Yu Minhong's recent situation was exposed, and I read that he wrote "Looking for Hope in Despair"

In the past few days, the "Eastern Selection" of New Oriental's live broadcast room has caused heated discussion among netizens.

Dong Yuhui, an English teacher who has taught 500,000 students, is refreshing in Chinese and English.

In just 3 days, the live broadcast room increased more than 1.3 million, and the total sales volume from 980,000 to 10 million.

Recalling that in November last year, New Oriental was still in danger in sighing.

The "double reduction" policy comes, and the era of teaching and training has ended. Campus retirement campus, shrinking market value, and a large number of layoffs ...

During the 30 years, New Oriental, a brick -and -tile building, seemed to collapse.

Who knew that in just a few months, Yu Minhong led the team into the live broadcast field and broke out again.

On the top of the platform hot search list, online stocks once skyrocketed 100%, and praise came over.

In this regard, a netizen commented: "In Yu Minhong, there are vitality that conforms to the times, and there is also the willpower of reversing the wind."

As early as 2014, Yu Minhong wrote a book "Looking for Hope in Despair", telling his experience of bravery.

From schooling, work to entrepreneurship, he was overturned to the ground again and again, and stepped step by step.

However, life will not stop, and it will go down one after another, and will eventually wait for the clouds.

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Look at life with a length and take the end as a new starting point. In the book, Yu Minhong told her two early experiences.

The first paragraph was when he was 17 years old and lost his college entrance examination twice in a row.

At that time, a young man in the village also tested for two years, which also regretted the list.

Yu Minhong went to the young man and asked the other party if he was willing to take the third year with him.

Young people thought that they failed and chose to plant fields at home. As a result, they could not get out of the countryside for a lifetime.

Yu Minhong went to the English tuition class run by the county government, and studied desperately and received the admission notice from Peking University.

The second paragraph was that he was studying at Peking University, and his academic performance was very poor. He only passed the fifth countdown in the class when he graduated.

Students with excellent grades went to the Ministry of Foreign Affairs and well -known newspapers.

He couldn't find his favorite job, and even eating was a problem.

Fortunately, Peking University expanded an English teacher before leaving school to teach.

At first, his heart was very depressed and felt that he was not as good as others.

But he had toughness on his body, and he did not have a slump because of the blow in front of him.

He durable and polished himself day after day, and continued to improve the level of teaching.

Over time, he stood firmly at Peking University, and later became a training course teacher, and founded New Oriental.

Fame, wealth, and external appreciation continued to attack him like a tide.

Most of those students who had been ahead of him, but most of them were unknown and were thrown behind him.

Life is not a hundred -meter racing, but the marathon that can't see the head. Temporary backwardness cannot determine the final victory.

When you look at your eyes and overlook the road of life, you will find the gains and losses at a certain stage, but you are overwhelming.

If you have confidence in the future, have patience about the moment, move forward step by step, and it will come sooner or later.

2

Look at frustration in another mentality and turn disappointment into hope. I've heard such a paragraph:

The mentality of life is good, the mentality is good, and the difficulties of the sky will not scare you; the mentality is not good, and the small setbacks will become an insurmountable gap.

Yu Minhong recalled in the book that during the 11 years of Peking University, he was always surrounded by a strong sense of inferiority.

Entering the college in the college entrance examination at the third degree, there is no heterosexuality at academic performance;

In the third grade of college, he also had to go to school for a full year due to suffering from tuberculosis;

After graduating, I have taught for 6 years at Peking University, and my salary and position have always been unchanged ...

It can be said that before the age of 30, he rarely tasted any joy of success.

For this reason, he often complained that he was low in his origin and his knowledge was shallow. He would tremble when he saw beautiful girls. No one except the roommates did not contact.

However, the more he was arrogant, the more he complained, the worse the situation became.

Because of his training, he had to leave from Peking University, and he planned to study abroad but could not get a visa.

In order to make a living, he ran to the Foreign Language Training Department for class, and the teaching level was recognized by some students.

Since then, his confidence has increased greatly, and he has also developed a strong interest in teaching and training, and is determined to start his own school.

Later, in the process of entrepreneurship, he changed from a teacher to an entrepreneur, and he was still repeatedly frustrated in interpersonal communication and business management.

However, he no longer questioned himself, but learned lessons from failure, summarized experience, and gradually improved management capabilities, so that enterprises have grown increasingly.

Yu Minhong said with emotion:

"We have to have a correct mentality. Many things in life are your mentality correctly, so that things can be done correctly, and life can change in a good direction."

What really makes a person desperate is not that there is no way to go ahead, but because he does not believe that he has the ability to continue to move forward.

American social psychologists have proposed the famous "Fastein Ge Law":

10%in life is composed of what happened to you, and the other 90%is determined by how you react to what you happened.

In other words, the results of most things are actually controlled by ourselves.

Rather than complaining to waste time, it is better to turn the soil on your body into a upward step.

With a steady mentality, deeply cultivating yourself, and after all, you will wait to cross the dawn of the darkness.

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Look at the problem and find opportunities in the crisis. In this book, Yu Minhong also mentioned an unforgettable past. In 1991, the day he resigned from Peking University, the school recovered the house arranged for him.

He was shy and had nowhere to go. He could only find a cheap house as soon as possible.

But since he came to Peking University, he was afraid of saying wrong and dare not communicate with others.

The situation was urgent, and he had to have the courage to go to the nearby rural to see the house.

He inquired for a long time and finally rented a house, but it was difficult to bear the rent.

At this time, when he saw that a child in the landlord's family was writing homework, he asked tentatively: "If I tutor the child into the top ten of the whole class, can I avoid the rent?"

The landlord was worried about the education of the child, and agreed to him without saying a word.

As a result, Yu Minhong went out to class every day, and his wife taught the child at home to help the children enter the top five in the class.

In this way, he not only solved the problem of housing and rent, but also became a good friend with the landlord's family.

There is no end to the road, no matter how difficult the situation is, it is not as terrible as you think.

In life, some people always say that they do not work, and they choose to retreat when they encounter difficulties;

Comparing love with others in my heart, he abandoned himself as soon as he encountered a blow.

In fact, they are not really incapable, but are used to self -doubt.

As long as you face the frustration and face the difficulties, you can find that you are not unbearable.

The Shengya Shenghe, who was running, was timid in introverted when he was young.

When he first worked, he didn't even dare to answer the phone; after starting his business, he was afraid of facing complex interpersonal problems.

On one occasion, the company's truck had a car accident, the employee collapsed emotionally, and the victim's family came to the company to make trouble.

At first, Inamori was scared and panicked, but the sense of responsibility as an operator aroused his courage.

He calmly appeased his employees, apologized to his family sincerely, and tried his best to pay compensation.

As a result, they quickly got the understanding of their families and successfully resolved the crisis.

Liu Bowen, a writer in the Ming Dynasty, once said: "Poly pole is leaked, the stuffy is reached, the heat is the wind, and the pole is common."

The meaning is that once the crisis reaches the apex, it is the beginning of the turnaround.

People live for a lifetime, and they always have to experience the unpredictable fate and the ups and downs of the world.

However, God will not make you bear the suffering that cannot be afforded, and if you dare to open your legs, there will be no difficulty.

Once you choose to go fearlessly, the front is assault, and the Dao Mountain Fire Sea can't be trapped.

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Look at the failure in another direction and realize rebirth in despair. The book also mentioned that at the end of the 1980s, it was the time when the tide of abroad rose.

Yu Minhong's classmates studying in North America, and his wife urged him to prepare for studying abroad.

However, no school is willing to provide him with scholarships or scholarships, he can only accumulate tuition fees by classes.

He worked hard for this for three years, but he was repeatedly rejected when he finally applied for abroad, watching his dream shattered.

Fortunately, he did not have a depression of will, but decisively let go of his obsession, and changed his efforts.

He had a huge income of modern classes, and he simply set up training courses and picked up in the field of education.

This is the starting point of New Oriental, and the beginning of the legend of the "overseas godfather".

Today, the torrent of the times is raging, and Yu Minhong has been involved in the center of the storm again.

On January 8, 2022, in the year -end summary, he mentioned a string of amazing numbers:

In the past year, the market value of New Oriental has fallen by 90%, operating income has decreased by 80%, 60,000 employees have been dismissed, and cash expenditures such as refunding tuition fees, employee removal of N+1, and lease of teaching points are nearly 20 billion.

The New Oriental, which once reached a brilliant New Orient, came to the edge of collapse overnight.

However, Yu Minhong had no time to blame himself, but just said lightly: "It's not until you recognize it."

He continued to convert the track and led 50,000 employees into the live broadcast industry.

At the beginning, the sales of the live broadcast room of New Oriental were bleak, and no one asked, and the single -day sales were not even from the head anchor.

But they struggled in the mud, but they were not rushing to achieve success, but they were patiently dormant and constantly explored.

Until June this year, this group of talented teachers attracted the attention of netizens with their own specialties.

Not only did they export their chapters, they also brought the goods while taking the goods.

Some people teach English words, some people popularize geographical knowledge, and some people take turns to perform talents, and they seem to treat the live broadcast room as another classroom.

Many netizens are happy and squeeze into the live broadcast room to learn knowledge.

The unique model also allowed them to overtake the curve during this new journey, and the popularity and sales continued to soar.

In the past, the leader of the teaching and training industry has now changed and has become the ceiling of the live broadcast industry.

Water to despair is a scenery, and people to despair are rebirth.

The predicament is not only the crushing and discipline of suffering, but also a kind of awakening and sublimation of life.

The poet Wang Wei said: "When you go to the poor water, sit while watching the clouds."

When you come to an end, you may wish to look up at the sky, and you can't find the beauty of the mountains and rivers, but you can see the vastness of the clear sky.

There is no real desperation in the world, only the mood trapped by despair.

When you hit the wall, you can change the direction, and find another way when you touch it.

As long as you keep walking, you will arrive in the distance from the flowers of the flowers sooner or later.

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Some people say that "Looking for Hope in Despair" is like a clear spring, which makes countless confused souls suddenly open up.

Especially in the current increasingly depressed environment, people are as powerful as ants: the epidemic in many places continues to counterattack, the Russian and Ukraine conflict continues, the cause of the Eastern Airlines MU5735 accident has not been found. Sichuan suddenly broke out of the earthquake., Layoff ...

Life is like a cruel monastery. The bitterness and torture of the heart of the cone, no one can escape.

However, as Yu Minhong said:

"The difference between people and people is not that they encounter difficulties in their lives, but in the face of the attitude adopted in the face of difficulties."

After walking the deepest desperation and carrying the most intense tempering, life will eventually burst into a spark.

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Author: insight · Xu Mu Mu

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