Middle -aged people without retreat, have a good temper

Author: insight allergy

Persistent in the collapse, moving forward in tearing.

Someone asked: Someone asked:

"In the Journey to the West, Sun Wukong was angry and returned to Huaguoshan. Pig Bajie was angry and would return to Gao Laozhuang. Why was only Sha Wujing never born?"

There is a praise underneath and replied: "Middle -aged people who have no retreat, have a good temper."

The first thing to kill the pig knife is the first to kill, arrogance, and dissatisfaction.

For middle -aged people who have no way to retreat, how can there be wayward power?

Just like "The Middle Age of Dog Day":

"Middle -aged is a smile of laughing. It is necessary to please the elderly, but also be a role model for children, but also always pay attention to the wife's face, and keep catering to the minds of the boss."

01

Middle -aged people are the best bullies in the world. There is a saying on the Internet before:

"Don't scold young people, they will resign immediately; but they can scold the middle -aged people in the dead, they will not resign because they have mortgages, children and the elderly."

The young people who just entered the society wanted to resign when they suffered a little grievance.

But when people reach middle age, they have too many concerns and concerns, and have long been worn away by their life.

Writer Yan Erfei said a story.

When she was young, she was a mechanical drawer in a company.

When I went to the workshop to check the drawings, I saw that the boss was scolding an old employee in his 50s, and scolded him to move a bundle of heavy iron materials to the warehouse.

The old employee was very poor at the time, flushed, and people with eyes could see that he was sick.

I saw his eyes covered with tears, but he never said a word. She looked very distressed when she looked at it:

"A big man was scolded in front of all colleagues.

As a result, the boss's spear head turned to her again, and she accused her without any way.

This made her unhappy and decided to fight for the dignity of herself and all employees, so she returned to the boss.

The boss opened her in anger.

She immediately packed things and didn't drag water at all.

"What are you afraid of, youth is capital, coupled with my technology, do you still worry about finding the boss who respect the employees?"

But the end result was that the boss left her again.

Because she was gone, it was difficult to find an experienced drawer immediately, and a novice was attracting a novice to affect the work progress.

After many years, she remembered the incident and sighed: If it is changed to the present, there are middle -aged middle -aged middle -aged, maybe she will swallow the same as that old employee.

Huang Xiaoshan said in "Super Speaker": "When I was young, I wanted to change the whole world. When people reached middle age, I found that I had no ability to change the world, and I had to compromise with myself."

From teenagers to middle age, it is a process of gradually losing initiative.

There are old -age middle -aged people, which are the best species in the world.

02

When people are middle -aged, who isn't had to bow and knew a few times? Liang Wendao said: "When an adult fan moves wings, the wings on both sides are still heavy scales."

When people are middle -aged, whoever must not bow and knew a few times.

Removed by the leader, you have to smile and admit your mistakes.

If you make trouble by your client, you have to bow your head and smile.

No matter how much you are, you can't be tall, but your bones are harder, but your life is difficult.

In the book of Kafka's "Transformer", when the protagonist Griger found himself a beetle in the morning, his first reaction was not panic, nor did he speak for help. He had only one thought in his heart:

Don't be late at work.

As a top social animal that has not been invited for five consecutive years, Grie Gaul is earlier than the sun every day, and then takes the sample to catch up with the five o'clock trains, state new samples to the workers in the store, and then go to the company. Essence

Even so, he was often suppressed by his boss, and colleagues' calculations.

Every time he walked into the company, he wanted to rush into the boss's office, pulled the boss who was sitting at the table at the table, and shouted, "I don't do it!"

However, I imagined this scene 100 times, and the reality was in front of him, and he pressed his temper again to persuade himself:

"Parents' debt, I'm afraid it will be paid off for five or six years ... The expenses of my sister reading the music college are still waiting."

In reality, there are many middle -aged people like Griger. Although they are tired, they dare not fall because they bear too much responsibility and pressure.

There is a predecessor who has known for many years.

Last week, in the company, he was scolded by everyone in front of everyone, and he scolded extremely unpleasant.

I knew his temper. Before changing, he absolutely patted his butt away.

But this time, he didn't.

He stood respectfully in front of the leader and acknowledged his mistakes.

I asked, "Why do you become so good -tempered?"

He smiled and said, how could he have a good temper. I also have the mortgage of Yanjiao to pay back, the child's tuition is paid, and the parents' living expenses must be given. You said, do I dare to be as willful as before?

In front of survival, middle -aged people often do not even have a temper.

You know the cost of losing his temper for leaders may be to lose a job;

You know the consequences of saying "no" to customers may be lost.

So those who almost blurted out became "tolerance".

Those anger accumulated in my heart became a flattering smile.

03

I'm tired, but I have no way to retreat. The more life, the more there is no way to retreat.

Just like rowing.

When you are young, if you want to stop, you can stop, and even if the ship is sinking.

But in middle age, you have passengers on your boat. You want to stop, but the passengers on the boat will not stop.

You can only bite the scalp, bite your teeth, and face the difficulties after another.

The father of his classmate Li Bin was found to have a shadow on the lungs.

The next day is the warehouse of the soldiers:

He called his classmates everywhere, inquired about reliable hospitals and doctors;

The hospital is overcrowded, and the trustee must find the right ward;

The cost of the operation was not uniform, and he whispered to find relatives and friends to borrow a circle.

There are more than these headaches. His daughter couldn't read key primary schools because of the school district's problems.

In order to allow her daughter to go to a good school, Li Bin looked for someone to wear a needle to lead, and finally invited the principal to have a meal.

At the dinner, lift the wine glass again and again.

Speaking of this, Li Bin said with red eyes: "The taste of asking for doing things is really uncomfortable, really tired, but it is really no way to retreat."

Think of Lu Yao's words written in "Ordinary World":

"Actually, each of us's life is a world, and even the most ordinary people want to fight for the world he lives."

The sadness and joy of people are not connected.

The deeper you know, the more you will find that every adult in the world is eating unknown suffering, suffering unknown crimes, and enduring unknown pain.

Just like the salesperson who touched the customer with a scalp, he didn't get it in the end and drank himself into the hospital.

Just like the takeaway brother who was late for a few minutes because of the storm, he was pointed at his nose by the customer, and he was abused for three or four minutes and dared not move for three or four minutes.

Just like the man who put down his self -esteem, regardless of the eyes of everyone on the road, giving the driver who was stubbornly rubbed his shoes carefully.

It's like you and me, but you have a tail in front of countless outsiders.

If it wasn't for the family to support the family, who would be willing to meet each other, smile in front of people, and sour people?

Because there is no way to retreat, they can only go forward.

But don't underestimate those middle -aged people who have no temper.

In the collapse, it is really powerful in adults.

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Some people say that middle -aged people are not born with a good temper, but the difficulties of life have made themselves into a mute mode.

Perhaps each middle -aged person has two faces.

While carrying the house, car, and children, it seems that everything is omnipotent;

I acknowledged the troubles and pain, and no one dared to say.

But they never regret it because they know:

Since there is no way to retreat, then you can move forward. Only by doing your best can you be overwhelmed.

As Zhang Jiajia said: In this bitter sea of ​​life, we will all go ashore.

Before that, let's go through the sadness of this night.

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