Cover comment | Confirm each other on the "Tanabata" and find the inner self -consistent in the love

□ Jiang Yanzheng

Today, the seventh day of July of the lunar calendar is the "Tanabata" of traditional Chinese festivals. As one of the traditional Chinese festivals, Tanabata has a long history and rich spiritual core, which has a high degree of attention and popularity at the moment. On the day of the Qixi Festival, couples expressed their love by sending gifts from each other, and many young people were deliberately choosing to receive a certificate at the Qixi Festival, announcing the major decisions of this life to the world, holding hands into the palace of marriage. (China News Agency)

Tanabata is the footnote of love. This kind of "footnote" can be a kind of affection or "sweet trouble". To a large extent, the "little thing for gifts" has become one of the core issues of "Tanabata". Perhaps it is second only to show love and confession itself. The love logic of "gifts is equal to the mind, and formal meaning and meaning". It is a new festival with the commercial marketing of the consumer society. When it is really, the drums are warm, beautiful and straightforward.

A community data shows that "69.9%of the young people interviewed were troubled in giving gifts. If you do not send lover gifts on special days, 63.5%of the interviewed youths said there will be psychological pressure." Solution, it is better to choose a "most wrong solution". As a common love language, flowers are always right. From the perspective of market feedback, two days before the Qixi Festival, the amount of gifts for gift bouquets increased by nearly 300%month -on -last week -based on flowers, love was thin.

If it is said that the legend of the Cowherd Weaver Girl has laid the cultural symbol of the Qixi Festival. Then, the powerful kinetic energy of the "business festival" has completed the "two innovations" and "reconstruction" of this ancient festival. The Qixi Festival meets, and everyone is working hard to do romantic things, such as watching movies, eating big meals, and swap gifts. Just looking back, these are nothing more than the daily landscape of consumer society. Love and being loved are the ultimate kernels of Qixi Festival. The atmosphere, ritual, and surprise, maybe it is just impossible to find it.

At the Qixi Festival, confirm each other and reconcile each other on the Tanabata. As far as lovers are concerned, they always need a special time node to re -resume mutual complaints and regain their enthusiasm at the beginning of love. At this moment, all hesitant, burnout, and stumbling smoke disappeared. Tanabata is a love entering the station and then set off. It may not be so solemn, bright and beautiful, and may not have to put together a high -profile love for the circle of friends in the circle of friends. It is really important that it is to relive the heartbeat and confirm that the right person is the right person.

Love starts at first sight, or is derived from the long -term love, but after all, it must be tied to daily operations. Love is a "private region affairs" that belongs to only two, and is independent and endogenous. It is just that many times, we are used to letting our love be attributed to a paradigm and a standard, always paranoid to respond to the setting of the outside world, always obsessed with comparison and alignment, always unknowingly, want to let it, want to let it, want to let it, want to let it, want to let it, want to let it, and want to let let it be. I am the happiest and most enviable one. Perhaps this is already the last.

Together in the Qixi Festival, we should also remember the legend of the classical love. Regarding waiting, persistence, the infatuation of the time and distance of the foot of the foot -"If the two loves are long, how can it be in the downside."

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