Real masters are all altruists
Author:reader Time:2022.06.17
Text/Chelsea
Earlier this year, a news that "Ren Zhengfei issued a red envelope: Huawei took at least 35 billion points to employees" and boarded a hot search.
In the case of a decline in revenue in 2021, Huawei still treated employees so thickly and had to be praised.
Employees have also continuously nurtured the company through unremitting efforts and growth, making Huawei stronger and stronger.
As the founder of the enterprise, Ren Zhengfei has achieved great success.
He once explained to altruism: "Everything is considering everything from the perspective of the other party, and actively exports value for customers and employees. How much value do you create for customers and employees, you have a lot of value."
If you are born, you have a long time.
The real top master is the ultimate benefit of altruism.
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The more afraid of suffering, the easier it is to suffer
I have read a word online:
"With the mentality of" losing losses is cheap ", you can grow up quickly."
When interests are the first, it is difficult for us to understand this sentence, and we always think that suffering is not good for ourselves.
The reality tells us that the more people who are afraid of losing, the easier it is to suffer.
The friend company recruited two intern -Xiao Zhang and Xiao Li.
At first, both of them performed very positive, their eyes were fast, and Xiao Zhang was slightly better in ability.
But after a long time, Xiao Zhang was a little different.
When other old employees asked him to help him to do some information, he started to push off for various reasons.
Occasionally, he needs to add a class. His first reaction is whether there is a overtime fee, and he also talked privately: "These are the additional jobs, and do things without any reason."
On the contrary, Xiao Li always followed the call and did not complain.
Seeing Xiao Li so hard, Xiao Zhang laughed at him stupid: "Just do his own thing, no matter how much you lose."
After the internship period, my friend left Xiao Li who was not cared for.
Xiao Zhang, who is obviously sufficient in all aspects, lost his mentality of suffering.
The host Ma Dong said such a sentence:
"Our life often ignores a river because of seeing a boat."
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Those who are afraid of losing losses are sticking to the gains and losses in front of them, so they do not see long -term benefits, and they often lose their big loss.
If people are too much, they always consider themselves, and they are cheap on the surface, but they lose people's hearts, and they will lose more.
Really smart people often choose to take the initiative to lose, because they know a foot wide, and the road is one foot wide.
If you think more for others, others trust you one more.
The loss of eating today is the way to the sun.
It seems to be a failure now, but it is a surprise in the future.
If you want to take it, you must give it first
What kind of seeds will be sprinkled, what kind of fruit will be harvested.
In the appearance you paid for others, hiding the gains you want.
In 1673, the famous "Sanyue Department Store" in Japan was just a cloth shop called "Yuehou House".
At that time, it mainly operated cloth clothing. The supply object was people in the society. The store was not large and the business was average.
Once, the world was raining, and some pedestrians came in to avoid rain.
The owner lent several umbrellas in the shop to the hid.
This move made everyone feel good about Yuehou House, and everyone praised.
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The owner was very touched and wanted to recruit customers by borrowing an umbrella.
Therefore, he bought a large number of umbrellas and wrote the words "Yue Hou House" in the umbrella.
He told everyone that everyone who came to the rain to avoid rain could borrow an umbrella.
In this way, because the cloth shop took the initiative to borrow an umbrella, the business gradually flourished.
Later, they have always followed the business philosophy of "What do customers need? How can we satisfy?" And develop into Japan's earliest comprehensive department store.
To this day, Mitsukoshi Department Store is still the leader in Japanese department stores.
I have read a word: "What happened to you is not happening. What you get is what you pay."
We all hope to get something, but there is never nothing in the world.
Considering it blindly, it will only accelerate others' departure; excessive self -interest, in the end, can only be unprofitable.
There is a well -known law in psychology called "reciprocal psychology".
That is, most people have a psychological tendency to be unwilling to owe others. After getting the grace of others, they will try to return each other.
Human hearts are mutual, and life is also an echo.
If you give love, get love, you pay value, and get value.
All sincere efforts will not be disappointed.
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Extremely altruism is the best self -interest
"People's Daily" has reported a story of "the most beautiful girl" to save people.
On the streets of Jiyuan City, Henan, an old man riding a tricycle suddenly fell to the ground with a car.
Coincidentally, Jin Jinzi, a girl who had just submitted her resume from the hospital, saw it.
She hurried forward to support the tricycle, and then took off the mat on the car to let the old man pillow.
After checking the situation carefully, she found that the elderly had no trauma, but dizzy.
She judged by the experience accumulated during the internship that it should be dizziness caused by hypertension. Such a situation is most afraid of the old man suddenly coma.
In order to keep the elderly awake, she squatted on the ground and kept talking to the old man until the ambulance came.
The onlookers sent her video to the Internet, which attracted the praise of many citizens. Coincidentally, the dean of the hospital she voted for her resume also paid attention to the matter.
After learning that the girl was in a resume to the hospital, after seeing the righteousness, he immediately decided to pick up her directly.
Emerson once said: "The most wonderful compensation in this life is that anyone who really helps others is not helping himself."
When you truly help others, others will perceive your sincerity, and then give positive feedback.
Even if others do not return, you will harvest your inner peace and peace because of your good deeds.
The best return in this world is that you have the good cause of benefiting him and harvesting the good fruits of self -interest.
Don't stretch out your hands to others, you pull up others, but you actually pull yourself up.
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Once a disciple asked Master Zhanbanha: "Where is the difference between villains, saints and bodhisattvas?"
The master said:
"Little people always choose to fulfill themselves and not all others. The saints will always choose to be the whole of others. Bodhisattva will always become all sentient beings."
Life is a practice, self -interest is instinct, altruism is the realm, and common interest is complete.
There is no need to win everywhere, and the loss is also a blessing; if you don't have to do it from time to time, you have to lose; you do n’t have to ask for rewards, and the accumulation of goodness.
May you be warm and pure in your life, live a beam of light, not only illuminate yourself, but also warm others.
Author: Chelsea, freelance writer, is willing to use a pen to cross the people. Editor on duty: Liu Yan.
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