If people are not old, they are not old -fashioned that they are long -lived -Peng Shuipeng Qixi Valentine's Day

Every Tanabata Crescent Moon,

Miao Miao Galaxy Bridge.

Similar to the sky and the world,

Cowherd and weaver tears.

The Song Dynasty Guo Yingxiang wrote a word "Zhaojun Resentment · Drunk and Drunk Prostitute Lihua": "Tonight Begonia Cave. How much is affectionate. Tears." Liu Chenweng, a little later, wrote "Xiangxiangzi · Da Mei": " Yuelu Wu Hui ... Sorrows and rain, grieving Yangchun ... Tears ... Lian Jun Su Su, read me true. "Zheng Xi's" Magnolia Slow "in the Yuan Dynasty was even more direct:" Ren Dongfeng is old, keeps blowing, tears are full of tears ... It is like drunk, like a mad dance, like a dream. The incense soul is only obsessed with today ... Where does the later night meet, the breeze is bright and the moon. " The most vivid portrayal is "tears".

Today is the seventh day of July of the lunar calendar. The seventh day is the traditional Valentine's Day of China. It is destined to be the day of "tears". Lover -humanity, human nature. The word "love" condenses all the history of human evolution and progress. Love is love, hate is affection; love is affectionate, stop love; enjoyment is love, suffering is also love. The motherland, national sentiment, family affection, friendship, all love within the world. Love has affection, evil has evil, and love is different. Everyone is a product of love, a carrier, researcher, and terminal. "2.14" is Western Valentine's Day. Tanabata is Valentine's Day in China. Although the two are different, the connotation, and expression are different, the transmission effect of human emotions is the same. On this Valentine's Day, I wish the world a happy holiday!

(1) The Tanabata Festival originated from the sacrifice activities worshiped by the ancient ancestors. The Qixi Festival is also known as the Qiqiao Festival, the Seven Sister Day, Daughter's Day, Qiqiao Festival, Qi Niang Club, Qixi Festival, Qiaoxi, etc., and later derived the beautiful legend of "cowherd and weaver girl", making it a festival symbolizing love. According to legend, on the seventh day of July every year, the magpie of the world gathers over the galaxy, and the beautiful bridge is set up for the cowboy and weaver. In the world, there are lovers in the world, looking up at the starry sky, the mountain alliance wore, holding each other, Qingqing me. The heavens and earth are in love. In some Asian countries influenced by Chinese culture, such as Japan, Korean Peninsula, Vietnam, etc., there are also traditions to celebrate the Qixi Festival. On May 20, 2006, the Qixi Festival was included in the first batch of national intangible cultural heritage list by the State Council. In recent years, the call for the "Tanabata Festival" to be included in the national legal festival has become higher and higher.

In the story of Chinese civilization, love stories are the most touching. The first poem "Guan Yan" in the Book of Songs wrote love: Guan Guan Jiu Dove, in the continent of the river. Lady, gentleman is so good. The Song of the Song Dynasty, "I live in the Yangtze River, the king lives at the end of the Yangtze River, and I don't see the monarch every day. Cowherd Weaver, Jiang Nu Qiliang, Su Zhen Xu Xian, Yingtai Shan Bo ... A pair of romantic stories to lover is widely circulated in the folk. There are more love stories in "Liao Zhai Zhi Yi", such as "Ying Ning", "Lotus", "Xiangyu", "Crow Tau", "Crossing", "Liancheng", "Niang Niang", all names Article. In the encyclopedia of the social encyclopedia, "Dream of Red Mansions", using the method of "homophonic meaning", writing the corruption of society, the loss of the family, and the fantasy of love, the word "love" has a ruthless anatomy. The love poems in the classics can be described as sweaty, but there are a few common points worth thinking about: First, love has no different sources, and there is no class. Fairy, ghost foxes, and monsters are full of affection, and they all have true feelings, and even make humans be ashamed; the second is yin and yang decline. Most of the women are crazy, and the male is thick and thick. Seven Fairies, Bai Suzhen, Meng Jiangnu, Zhu Yingtai, and the pitiful sister Lin ... There are all kinds of style, cowherd, Xu Xian, Qiliang, Shanbo, Baoyu ... They are all integrated. Due to the intervention of a person, something, and some kind of forces, the desire to be born or love cannot be; the fourth is that the ending is not good. Or leave, or die, break the intestines. This is a portrayal of history and a mirror of reality. What is love? Why is it so embarrassed? Where is the love? No one can say clearly. Although Cao Xueqin has a lot of "awake dream sentences" in "Dream of Red Mansions", saying "love" is the moon in the water, flowers in the mirror; autumn flowing to winter, spring flowing to summer; Knowing who is; sighing people, it is difficult to determine! But in reality, his emotional life is still less sweet and sour, more bitter.

(2) February 14th of each year is Western Valentine's Day, also known as the St. Valentine Festival or St. Huarun Thai Festival. There are different versions of explanation. Legend has it that the Roman Emperor Claudi II, the Emperor of the Roman Empire, ordered the abolition of all marriage contracts due to the needs of the national war mobilization, so that men -age men can go to the front line at any time. However, there was a Christian youth named San Valentin who violated the emperor's instructions and held a wedding for the people who loved. He was put into prison and loved the daughter of the chief of the prison in prison. On February 14, 270, St. Valentine was executed and wrote a touching last long letter to his lover before leaving. After the 14th century after the 11th century, countries in Europe and the United States have emerged in commemoration of this incident and gradually evolved into romantic Valentine's Day. In fact, this is not a new understanding of love, but is directly related to the changes in the Western medieval concepts. According to Overseas Network, February 14, 2019, US media revealed that Japanese women are resisting their own Valentine's Day. They see that the "lover culture" is much greater than the freedom to gain. "2.14" Valentine's Day logging in China was a matter of the 1980s, and the new century became new fashion. In China, China is not only pursued by fashion young people, but also gradually accepted by middle -aged and elderly people. Among them, the merchant's "merit" contributed. It is just that the specific concept of "lover" has been completely Chinese, and it is broadly "lover." Many husbands and wives are also enjoying the happiness of Valentine's Day sweetly. Even if they have their own lover, they will not share their right to know with their legal marriage objects. This is far from Western Valentine's Day. In the West, lovers are a kind of love than love in marriage. They are the contradictions of the orthodoxy of the Middle Ages that they want to maintain their appearance and do not want to suppress their inner desire. Extra -marriage is open or semi -open. Here, it is not important. The important thing is sex. Both husbands and wives can enjoy extramarital sex, without having to bear the heavy cross. This process has gone through the 11th century, showing how difficult the traditional concept and the formation of new lifestyles! The establishment of Valentine's Day has gradually expanded from a few countries and regions to a wider range of countries and regions. In fact, in the evolution of human beings, a civilized progress has improved an important node, that is, the era of monogamy will end. The sexual relationship is tolerant of society, although sometimes a little shy answer. Therefore, in essence, the lover (extramarital affairs) is the tomb digker of a happy marriage and family, and at the same time, it is also a pioneer who returns to nature in the circle of human evolution. However, due to the different degrees of people's nature of human nature and the nature of human (society), the wise man is self -intellectual, the fool is self -confident; We look forward to the society that the "gender relationships that are related to the parties that are only related to the parties and the society do not need to interfere with interference" that the classic writers can realize it as soon as possible. The vulgarity of the day after tomorrow. And this is not what we can imagine and understand today. The advent of the intelligent era will completely change the human thinking mode and lifestyle. Now there are smart robots with high profile. In the near future, there will be smart robots with skin feel, emotional communication and physiological reflection, and brain nerves. Scientific development is endless. No one or law can stop it. It is only a matter of time. At that time, the opening ceremony of the post -human age and the closing ceremony of the human age will be held at the same time. Woo, sorrow! (3) Love and sex are human nature, the instinct of biological, and the natural power given by nature. Without love and sex, there is no richness of nature. Plant pollination, animal insemination, and human sex are the basic ways to continue the life body. Some experts have pointed out that in addition to playing an important role in human reproduction, love also has a very important cultural significance, health and health effects, as well as universal functions of harmonious families and harmonious society. Peng Zu is 800 years old, and "sex" is a true scripture.

Home and everything, love is a needle. A study published in the magazine of Psychology and AGING in 2020 shows that good love will "nourish" each other, which can slow down people's aging and make people live longer. Compared with lovers, the aging of "single dogs" is faster. However, it is also mentioned in the study that disharmonic partners will accelerate aging. The research surveyed people between the ages of 26 and 45, and the relationship characteristics and biological aging in the past 20 years. It is found that people who have never had a relationship or in love in a stage of love have never been accelerated. Compared with other participants, the difference in physiological aging is about 2.9 years. Even if you enter the old age, love and sex are equally important. It was found in the survey that some people after the age of 50 have fallen passionate, and it is not normal to decline before it is old. Some scholars have studied that the interaction between normal lovers can obtain many benefits: they can release various happy hormones, such as the familiar dopamine, make the mood happy, relax, and relieve tension; Speed ​​up, the body is fever, the blood vessels are swollen, and the breathing deepen; it can reduce stress and anxiety. Dr. Joy Davidson, a psychologist and clinic scientist in Seattle, said that when the two people in love are interacting, in addition to increasing hormone secretion in the brain, they will also reduce the level of cortisol, that is, "stress hormones"; can reduce cholesterol. A study published in the "Communication" magazine conducted 6 weeks of follow -up survey of 52 married adults. If the gender relations are harmonious, the total serum cholesterol level has been reduced, and the lung activity and oxygen supply level has improved. (4) On the "love" of people, feelings, love, affection, Chinese culture has a particularly rich connotation. Love is common for nature, mountains, water, and things have their own affection, but they can know very much; feelings, which are unique to long animals, can influence each other, infection, and interact with each other; , Acceleration of each other, sexual interaction), is unique to humans; affection (intensity with blood and marriage), which is unique to special groups. The difference between Eastern and Western love is: First, the way of expression is different, the West is unrestrained, direct; the East is gentle, subtle, and the difference is soft and non -soft. The second is that the concept of keeping is different. The West is more casual. What you value is the feeling in front of you. As long as you love today, you will love it tomorrow. One night stand is a typical reflection. Dongfang is more cautious, not only paying attention to the feelings in front of you, but also the long -term effects. The difference between the two is different in responsibility. The third is different from marriage. There is love in the West, then there are marriage, and even love and no marriage. From the evolution of human emotions, there is no twisting, which is not much different from the original state. The East was consistent with the West in the early East, but later marriage and love were volatile. After the May 4th, women's liberation was advocated, and now it is basically close to the West. But old traditions in some areas still have a great impact. Many people are in the form of Western style, but the concepts in their bones are still old, and there are many families with marriage without love. The West can get together well, and the East is not easy to gather, and it is harder to scatter. Fourth, the ending of love is different. Western love, family, large variables, many complexity, and not many pure homes. Although the marriage and family in the East, although the hardships of the family, have become good in patience and persistence. This difference in Eastern and Western culture is relative, changing, and mutually influential. East is gradually western, and the West has hoped for a long time. The circle of the universe is from each other to the back, from the back to the opposite, endless cycle. Life is a journey, a journey, just walking forward with happiness and hope. The two eyes given by God have a 270 -degree vision. This field of vision is enough to appreciate the scenery along the way. Of course, if you look back occasionally, you will find new scenery, but this is not the new scenery, but also the result of changes in your sight and way of thinking. Please remember: you can only look back, not to turn around! When turning around, it is not only the direction, but the memory that will lose life. You will never find the new love.

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