Night reading: Learning to admit mistakes is not afraid of the mileage of the pattern

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01

I heard a point recently,

The only shortcut in life is to "learn to admit mistakes",

It is very suitable for workplace conflict resolution.

Most people are unwilling to admit it in life,

I feel that I am very poor and humble.

In the face of the problem, you always have to argue "You are wrong, I'm right"

Or send out 100,000 why,

Want to keep the other person's dumb mouth speechless with constantly asking questions.

If our goal is to solve the problem,

Blindly arguing will only make simple things complicated,

Perhaps more costs are paid.

02

Recently because of work docking,

The partner and I had a conflict with a conflict.

I have been reflecting on this in the past few days,

Friends said, many things are not absolute or wrong,

From different perspectives, the answer is different.

I have nothing wrong from work responsibility.

From human affection, I think of it.

In order to alleviate the embarrassment between me and her,

I apologized to her, saying that I did not do well.

The more you grow up, you don't want to argue with many things.

No matter who is right and who is wrong, stand up and admit it generously.

As for the attitude of the other party, treat you,

That's what we can't control, letting it let it go.

03

Learning to admit mistakes is not afraid,

Perhaps the mileage of openness and pattern.

There are rivers and lakes where there are people,

There are all kinds of contradictions in some people,

Someone places there is opposition.

Enter a strange circle every time,

Due to different work content and different places,

The environment is different and the processing methods are different.

How to find the most suitable way for you?

This requires constant running -in and exploration.

04

The work needs to take a certain task with the people around me.

There are more responsibilities and power between partners and also have interests.

In these complex relationships, some people are very unaccustomed to you,

There are some conflicts that do not like to do things.

Friends once said me, do not escape in the face of conflict,

Escape can never solve the way.

Unless you leave this circle.

Of course, you have to have the courage to leave.

Otherwise, I still don't know how to deal with it next time.

05

Gradually see a lot of things,

Work harder again, as long as you make mistakes,

People only remember your fault, and always as a case.

No matter what the reason you do something wrong,

People always stand on the moral high point to talk about you.

Appreciate a person, you can have countless praise languages.

To slander a person, only a harmful word is needed.

In the workplace, the dignity of personal dignity will not be seduced at all.

Even if the relationship between you can ease,

You can also solve your own mistakes,

But the problems of others are often not so easy,

Especially in the face of a set of rumors behind.

06

Sometimes I hate it may have no reason,

It's not that there are any errors in your work to bring inconvenience to others,

It may be just because you are better than them.

"The gentleman has no time, and the sin is pregnant."

In fact, when you look back, learning to admit your mistakes does not suffer.

These grievances have made us grow.

How to make this growth not deviate from the right track?

We must always be pregnant with a good original intention,

Always adhering to the good treatment of all people and things.

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