I hate you, I like you, to like you more complete
Author:You Chengdu Time:2022.08.04
On Qixi Festival, I talked to my friends about the darkening of the stable love. The roughness behind the surface of the surface was rough. Unexpectedly, some people took the opportunity to sprinkle dog food. Some people wanted to answer too strong. Some people simply refused to reflect on their marriage.
The appearance of love is fine, authentic, and changing, romantic and helpless. Because of its complexity and elusive, many people have lost their faith in love, shrinking in their own shells, and building barriers to get along with people.
Of course, love is not necessary to have, and there are no models.
From their sharing, you will see disgust, disgust, various attitudes of intimate relationships, and also seeing full of love. Maybe you will sigh: "The small probability event of love is quite sweet."
Cat catching birds is natural.
But in our house, we have to challenge this nature. They may not see each other in their lives.
Every time I look at my wife and my grandfather, I think of the Bannat couple in "Avi and Prejudice".
My grandfather raised 15 birds, took a bath every day, showered the eyebrows, took a bath, and took a bath.
My wife raised a small white cat. The vegetable market was bought for 10 yuan, named ten yuan, and held him every day to pat the vibrato. Cat catching birds is natural, but in our house, it is necessary to challenge this nature.
"Jufen (Sichuan dialect qiofen), get a little bit of your cat." "Zhang Laohan, he did not pump out of the broom, and washed the bird cage.
As long as the cat stares at a Kazakhstan, my grandfather will get angry. My grandfather will get angry, and my mother will get angry. For decades, my grandfather has done a scum. Finally, he said a ruthlessly. But when you receive social security every month, huh.
"Jufen, let me go, let me take you."
"Come on. Last month, I borrowed me 200 yuan."
"No problem. But I look at a bird cage again."
Flower raised by Uncle Zhang
My mother -in -law and my grandfather may not see the other person, but that's it, and I bumped, and after 50 years. Are you happy? I see pretty happiness.
Before one thing is over, it makes me responsible or packing.
Whenever I am interesting to open any unscrupulous plans, he is the first to tell me how to achieve it and where is the difficulty.
To say which moment hates each other, "the most" and "moment" cannot cover my dissatisfaction: a kind of dissatisfaction of life suppressed, I have at least "two moments."
The first moment was dissatisfied, and one thing was not over yet, so I was responsible or packed. For example, before the rice was eaten, I blamed me to drop the rice on the table or on the ground; On the ground; the bowl has not been washed yet, and ask why you do n’t wipe the oil on the stove. Although these are my laziness and chaos, and the PTSD left by the front hand and no back hand, the rigorous cleanliness exceeds the life itself, and the heart to be responsible for the one -stop heart is suppressed. It is a bit slightly dissatisfied Essence
The second moment is dissatisfied, whenever I am interesting to open any great plans, he is the first to tell me how to achieve it, where is the difficulty. This is full of interest. Although his predictions are rational and accurate, he cannot hold back the analysis and give encouragement and lies. It is similar to the previous generation's attitude towards the child. Essence
As for the moment when he loves each other, one day he paved the bed, and the shape was very cute. I laughed. Next, the paving method of bed changes every day, and I see almost all before going to bed. I laughed without saying a word, and he was calm. This patience and tiny details run through our daily life.
It is not a big peak experience, but as the pure love warrior Qi Zeke said: We share the commitment of the world, in the trivial matters of who cooks, take a walk after meals, and bring your mobile phone without mobile phones into the bedroom, maintain a tiny ceremony, and maintains a tiny ceremony. Feelings, jointly building the way to get along with the world, is related to absolute exclusiveness and absolute trust.
The most disgusting is that his sudden temper, always a young man who is always a little, wants to slap him to death.
From college to middle -aged love, I don't know where to start. After experiencing too much together, when the relationship is strong, you send me and me to send you, reluctant, can't wait to step on the road hundreds of times; when you are fiercely quarreled, you can't wait to shoot the other party, and you can think of it, "It's better to just count it. "".
The ups and downs, at some peaceful moments, discovered the other party again, and "discovered" to support us to go now.
Love will of course disappear, but it will come back again and again.
The most disgusting was that he suddenly had a temper and thought to his heart, "This man hasn't grown up yet." Then he was so cold. No longer trying to change each other, most of the time they get along like friends and comrades.
From two to three people
When he loved him the most, he was emotionally low, and he stayed silently when he was beside him. He is here, knowing what you are going through, but not forcing you to get better right away, and you are ready to support you at any time.
My husband was most annoying when he was impatient, and made me in minutes.
When I hate each other: my husband is most annoying when I was acute, because I was chronic.
Two people painted by husband
Everything at home is easy to say. He is easy to worry about when he goes out. When he is in a hurry, he will be angry or collapsed. As a result, it is me.
Two people painted by husband
When I love each other the most: I am not at home on the weekend. When he takes the initiative to hang cakes (make the rice well in advance), he also reads his words: "Otherwise, what do you eat?"
Two people painted by husband
I can't understand why there are such cheap people in the world, and he will be curious, especially when I just bought it. He has never seen it.
When he was moved by the things at home, he couldn't find it again, and he hated him the most. I can't understand why there are such cheap people in the world, and he will be curious, especially when I just bought it. He has never seen it. I once bought a new thermos cup with boiling water inside. He was discovered the next day, and he was ready to drink water when he opened the cup and almost scalded the accident.
After traveling to Dali last year, the two decided that they would never travel together again.
Drive the children to pick up children in the morning and evening, when the wind and rain are unimpeded; the parent group needs to be entertainment in the group.
I am only sweet and have no disgust.
In fact, there is no disgust, it is all of your own, not such a big "hatred" (manual dog head).
I have always thought that a healthy intimacy requires two people to pay at the same time. There are reluctances. Now that they have been moisturized by love, don't force those thin "troubles".
When I love each other the most, maybe a Saturday afternoon, the air conditioner turned on to the right temperature. We lay on the sofa to watch TV, then looked at each other, and said in unison to say that the milk tea that was thought about.
It is said that this story called beauty and security guards
Gentle as me, I really didn't hate each other.
I have never hated him, because for me, there will be no now for 7 years. I am very satisfied with myself, I am also satisfied with him, I am satisfied with life, and I am looking forward to the future.
He took her
We all get along in the way we like, not pretending not to be perfunctory, not doubting or blame, but obtaining it, self -independence and love. For the common goal, work together and take on it together. Even if we have daily small frictions, we are the most comfortable state together.
His photography equipment
Whether it is daily life or a big plan for life, some problems can be easily solved by changing thinking, but for me, a man, it is easy to feel that there is no way to go. He would help me sort out, give me the direction, share what he learned, thought, and thought of what he wanted to understand.
He took her
I love him the most because of his support and companionship that made me gradually become a strong woman.
When we can be hard, we will never be soft. We often have "sparks", the smell of gunpowder.
Although it has been together for more than two years, love is stable, but both of them are tough and patient. It is really easy for people to collide out of "sparks" and the flavor of gunpowder.
In daily dialogue, it may be that the gun will wipe the gun at a time. Me: "Can you take the initiative to help me do XXX?" Xiao Gray: "Then why don't you take the initiative to help me drive?" I: "This thing is used to collect it." "You XXX confiscated Why didn't I say you at the time?! "I can never be soft when my mouth is hard, and I really hate him at this time!
When do you love him the most? Remember that late at night, when the two of them whispered to each other, he suddenly began to wear shoes and car keys. , I go downstairs and take things! "" What do you take in the middle of the night! "I haven't finished the other person who has closed the door and went downstairs.
Happy to blurred
About ten minutes, he came back. Although I was still angry and sad, I couldn't help curious: "What did you get?" : "Go patiently, get it."
In fact, I love him the most every time every time. When I listening to the song together, when watching the interested movie episode together, I share the hobbies together hahahaha.
She even said I was Low, I couldn't bear it!
The word hate is too serious, and it is a bit annoying. When I went out for a walk in the summer, I love to wear a flower shirt shorts. She is quite disgusted: "Don't wear such LOW!" Forced me to wear a black. So before going out, I always changed my clothes again, put on my clothes, organized it, and wasted for a lot of time. It was boring and annoying like an adult forced to drink a large bowl of boiled water when I was a child.
The couple shoes she bought
Yesterday, I ate a Thai meal. I tied two spoons of meals in the meal and picked up a bowl to catch the rice. She also said, "Don't eat it like this." Forced me to put down the bowl and slowly dine with a spoon. In the face of curry and rice, I am too annoyed.
The dog rice she made
Of course, there are a lot of time to be touched by her cuteness every day.
When she spoke, she would suddenly imitate the tone of others, such as substituting my dog: "I want to dinner again ~ I'm dreaming ~" It feels like a fat cactus in the animation is talking.
He took her out to play
Also, there are shared battery cars on the street. We ride on a bike almost every day, we will go around on the street, and finally return to the snack street in the back door of the community to buy ice powder. She was close to me. I couldn't see her but I could feel that she moved around, shaking, and very happy. "Carrying you as if carrying the sun", in fact, it may be more than the sun, it is all.
He taught her to ride a battery car
He is more beautiful than me, really annoying.
One thing I hate each other most: Why is there no empty window period for his beauty? He has always been beautiful. For me, it is really annoying. Look at it, look left and right, rotate 360 degrees around, and the beautiful moment is online. OOTD, which is just right, makes me feel so embarrassed as a girl. Together with milk tea
It can be said that when he saw his face, no matter how sad he was. Eyebrows, eyes, noses, lips, faces, ah, I know, God only opened a window for him. It's really jealous.
"Let me give me this face", I thought about it. In this case, you can survive the long summer without air -conditioning.
Cats raised together: Jiang Hudong, Jiu Li rice
One thing I love each other the most: his face. Looks good, it is really important for the dogs. I do n’t look good at my own child, and my partner looks good. For Yan Dog, it is really the happiest thing.
I ca n’t say disgust, but I really do n’t like her.
I have been with Xiaowang for more than half a year. Although I do n’t have a long time, I feel like I have lived together for two years. I am less "normal", and often suddenly there are strange ideas jumping out of my head. For example, go to chasing Sunlight immediately, go out to sweep the street, or go around a few places a day, just to drink a few cups. coffee.
He patted her
Xiaowang does not necessarily like these contents (facts prove that most of them are interested), but she will be willing to accompany me. This timely companionship is my favorite place. For example, when we visited the Blue Top Art Park, we were immersed in waste buildings and small roads.
She patted him
I couldn't sleep at 4 o'clock in the middle of the night. The yellow light from the street lights stole from the curtain seam. I pulled her to take a picture. The sporadic light spots fell on her cheek were the only light source. Looking like this, I don't want to press the shutter ...
The place of love is wide, and the place where you don't love is very specific. I ca n’t say disgust, but I really do n’t like her. Although she will be bitterly enlightened since they are just together, she will definitely be seen when she has something to do with her first reaction. However, I will definitely see it. She. Fortunately, she can feel that she is slowly becoming more willing to express and grateful.
Ah yes, there is a little bit, the guinea pigs at home are closer to her! Obviously it was me who took care of them every day. As soon as Xiao Wang returned, they would take the initiative to approach her. Ask God to see my efforts, I would really thank.
Guinea pigs obediently appear friendly
Without a reason, my heart was leaked. For the first time in my life, I felt like that. It's like the whole world is around you, rolling from the inside out from your body, and you float in the air. The only thing that can be tied to you will not float away is those eyes.
——Wedrin Fan Dra'annan "Sudden Heart"
In the eyes of people who love, the crowd is an illusion. It does not exist. He is just talking to her individually.
In the eyes of people who have been in love for a long time, the concept of love becomes broadly.
In the eyes of single people, love is not salt, but sugar. When you are alone, look for the road in pine cones and be successful alone; when you are two people, expand their feelings and confirm themselves.
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