"The Great Woman": a real independent woman is good at being the helmsman of her own life

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In the first half of 2022, Liu Yifei and Chen Xiao's ancient drama "Menghua Record" fire.

In addition to the face value of the male and female owners, this drama also attracts praise with its unpredictable plot direction, and the context architecture with the main line of women's independence.

The whole drama tells the heroine Zhao Pan'er and her two good sisters. They worked hard from Qiantang to Tokyo City from a small place, and based on the prosperous Tokyo to survive.

The most impressive of the audience is that the emotional line of the characters in the play is that girls help each other, and strong and independent characters resonate with the audience.

Women have never stopped on this road to pursue equality and freedom of rights.

Since ancient times, there have been many amazing women. These women have relying on their wisdom or become great talents, or they have become politically influential figures.

Writer Hou Hongbin gathered 30 outstanding women's life experiences in ancient and modern Chinese and foreign in "The Great Woman".

These 30 women are in different times, and they bravely break through the society and the times, eventually get rid of prejudice, break through the barriers, and show the unique charm of women.

01

Talent

The ancients always said, "Women are talented is virtue."

But in the feudal ancient ancient times, many women never gave up their talents because they were women. On the contrary, they walked out of their style in the feudal era.

Li Qingzhao is such a woman.

The poems in her pen are still so amazing now, and it is a deep artistic talent showed as a little woman.

"Return to the boat in the evening, and go into the deep part of the lotus. Stirring, fighting, starting a pool of gulls."

Or "May I ask the rolling people, but the begonia is still. Do you know? Do you know? Should be green fat red and thin."

One word, one sentence, is a famous poem chanted through the ages.

Li Qingzhao was born in a famous door and was influenced by his parents. At the same time, Li Qingzhao also had his own unique insights on politics at the time as the little woman.

Such talents, such women, are also "ladylike ladies, gentlemen are good".

Li Qingzhao, a talented Li Qingzhao, became a good woman's partner with Zhao Mingcheng, who was quite famous and intoxicated at the time.

They had a good time, but for a long time, many problems appeared.

Li Zhao's two opposed camps on political stances, and when Li Qingzhao's father's situation was difficult, Li Qingzhao asked Zhao Jia to help but not respond.

In addition, after Zhao Mingcheng passed the sweet period of marriage with Li Qingzhao, he raised his servants and singers, all of which caused their marriage to have a suspicion.

Especially when Li Qingzhao fled during the war of Zhao Mingcheng, Zhao Mingcheng left Li Qingzhao to escape alone in a rebellion.

The husband and wife were Tonglin Bird, and the difficulties flew each other. Therefore, Li Qingzhao was even more frustrated with Zhao Mingcheng.

When the two of them ran through the Wujiang River, Li Qingzhao wrote the eternal sentence: "Life as a person, death is also a ghost."

Later, Zhao Mingcheng died on his way to escape. Only Li Qingzhao fled around in the era of war.

Li Qingzhao's old age was very bitter. After Zhao Mingcheng left, Li Qingzhao also experienced a painful marriage.

After she ended her unfortunate second marriage, she invested in the writing of "Golden Stone Record" with the rest of her life.

In the war era of destroying the family and the displacement, Li Qingzhao's poem was enough to let her bear the title of "the first talented woman". She was also a valuable gift for the history of Chinese literature.

02

Gesture

Everyone who has watched "Roman Holiday" may not forget the princess with unique bangs. She is a beautiful woman -Audrey Hepburn.

Hepburn has achieved high achievements in the field of film and fashion. She is also a special envoy of the United Nations Children's Foundation.

In the second half of her life, she is committed to charity, which also makes people always remember this person who has not only a beautiful skin.

Hepburn had a good family when he was a child, but Hepburn did not have a happy childhood.

The expansion of the war caused Hepburn's relatives to be persecuted one after another, and his father believed in Fascism, who abandoned his wife and daughter to leave when he was 6 years old.

Perhaps it was the lack of his father's company since he was a child, which had a great impact on Hepburn's life.

After the outbreak of World War II, Hepburn followed his mother to the Netherlands. In the era of war, Hepburn and his mother were difficult to suffer from war and famine.

But Hepburn did not give up her love. She wanted to be a ballet actor, so she studied hard and passed the London ballet school after the war.

And because of her own conditions, she has missed the best age for becoming a ballet actor. By chance, she began to participate in the work of models and performances.

Perhaps the talent, or the hard quality of Hepburn's love and walking, Hepburn from the opera to the stage drama, and then to the movie, she won the audience's love with her serious and diligent efforts and temperament.

Although Hepburn's career is smooth, her emotional experience has been repeatedly frustrated.

Hepburn experienced twice in his life, but suffered twice, which caused Hepburn to be hit and hurt.

Hepburn has not grown up in a complete family environment since she was a child. She hopes that she can have a complete home, but her forbearance in marriage has changed again and again.

In Hepburn's eyes, marriage and family are always her first place, and her career is second. Hepburn was over half a year when he ended his second marriage. Perhaps it was his suffering, and Hepburn used his life to heal others.

She actively participated in charity work, served as the Ambassador of the United Nations Children's Foundation, and went to poverty -stricken countries to help people in the depths of poverty.

But for such a kind Hepburn, heaven does not have too many gifts. While Hepburn is charitable everywhere, he suffers from suffering.

In 1993, Hepburn, 64, died in Switzerland at that time, and the "angel in the world" returned to her own paradise.

03

Wisdom's talented wife

If Li Qingzhao is a talented woman in ancient times, then Mr. Yang Yan is a well -deserved scholar.

Yang Yan was famous and was loved at home, but she did not have the spleen of her lady, and she also attracted Qian Zhongshu, who was famous for her talents and arrogance at the time.

Later, Yang Yan followed Qian Zhongshu to study in the UK. She had the right to take care of Qian Zhongshu, who could not take care of her life, and could study hard without complaints. This is also what the non -ordinary woman can reach.

After returning to China and Qian Zhongshu, Yang Yan had just encountered the War of Resistance Against Japan. In the difficulties of exile, Yang Yan worked part -time to support his family in order to support a family.

Even in that difficult time, Yang Yan still did not stop learning and creation. She and Qian Zhongshu were also in supervision of their work and learning.

Yang Yan is excellent, but she is very low -key and humble. She likes a poem by the British poet Rand very much: "None of me and I do not fight, and they are disdainful of anyone."

Probably the spirit of inaction of Yang Yan, so that she can walk strongly during the later period of the Cultural Revolution.

However, the fate of the Yang Yan family was not smooth. In "We", Yang Yan took care of the two sick family members. The pain of the three people in three places was the most clear.

At the same time, in "Our 仨", you can also see the warm scene of the family of three dependent on each other. In that family of three, Mr. Yang Yan can be called the most talented woman and the most virtuous wife.

Yang Yan wrote in "Our 这样":

"Our home is very simple; the three of us are very simple. We have no demands with the world. , Difficulty is no longer difficult; we can help with each other, no matter what the hardships and hardships, we can become sweet. We have a little happiness and will become very happy. "

This shows that the Yang Yan family's unity and wisdom is calm.

After sending her husband and daughter, Mr. Yang Yan still kept writing, insisted on creating, and became a century -old elderly with a desirable mindset.

During his lifetime, Mr. Yang Yan donated the precious cultural relics and paintings collected by himself and her husband. At the same time, he donated his manuscript fees for many years to Tsinghua University and set up a "good reading" scholarship.

In this life, Yang Yan really lived the wisdom of life owned by a great woman.

04

Conclusion

There are many great women such as Li Qingzhao, Hepburn, and Yang Yan. Although they are women, they are strong and strong, and they have both virtue. They can be called a great girl.

Learning how to become independent and self -strong women in the new era from the great women in different periods is also a question of every girl's thinking.

May all girls live as their favorite, and be a talent, insight, vision, vision, and mind.

mutual encouragement!

Author: Zhou Yao, a member of the Reading Club. Cultivate in the dust and survive in the vulgar world.

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