During the summer vacation, 12 suggestions for becoming good parents (please collect)

In the process of children's growth, parents and teachers should always maintain the same front, that is, for the sake of children, we should do what we should do.

For parents, take care of and educate their children well, and assume the responsibility of being a parent. This is the basic ethical requirement.

Today we shared this 12 parental rules, hoping that all parents would understand and read and be a good parent. For children, please read it three times a day!

01

From now on

I want to encourage and praise the children,

Instead of criticizing, accusing, and complaining children.

Because I know only encouragement and praise

In order to bring children self -confidence and strength,

Criticism, accusations, and complaints are just venting my emotions,

Hurt the child's heart.

02

From now on

I want to use action to influence children,

Instead of preaching in words.

Because I know that the child's behavior is not taught,

It is affected and imitated.

03

From now on

I want to listen to the child's voice,

Instead of rushing to judge the child.

Because I know that listening is the best communication.

04

From now on

I want to love children unconditionally,

Instead of loving me as required;

Because I know that it was my own wish,

Not necessarily suitable for children.

05

From now on

I want to learn to squat down equally with children,

Instead of instructions to the children.

Because I know that forced suppression will only bring children

More strong rebellion and resistance.

06

From now on

I have to accompany the child with my heart,

Instead of perfunctory children.

Because I know there is only real companionship

In order to make children feel the warmth of love.

07

From now on

I want to control my emotions,

Together with the child quietly and peacefully, every moment.

Because I know that temper and violence only represents

I hurt my child.

08

From now on

I want to actively handle the relationship with my lover,

Create a harmonious family environment,

Never let the couple's contradictions affect and hurt their children,

Because I know that only husband and wife relationship is harmonious

Is the biggest love for children.

09

From now on

I want the child to grow into what he wants to grow,

It's not what I look forward to.

Because I know that my child does not belong to me,

He just came to this world via me,

Go to complete his own dream and mission.

10

From now on

I want to plant good causes and do good deeds for children.

Because I know that good causes can make good fruits,

There must be Yu Qing in the House of Jishan.

11

From now on

I want to pass the child's problem,

Find out my own questions and correct myself,

Because I know all the children's problems

It may be derived from my problem.

12

From now on

I want to be the best friend in my child's life,

The closest partner,

The most loving father (mother)!

Source | Changan Wentao

Editor in charge ｜ Li Zi

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