When people reach middle age, they must know how to "do not match the group"

When people reach middle age, they must know how to "do not match the group"

2022-06-29 09: 38 · Quiet summer 001

When people reach middle age, they must understand "unsuccessful groups."

Life is more than half, it is important to be yourself. Sometimes it ’s the hustle and bustle of a group of hypocritical people who violate them. It is better to stay with a person to do something they like cleanly. They always follow others. time.

Those pan -intersecting, nodded, are not worth wasting time and deep friends, do yourself well, do not have to pay too much attention, no need to force it.

On the road of life, we are often helpless. It is destined to go alone for a long time without intention to coincide. Everyone has their own happiness and their own pain. For these Usten, heal it yourself.

With the growth of life, we will find that friends are naturally condensed. After the experience of the world, purifying the circle of friends is an inevitable choice to let go of it, and to be diluted.

People, just do the best self. It does n’t matter if it ’s not a group. It’ s not the focus of your life. The point is that living as your most desired look. It ’s okay.

After half a lifetime, you should understand that the most normal way of life in life is to do alone.

When I was young, I was afraid of being alone. I always like the carnival of a group of people, and I like to pursue to the hustle and bustle, and we will finally understand that those seemingly lively scenes are actually meaningless, just to pass the time perfunctory, every one, every one, every one, every one, every one, every one, every one, every one. People in the lively people are actually carrying an extremely lonely heart.

However, no one in this world must not be separated, and no one must pay attention to who cares. Sometimes, instead of listening to others, it is better to heal it by yourself. You need to know how many people are just on the surface you are friendly to you In private, in private, you are talking about your bad things.

You are alone, and you are free. In a place where there is no disturbance, you work silently yourself. You do n’t need to care about the eyes of others, do n’t worry about the discussion behind you, do n’t have to disguise your perfection, let alone to please anyone.

After half a lifetime, we are no longer as young as youth, and we do n’t know the depths; now you have a little precipitation and stability, and there are many things that need to be done. There are many responsibilities to bear. In the eyes of others, they live in their own world.

There is a long way for life. No one can accompany you for a lifetime. The longest path has to go down by yourself. Friends who make people are only temporary. It is enough to be happy, no need to prove anyone to see.

The best realm of life is to be quiet and rich, and such a realm can only reach when you are alone. On the road of life, the mountains are high and long. We must have our own courage and the ability to do our own.

To be middle -aged, instead of pleasing everyone, it is better to be cautious.

When I was young, I was mixed with a large group of people, thinking that everyone could take care of each other in the future. There was a reliance at a critical moment. Later, I knew that there was often no religion on the road of life.

Gradually to middle age, I do n’t want to please who to please anyone, and I do n’t want to rely on anyone. I would rather be lonely, and I do n’t violate my heart. I would rather complain. There is no need to squeeze into the crowd and laugh, and there is no need to grieve.

We live in this world, and finally learn to get along with ourselves. A good soul must learn to be alone with ourselves.

In this real world, the world is cold and the heart is cool. Don't try to use tears to get the sympathy of others. They only look at your strength and ability. Therefore, instead of catering to others humblely, you might as well work hard to be confident.

The ancients believed that: "God is not turbid" alone, and sitting silently can "not turbid the heart."

When people are alone, they can realize that when they are busy, they are asleep, and their hearts are out of their minds. Therefore, you can collect the spirit of the people alone and consolidate the full strength of life.

Ask for people, never ask for yourself, who you rely on, never rely on yourself, let go of your face, not to please, try to change yourself, and live a good moment. When you succeed, you are not afraid of wind and rain. When you are strong, you are not afraid of loneliness.

When people reach middle -aged, people who live with advanced levels often enjoy loneliness.

When people reach middle age, they like to be alone and start to fall in love with loneliness. They are no longer afraid of no friends around, because you have learned to distinguish others and understand the world. People who are free and easy often enjoy loneliness.

After half a lifetime, it should be a mature age. If you do n’t cooperate, you do n’t follow the wave of slavery with the waves, do n’t dedicate to disappoint your mind, and you no longer deliberately cater to the happiness of life. Make yourself better, live yourself, and live happily.

On the road of life, everyone needs a time to be alone, staying away from right and wrong, staying away from the hustle and bustle, no longer intriguing, no longer follow the footsteps of others, adjust their own rhythm of life, and live with a comfortable mood.

Don't mention the past, who will not leave who life will not be different; even if you love, even if you don't, the love around you is the most solid possession;Belongs yourself.Zhuangzi said: Come alone is independent.The unique person is the most expensive.When loneliness and loneliness collide, life will be different, not the group, and the group with others for too long will lose their personality.

When people reach middle age, learn to enjoy loneliness, they will not be lonely inside, and life will be more exciting.

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