomorrow; read one more book today, and will be a little far away from anxiety and ignorance tomorrow; read one more book today, and more life options ...

People who control the choice of life in their hands will leave a little time to the wise man and read. The words you have heard may be forgotten, but the impression that finally falls will help you improve your own. Thinking ability to help you become more insightful people.

Author | Covenant, write a good story of others, and live a good life.

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