Ma Jiahui \"Uncle\": A good book that accumulates your life wisdom

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What is \"wisdom\"?

Today, I want to say a concept that we are very familiar but actually strange: \"wisdom\".

What exactly is \"wisdom\"?

There is a paper in the field of psychology, the title is \"Wisdom Integrity of Facing Daily Challenges\". For the people, the word \"wisdom\" has a consensus in psychology: the so -called \"wisdom\" is \"wise reasoning.\" In general, it means to make the right choice and judgment through your rationality and challenges encountered in life.

There is a good quality, a long -time brand bag that can be used for a long time, the price is very expensive, and there is a general quality, but the cheap ordinary bag, which one do you buy?

The state has let go of the second child policy, are you born?

Teacher's Day, the parents of your son and classmate gave a gift to the class teacher, would you send it?

There are no standard answers. You must consider your own situation, and you must also consider the situation where you are at that time, and comprehensively judge in order to make a wise choice. This choice ability is not knowledge, not IQ, or emotional intelligence. Psychologists call this ability \"wisdom\".

What ability does wisdom need?

You have to be sensitive, you can look at this problem from a larger vision;

Consider different views;

You must be good at self -reflection and acknowledge that your knowledge is limited.

This ability that can analyze specific problems for specific problems is more useful for improving personal living standards than IQ.

There is also a research on \"wisdom\", which concludes such a conclusion: wisdom is related to age -the older the age, the more wise. Therefore, wisdom can be learned! If we are more familiar with some different situations, maybe we can learn more about wisdom!

What I want to recommend to everyone today is the latest masterpiece \"Uncle\" by the famous writers, media people, host, and cultural commentator Ma Jiahui. When people reach middle age, they are old -fashioned, but they have gained a lot of wisdom in life. This book is a collection of essays written by Ma Jiahui on the occasion of middle age, and it is also a long memory of home and Xingxing. pregnancyLiving, love, travel ... Ma Jiahui will be fully realized and wisdom of life.

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Is not just a speech that college students should listen?

In the opening season of September, old students returned to school to visit classes. Ma Jiahui went to eat and drink with the teachers, the teachers, the brothers and sisters. One of the masters complained that since she was busy at work, she was busy, but she felt empty and afraid that they would go empty all the way.

This reminds Ma Jiahui with Hu Shi. Hu Shi has been the president of Peking University and often speaks at the graduation ceremony. There is such a speech not only suitable for young students to listen, but also for all social people who still maintain a trace of life for life. In the speech, before prescribing medicine for students, Mr. Hu Shi first took two common problems:

\"The first is to easily abandon the desire to seek knowledge in the student days.\" To the actual reality In the society, it is often found that what you use is not learned. It is useless to learn. It can often be completely used at all. In such an environment, you can't help but be lazy, and gradually get cold.

\"The second is the pursuit of life that is easy to abandon students' days.\" When entering the society, it is easy to feel that ideals and facts are too far away, and it is prone to pessimism and disappointment. In the long run, he gradually gave up the pursuit of ideal life.

Such problems are still everywhere.

The term \"lying flat young\" has appeared on the Internet in recent years. The \"lying young people\" have no longing, expectations and hope for the future, and satisfied with the current living conditions. Regarding work, there is no motivation to struggle, no hope, no future, every day is to work and get off work, muddy, do not quarrel with colleagues, do not fight against leaders. Life is so calm and quiet, lying down, playing with mobile phones, playing games. The so -called curiosity and pursuit of ideal life have long been left behind.

So how can we get rid of such problems?

Mr. Hu Shi prescribed medicine.

The first medicine is \"finding one or two issues worth studying from time to time.\" When you have an interesting problem in your heart, you can make you think of him every day and seduce you to solve him, you can keep the fire in your heart.

The second medicine is \"always developing a little more non -occupation interest\". A person's future often depends on how he uses his leisure time. In this inadequate Chinese society, occupations are not easy to suitable for our temperament. If you want to live in pain or degeneration, you only develop amateur in many ways.interest of. With this beloved thing, life will not be silent, and the spirit will not be bored.

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Jin Yong's reading

Speaking of Jin Yong's works, no matter which age, no one knows it. What exactly does Jin Yong's work rely on generations of readers? In Ma Jiahui's distant experience, reading Jin Yong is the most interesting thing is that he uses rich characters and twists and turns to bring people into a variety of \"dilemma\" to face the most severe choice. Whether it is Manhan or the monarchs, the same is true of parents, hands and feet, men and women, \"harmony\" is never easy, often conflicts, in the name of great tradition, avenue, and avenue morality to force individuals into the dead ends of the choice. In the siege of the corner, individuals must ask yourself in a state of anxiety and struggle: how do you choose, do you dare to choose? And no matter how you choose, dare you say you choose it right?

When the people in the book are making or after the choice, they often understand the dilemma only for the dilemma. If you accept it, agree with it, ascend to the distance, the dilemma will be with you with you. It has nothing to do. Or the place where Jin Yong's works can shake people are here.

Looking at the real world, facing severe choices, it is also everywhere. Female professional strong people are often asked about a question: \"How do you balance your career and family?\". The reality is that career and family can never be balanced. No one can be surgery, to be a strong woman, but also a good wife and good mother. The outstanding female bosses such as Dong Mingzhu and Wu Yajun often felt that they did not have time to accompany their children when they were interviewed. In the face of such a predicament, the best way is to accept it. Choose one of them and do everything to do it, so as to live up to the other party who has been abandoned.

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Conclusion

In the book \"Uncle\", in addition to exploring how to know, how to pursue the ideal life, and how to accept the dilemma of the dilemma, he also records how Ma Jiahui is calm, how to live a life with subtraction, and so on. From teenagers to uncle, it is a period of growth and maturity visible to the naked eye. Many people look forward to maturity and fear of growth. In this book, you can blur the maturity and growth of a middle -aged man, see a middle -aged man's wisdom left by his life for decades.

I hope that through this book, readers can be familiar with some different situations to help readers learn more of wisdom!

Author: Xiao Yanqing, a member of the Reading Reading Club. Habitual reading, habitual running, and music who loves music.123]

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