Three bottom logic of masters do things

as the saying goes:

"The reason why mortals are ordinary is that their thinking is too narrow and always can't catch the main contradictions of things, so that they often do ineffective efforts; the reason why great men are great is that they have strong logical leadership before they act."

Indeed, the gap between people often starts with the way of thinking.

Clarifying the underlying logic of things can help us see the truth of the matter.

The three large underlying logic of the masters can help you take less detours and stable and far away.

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If you do n’t complain about it, you can find the cause from yourself first

Xunzi once said: "Those who know they do not complain, those who know the life do not blame the sky, the person who complains is poor, and those who blame the heavens have no ambitions."

Think about it, it is true.

Looking at the people around them, most of them will not complain about the adversity.

On the contrary, they will choose to reflect on themselves, then remedy and improve.

Zeng Guofan is such a person.

In the early years, Zeng Guofan was irritable and angry, and there were often disputes with people's opinions.

Once, he conflicted with a fellow named Jin.

Jin's and a few friends came to visit the New Year. Because of the different views on something, the two quarreled and dispersed.

After that, Zeng Guofan regretted it, and he deeply reflected in his diary and criticized himself severely.

The intention is: I just determined to be a saint, self -cultivation and morality, and after two days, this happened, it was nothing like the beast.

Speaking of your faults, the words are sincere confession.

Although there is something wrong with his fellow villagers, Zeng Guofan only investigated his own problems.

After that, he made up his mind to change his head and demand himself more strictly.

Reading diligently and cultivating the body and mind in the book.

Not only that, he also actively listened to his friends' suggestions and supervised his words and deeds.

Whether a person is excellent depends on his attitude when dealing with the problem.

Blindly complaining that the outside world is bursting, it is destined not to improve; knowing how to explore inward and actively change yourself, life will get better and better.

Lu Xun also said: "I really dissect others from time to time, but more of them dissect myself more relentlessly."

This is the same. In the face of various problems in life, ordinary people need to continue to analyze themselves.

Rather than complaining about it, it is better to find the cause from yourself.

When you start to turn complaints into reflection and action, happiness will slowly approach you.

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Increaled interests, be a long -termist

The writer Gradewell said: "The genius in the eyes of people's eyes is not extraordinary, but they have made continuous efforts."

Gradually, I have a deep understanding of this sentence.

Many people only envy the achievements of "genius", thinking that they are talented, and they can always surpass others.

As everyone knows, the so -called masters are not developed overnight, but have been cast in the sculpture and thoughts day after day.

Mei Lanfang, a well -known Peking Opera performing artist, also had a time to sweat for dreams.

Mei Lanfang began to learn the show at the age of 8. At first, the teacher taught him to sing "Three Mrs.". Because he had just touched this field, he couldn't learn it for a long time.

The teacher helplessly and angrily said to him, "Master Grandpa did not give you this bowl of rice!"

In the face of ordinary people, in the face of such a thin evaluation, it may be self -doubting and choose to give up.

But Mei Lanfang did not, but he made up his mind: I practiced 10 times, I practiced 100 times, I would not learn it.

Regardless of the severe cold and heat, he always insisted on getting up early and practicing the basic skills.

Starlight does not ask the passers -by, and the time lives up to the people.

After long -term training, his basic skills are getting more and more solid, and then it shows the "talent" that is different from ordinary people.

All the upward changes in this world need to insist on walking through a difficult way.

New Oriental founder Yu Minhong has shared a small story.

There are only two types of animals that can reach the top of the pyramid. One is the eagle, flying up by his wings; there is also a animal, that is the snail.

Although the snail does not have wings, step by step, you can still climb to the top.

In real life, he also compared himself as a snail.

Faced with a person who is better than yourself, he said, "You have done things in 5 years for 10 years, you have done it for 10 years for 20 years, and you have done it for 20 years for 40 years."

In the second half of life, it is not connections or fame and fortune, but a long -term practice of one thing.

Life has never started too late. From now on, being a long -term man, he gradually improves in continuous efforts.

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Learn to show weakness and be good at borrowing out

There is a conversation in the Tao Te Ching.

Shang Rong asked Lao Tzu: "Why did he get his teeth when he was old when he was old, but his tongue was still there?"

Lao Tzu replied: "The reason why the teeth are dropped is because it is too strong; and the tongue knows when to show the weak side, so it can exist longer."

Many times too strong is not an advantage. On the contrary, learning to show weakness often win the final victory.

Writer Feng Tang is a person who knows how to show weakness.

Feng Tang's work from morning to night is full. However, there will still be a colleague who talks about it. He has to put down his work and coordinate them one by one.

On one occasion, Feng Tang did not help him, so he said to the three colleagues who couldn't coordinate, "I can't do it. I can't coordinate a few of you. I am very tired. "

Feng Tang's words made the three of them stop.

They looked at each other, and the three had to coordinate themselves.

As a result, the matter was arranged properly the next day, and the suspicion of the three was resolved.

In life, we don't have to carry everything ourselves. Sometimes it is easy to expose our weaknesses and seek external help, but it is easier to solve the problem.

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As the book "The Power of Weakness" said:

"We have to face the most authentic ourselves, and accepting ourselves to be an ordinary person. Because our dishonesty is exactly the sinful hand of constantly hollowing out the power of life."

The real strong often dares to show weakness.

Faced with disturbance, one less stubborn, more weakness and clumsy, showing a pattern and gas.

Life is not a battlefield, no need to touch everything.

In the second half of your life, I hope you and I can learn to show weakness, be good at borrowing out, and live a bright and calm life.

Life is like a game.

What makes us anxious is not too difficult to upgrade monsters, and it may not be that the starting equipment is too bad.

Instead, in this long contest, there is no way to upgrade, and even the hope of upgrade cannot be seen.

The most important thing for adults to solve problems is to find the logic behind things.

In this game of life, instead of being forced to go out of the situation because of the non -precise method, it is better to learn the masters and win opportunities.

If you do n’t complain about it, you can find the cause from yourself; weaken the interests in front of you, be a long -term man; learn to show weakness in a timely manner, and be good at borrowing out.

Life will not live up to a person who wants to become better, be good at upgrading your own thinking, constantly practicing, and you can live mature and transparent.

For the rest of my life, I hope you go all the way and harvest all the way!

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