The cultivation of a person depends on the kindness of frustration

Author: insight allergy

Warewell to see what it doesn't take, and poverty is not taken.

There is a clip in "Dream of Red Mansions" that impressed me deeply.

After crying for a while, Dai Yusheng Baoyu's anger turned around and told Zijuan to take care of the swallow:

"Look at the big swallow back, then put the curtain down, and lean on the stone lion."

Even if Dai Yu was crying, she did not forget the return of swallows. This kind of kindness was engraved in the bones.

Look at people, don't look at him when he is proud, it depends on his frustration.

When frustrated, people who can maintain kindness are truly cultivated people.

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I once saw a post in Douban:

Software companies' sales are very capable. As soon as they entered the company, they talked about two big customers, and soon promoted from ordinary salespersons to director.

The work is smooth and the water is gentle and polite. Usually, when you walk on the road, you will take the initiative to pick up the garbage and throw it into the trash. His colleagues and him have some jokes, and never see who he is red.

But after get off work, Little K was like a person.

The cleaners who came on the face blocked his way, and he yelled:

"Will you sweep the floor, do you droohes this clothes?" Can you afford it? "

When he arrived at the garage, he couldn't get out of the system because of the system's failure.

The colleague was stunned.

Xiao K explained slightly embarrassingly:

"Hey, I usually don't do this. I talked so much before. This time, because I didn't talk about this customer this time, I gave me a reduction of my job and transferred a new director. How can I mix it! Next class, It was also cleaned up and stained. "

Gorky said that when a person was in a happy mood and everything went well, he seemed kind.

It can be seen that a person's real cultivation is not to look at the brightness of his spring breeze, but to see if he is warm when he is frustrated.

For example, when you are in a bad mood, you can maintain basic politeness to the waiters.

When the work is not smooth, he still said "thank you" to the takeaway out of the food delivery time.

When you are constrained at hand, you will also help people who need more.

As the saying goes, embarrassment does not do what it does, and the poverty is not taken.

Life is by no means a reason to get my temper on others.

Only the kindness pretending will be revealed in the adversity.

02

There is a sentence in "Ordinary World": "Even if there is no moon, my heart is bright."

In this world, there are too many people with poor fate.

They like to complain about the injustice of life, and often vent their emotions to innocent people.

But there are always some people who can live the gentlest look even if their lives are not smooth.

When Wang Yangming was degraded, his life was very difficult, and he had no meat and no room.

The local villagers have not yet opened up, very barbaric, and often attacked Wang Yangming.

Not only was he not annoyed, but instead he saw a doctor, taught them to read, and cultivated them.

For a long time, Wang Yangming changed from an unreliable foreigner to a great good man and living bodhisattva in the villagers.

Bi Shumin said: "Educated people are equipped with a warm spring in their hearts."

When frustrating, you do n’t have suffocating, and you are in love when you are embarrassed. This kind of root education is more valuable than money and fortune.

Tao Yong mentioned a story in his new book "Eyes".

A 6 -year -old girl suffered from leukemia and was blind.

During the treatment process, she needed to be pierced on her eyes, but she insisted that she did not need anesthetic, and only took a little anesthetic potion to start surgery.

When Tao Yong asked the reason, she said that she wanted to save money at home.

Later, the girl's eyes improved. They participated in the painting competition and got the first place, with a bonus of 5,000 yuan.

What made Tao Yong incredible is that the girl actually took out 1,000 yuan and donated to another small patient in the same ward.

The girl was a person who had experienced huge suffering and even needed help, but she did not lose her good ability.

What is cultivation?

Knowing that there is a praise answer:

"Obviously experienced a storm, but suppressed the thoughts of the outbreak, and told others lightly, it was about to rain, are you ready to umbrella?"

The most advanced kindness of a person is to see the suffering of others, and it will give birth to compassion.

Even if I am raining, I always want to support the umbrella for others

03

I have watched a videos of nose.

A man -made man came to the police station and said: "I saw a school aid plan in the newspaper, and I wanted to donate 1,000 yuan."

After realizing his image, he emphasized uneasily: money is from regular channels, please rest assured.

Looking at his thin clothes, the police couldn't help but say, "Don't donate so much, it's so cold, don't you need a little?"

He didn't care about it, I can take care of myself.

There is such a paragraph in "There is a small sales department": "Life is light. Before I go out, I can illuminate you a little, that is, I can do it."

In this world, people who have never lack of goodness are people who still maintain a good person after experiencing the trough, trapped, and even strikes.

In his early years, Lin Yutang went abroad to study abroad. He was so poor that he couldn't even drink porridge. He had to ask Hu Shi for help.

"Can you borrow $ 1,000 from others by his brother?"

However, Hu Shi was also very poor at the time, and his home had raised debts for a time.

But he did not hesitate to send him $ 2,000 in the name of "early pre -salary" in the north. Four years later, Lin Yutang returned to China to take office, only to know that Peking University did not have a pre -salary.

Those money was all borrowed by Hu Shi and his wife, just to not hurt his self -esteem.

Thinking about the heart and the place for others, this is a kind of kindness and tenderness that push yourself and people.

Su Shi's poems are famous for the world and admire the world, and the kindness engraved in his bones is even more admirable.

In the Wutai Poetry Case, he was degraded to the land of Xiao Suo, which was far away, and the suffering of the degradation was inexhaustible.

But he always cares about Li Min and frequently builds the people.

He was degraded in Huangzhou, and he founded the first orphanage in China; he was degraded in Hangzhou, and he built Su Di; he was degraded by Huizhou. He designed tap water supply system ...

In the days of his long -lasting things, he worked hard to raise funds to pave the way for the local bridge.

The real strong will take all the sufferings of life, and then use kindness and strong to dress hell as heaven.

The more noble people, the more compassion.

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Being able to run a good person at a low place often can always reach the heights of life.

Life has never been proud, and people who are gentle and elegant are people who are still compassionate when they are frustrated.

When destiny is not good, remember to maintain kindness.

Kindness is a kind of echo. Maybe goodness is also the key to your frustration.

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