Your habit determines your class

Any kind of life, success,

It is a successful success.

Author: LEYLA

American scholar Thomas Cali once did an experiment.

It took 5 years to interview 233 rich men and 128 poor people, and at the same time compared their daily life trajectory.

By analyzing the comparison, Cori found:

The biggest difference between the rich and the poor is not in IQ and EQ, but in the habit.

As psychologist William James said: "Get habit to separate the social class by yourself, not mixed each other."

What kind of habits do you have to embrace what kind of fate.

1

Work habits, open the gap in life

In "Biography of Jobs", it tells such a past.

About 50 years ago, Jobs was still a big boy who just went to high school.

In the summer vacation, he got an opportunity to work in the HP plant.

His job is mainly installed on a assembly line.

A common work inspired Jobs Musta's enthusiasm.

He felt his value, so he often shared his love for this job with a worker.

Then Jobs asked this worker, "What do you like best?"

The worker answered twice: "I like ghost mixed, I like ghost mixed."

Decades later, the difference between the encounter between the two can also guess--

Jobs became a world -renowned CEO, and the worker was still in a factory, and he was reluctant to do a meager job.

Why tell this story?

Because the gap between people and people is the first time they are at work.

The biggest difference between elites and ordinary people is that they always seek excellence in work and always enthusiastic.

So they will continue to refine themselves in their work, continue to improve their value, and continue to cross to a higher class.

Most of us are accustomed to having a "migrant migrant mentality" and feel that we work hard to work cheaper.

Therefore, the day after day, the dilemma of the current dilemma has become a vicious circle.

Kazuko Inabe said:

Except for desperate work, there is no second path to success.

What kind of class to cross and what kind of life a person wants to cross, depends on how he treats his work.

When you work negatively, do a day of a monk to hit a day, your fate will decline in virtual until you fall into a lower class.

But when you develop the habit of active work, your ability will be experienced and improved in virtual, and you can harvest the growth and growth of the strong.

2

Reading habits, diverting fate

The New York Times has done a survey:

During the 10 years from 2007 to 2017, the educational expenses of middle -class families have not changed, accounting for about 1%of the annual income of the family.

The richest 1%elite class has increased by 3.5 times, accounting for 6%of the annual income of the family.

Why is the more successful people paying attention to reading?

Because in their past life experience, the authenticity of the phrase "changing the destiny".

A reporter asked the baby Haha, the old general celebration: "What entertainment do you usually have."

Zong Qinghou said, "Reading."

Zong Qinghou did not stick to wine, never smoking, and there was no gambling hobby. The only entertainment activity was reading.

The same is true of Vanke's founder Wang Shi, and his leisure and entertainment method is also reading.

"In 2021, more than 300 books are read, with an average of 6 books per week."

Think of someone asking Yu Minhong before: "How did the gap between people pull away?"

Yu Minhong said a lot, but one of the important reasons is the habit of reading.

We always think that reading is the channel for children of the poor carp.

In fact, wealthy talents are a wave of people who have tasted reading dividends first.

The more the richest people, the more elite classes, the more they will use books to enrich themselves and increase their height.

The more the poor, the more people who are more accustomed to playing games, swiping videos, and playing mahjong in their spare time.

Over time, the rich has been "replenishing", the poor have been "consumption", and the so -called "class solidification" seems to be like this.

Ordinary people who have given up reading books never know how far they can go.

Ordinary people who can pick up books may achieve real class leaps.

3

Thinking habits, determine the level of level

There is such a story in the book "The Bone Decisive Money Bag".

There were two people, which were so poor that the government issued 100 yuan for each of them.

The first person purchased 50 pairs of slippers at a price of 2 yuan.

Once the stall was sold for 3 yuan for each pair, a total of 150 yuan was received.

Then leaving 50 yuan as living expenses, and the others took the investment, so the money gave birth to the money, and eventually walked on the road of wealth.

And another person brought all the 100 yuan to buy rice and oil and salt.

As a result, less than a month, the oil and salt were finished, and the poor were still the poor and were still hungry in place.

Between the poor and the rich, it is not only the distance between the pocket, but also the difference in thinking.

In the coming year, the poor thought about it.

Writer Wang Qiao said: "Even if you give him money, he will not follow the road you arranged for him."

Why?

Because you give him 100 yuan, he will buy rice; give him 200 yuan, he will buy wine and meat. Give him 500 yuan, he will buy a set of decent clothes, and in the end, he will buy two bets. Even if a poor man gets a huge sum of money at a time, he will only buy a house and car immediately so that he looks bright. But these things cannot be appreciated and will only consume.

With a room, decoration, adding furniture, paying business fees, and so on.

With a car, there are gasoline fees, road maintenance fees, repair fees, insurance premiums, and so on.

Even if you stop, the number of parking fees for several years is still amazing.

If you have more money, if you do n’t change your mind habits, the money will only go out and do n’t enter. In the end, you can only eat the mountains.

The reason why the rich is rich is because they never need to restrict themselves inherently.

They are good at thinking, innovation, and action.

The Petroleum King Rockefeller said: "Even if you peel the clothes on my body, and then throw it to the center of the Sahara Desert, as long as there is a business team passing by me. I will become a new millionaire."

Thoughts determine behavior, behavior decisions, habits determine fate.

Those who can take the initiative to break the inherent thinking habits can continue to increase the upper limit of life.

4

Jobs said:

In the first 30 years of your life, you develop your habits; in the last 30 years of your life, your habit determines you.

So how to change the habit? Give you three methods:

1. Never complain about your work.

A timetable that has been circulated on the Internet:

Apple CEO Cook sleeps at 9:30 in the evening and gets up at 4 am. Huawei CEO Ren Zhengfei is in the office in the office, working for more than 16 hours a day. Xiaomi CEO Lei Jun, to work at 9 am, until two o'clock in the morning. Native

The most terrible thing in this world is not better than us, but that it is better than us who are better than us.

Therefore, instead of spending time on useless complaints, it is better to refine itself with a positive attitude.

When you no longer complain about your work, it is your strong beginning.

2. To read, read good books, and read it extensively.

When the writer Yu Qiuyu went to college, he once went to the library to borrow.

An old book administrator told him: "As long as I look at a student's borrowing card, I can predict the future of this student.

A person with a big future in the future. First, he likes to study a lot of good books. Second, I also like to read classic good books across scientific research. "

Reading needs to pay attention to methods and methods.

Spending time on romance novels, or professional theory, it will get very different feedback.

3. The best way to get rid of poverty -stricken thinking is to establish a "rich thinking" first.

A driver followed a big boss and drove him for decades.

When he left, the boss prepared 2 million for him as a hard fee for many years.

The driver refused.

Because in the process of driving for many years, he followed his boss to learn rich stock knowledge.

Relying on the knowledge in his mind, his stocks have already made a net profit of tens of millions.

The Jews have such a concept:

If you want to become rich, you must learn from the rich, and you can smell the richness of the rich even in the rich people.

The best way to get rid of poverty thinking is to learn the thinking and means of the rich.

In imitation, constantly adjust your way of doing things and constantly refresh your concept of making money.

This kind of benign cycle can make us stronger and have the opportunity to break through the existing circle.

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Writer Manshan has served as executives in a number of well -known enterprises.

After middle age, he summarized his perception in the workplace and life and wrote it into a collection of "Half Mountain".

There is such a paragraph in the book, and I feel deeply after reading:

Any kind of success in life is a kind of habit, any failure is a habit of failure, and any reality is the reality of a person's habit. The best and worst part of a person, in your own habits, what kind of habits you choose, what kind of life you choose.

Change the habit of thinking can promote the change in action;

Only to change the habits of action can we realize the transition of the class.

Don't complain about the solidification of the class, not the class or your habit.

Like a praise. From today, turn all useless complaints into useful changes and go to a better life.

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