Su Shi: How to see a person thoroughly

Humanity, hundreds of people's hearts,

It can be seen clearly, and it can be seen lightly.

Author: LEYLA

If you ask me, of the ancient literati, which of the most dating?

There is only one answer: Su Shi.

According to scholars, Su Shi's circle of friends has nearly a thousand friends.

From the prince Mo Ke, to the trafficking, from the prosperous Kyoto to the mountain village, Su Shi's friends can be described as the world.

In the age without mobile phones and computers, the number of dating is a miracle.

But Su Shi also said: "A snow in the east raily, how clear life is in life."

The more people interact, the more complicated to the people's hearts.

After coming, Su Shi told you how to see a person quickly.

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Little things depend on humanity

Man is an animal that is good at disguised.

But no matter how smart people, they will also expose the most authentic character in the inadvertent trivial matter.

After all, subconscious words and actions can better reflect a person's heart.

Once, Su Shi and his friend Xie Jingwen met in the suburbs.

A injured bird fell off the tree, and Su Shi just wanted to lean down and hold the bird.

Xie Jingwen strode forward and kicked the bird aside.

An indifferent action made Su Shi get half a cold.

He determined that this person must be a bullying and weak person who hurts himself, and must not be intertwined.

Sure enough, Xie Jingwen framed Su Shi to transport private salt for profit for fame and fortune, and tried to put Su Shi to death several times.

You know the leopard, and you know the autumn.

The ugliness and glory of human nature can be the best understanding in some inadvertent trivial matters.

In the early years, Su Shi also had a close friend named Zhang Ye, and the two were jinshi in the same list.

One day, the two played in the mountains and walked to a cliff, and there was only one single wooden bridge in front of them.

Zhang Yan proposed to let Su Shi cross the bridge and leave the name of the two on the cliff.

When Su Shi saw the abyss under the bridge, he shook his head and expressed his rejection.

But seeing Zhang Ye walked easily without changing his face, he wrote a few words "Su Shi Zhangzhang Come here" on the cliff.

After returning, look freely.

So Su Shi couldn't help but sigh, "You will be able to kill people every day."

Zhang Yan asked: "Why?"

Su Shi said: "If you don't cherish your life, you will not cherish others' lives."

A few years later, Zhang Ye was the prime minister, and his former political opponents were murdered, or they were degraded.

Sima Guang, who had been arguing with him, had died at this time, and Zhang Ye still stopped, asking him to dig, grave, and whip corpse.

Handle and spicy, showing a test.

There is an old saying in China: "It is reflected in the world, and the heart is hidden in the body."

Life fish dragons are mixed, and many times we see only a appearance in front of us.

A deep look of a person requires us to know through the usual clues.

Those who are expensive, even in the thinnest, can adhere to their hearts and maintain goodness.

There are people who have a loss in virtue.

They can throw the bottom line on a small matter, or be numb on major events; they can drink with you now, or turn around to sell you.

Details often see one person best.

2

Linxi Lin angrily watched his mind

In the book "Lu's Spring and Autumn", there was once "eight views and six inspections" knowledge.

The two of the most important of these are "joy to verify its advice, and anger to test its festivals."

If you want to see the size of a person's pattern, you must test it through emotions such as anger.

Because people only show their true cultivation and mind only under extreme emotions.

In the first year of Song Zhezong, the prime minister Sima Guang died, and a group of officials went to Xiangfu to hang up.

Unexpectedly, Sima Guang's son came to meet.

As soon as I asked, it was the leader of the Luo Party Cheng Yi forbid them from coming out.

The reason is that Cheng Yi believes that there is no such regulation in the ancient ceremony, and if the filial son is filial, he should be sad.

In the face of Cheng Yi's statement, Su Shi felt very absurd: "This is a kind of dregs, which is not desirable."

This sentence was just discussing.

But Cheng Yi felt that Su Shi brushed his face in front of everyone, so he was angry.

Regardless of Sima Guang's funeral, he was held, and he raised his voice in front of everyone.

Since then, Cheng Yi saw Su Shi stabbing his eyes like his eyes, which caused the "Shuluo Party to fight" for decades.

The so -called, I do n’t know what to do with anger.

Those who have a small pattern will be careless for others, and they will be burned in anger.

Those who have a large pattern can tolerate others, and they can also be self -denial, and they will not be worried between joy.

When Su Shi was in Yangzhou, he had a banquet guest, and the calligrapher Mi Yan was also present.

At that time, the literati circle thought that although Mi Yan had talented, she was weird and arrogant.

So half of the banquet, Mi Yan stood up and asked Su Shi and said, "Everyone says that I am crazy, what do you think?"

Su Shi had to be laughing at the truth, "I follow the public."

Perhaps people with narrow -minded people may have been annoyed long ago.

But Mi Yan was different. He and everyone laughed. Instead, it became a full talk.

The mountain is the peak, and the Hainan is hundreds of rivers.

If a person's life pattern is large, it will not sink on trivial makeup.

Those who are truly cheap will not be furious because of a trivial matter, and they will not be resentful because they have contradictions.

Compared to those who are not good at moving liver, people who can still keep their minds still be able to keep their minds in anger are worthy of deep intersection.

3

Look at the adversity to see sincere

Mr. Yang Yan said:

When you are in a high position, you see the dream of the spring. When you are humble, you have the opportunity to see the truth of the world.

When people are in the scenery, applause and follow -up are always easy.

Only when it falls, can we truly see who is false and who is true.

Su Shi has a painter friend called Li Gonglin.

When Su Shi was extremely man, when the world was full of the world, the two talked about laughter, drinking and singing.

Especially during the Yuanyou period, Li Gonglin was the statue of the painter temple of the Su family.

However, when Su Shi was degraded to the south and brought his family out of Beijing, Lu met Li Gonglin.

Su Shi's son Su Guo wanted to say hello to him. Unexpectedly, Li Gonglin rode on the horse, covered his face with a fan, turned his face, pretending not to know.

Thinking of a saying, "How many people around you are treating you sincerely and how many people are playing in the field.

The changes of people's hearts, and the true and false of emotions requires time to view it to see it true.

There are another group of people around Su Shi.

They sent countless tenderness when Su Shi settled, giving the greatest goodwill when they were in adversity.

For example, Chen Shizhong.

After the "Wutai Poetry Case", Chen Shizhong suffered a lot and suffered. But he didn't mind and repeatedly wrote to Su Shi.

Usually, "Ten Changsong Five Five" mentioned the brothers of Su Shi.

Even Su Shi couldn't help but sigh: "He loves the depth of each other."

Such as Ma Mengde.

Ma Meng was famous for the poor.

Su Shi wrote in his diary: I was born in the same month and the same month in the same month. We both were poor, but in a comparison, we still had a poorer.

After Su Shi was degraded in Huangzhou, Ma Meng had to run around, and he also took out his only savings to solve the livelihood problem of Su Shi's family.

Flaxed the horse, and it is difficult to know;

The real friendship is never the push cup to change the cup when the spring breeze is proud, but the poverty -stricken help.

The false feelings will be unprepared under the washing of time;

Sincerely, it will last for a long time in the experience of years.

Those friends who are not away from you when you are down are worth cherishing for a lifetime.

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Throughout Su Shi's life, three or three settlements.

The situation repeatedly, some praised him, helped him, and someone slandered him and destroyed him.

But no matter how many people and how many things have been seen through, he can dispel smoke in a smile.

Humanity, hundreds of people's hearts, can be seen clearly, can be seen clearly.

The so -called wisdom is like this.

Like a praise, I hope you can keep a pair of wisdom in the world.

Wave the wrong person to say goodbye and accompany the right people for the rest of their lives.

Keep a calmness and be free.

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