The first place in the Republic of China: I love to run around for a lifetime, but I can't love it in my life

Recently, the Republic of China drama "Heachi" was hit.

In the play, Miss Yi, who played Wu Jinyan, loves each other with Tang Fengwu.

One is a domineering young lady, and the other is a cold and arrogant diplomat.

They were not optimistic about each other at first, but they were happy in each other for a long time, and they determined each other after their life and death.

Such a good emotional line has undoubtedly brought a lot of highlights to the audience.

In fact, Yi Zhongyu has a prototype, but the ending is very bleak.

In the real history, she was born in the richest man of the overseas Chinese in Java. It is not only outstanding, but also can sing and dance and be proficient in art.

By coincidence, she and her handsome diplomat Gu Weijun met and love each other, and walked into the marriage.

According to common sense, the talents and beautiful women meet each other, and they should have been romantic and beautiful.

But in fact, it's not.

With a wealthy money and prominent identity, her career was gradually disgusted, and eventually she was desolate.

She runs around for her life, but she loves it throughout her life.

This prototype is a generation of ladies Huang Qilan.

The most beautiful, but you know you at the beginning of the king

The fate of Huang Qilan and Gu Weijun must start with a photo.

In 1919, Gu Weijun went to Paris as a member of the Chinese delegation to participate in peace talks.

During this period, he was invited by his friends to be a guest at home.

After the banquet, he stood silently in front of an artistic photo indoors.

The people in the photo are elegant and expensive, and the appearance of Qiao Qianxi and beautiful eyes makes him feel excited.

Compared with ordinary women, her eyes were a little unruly and arrogant, and it made him unforgettable for a long time.

Seeing this scene, the owner came over and introduced to him that she was her wife and sister Huang Qilan.

As soon as he heard this loud name, Gu Weijun immediately came up with his spirit.

You know, when he is well -informed, he has heard of Huang Qilan's legend. How can he think that she is so graceful.

It is also a poem, "There are beautiful women, I don't forget, I don't see it for a day, I don't see it."

Gu Weijun was very happy and entrusted his friends to bridge, and wanted to meet the rich.

At that time, Huang Qilan was in London.

After receiving the telegram, she rushed to Paris immediately.

Under the arrangement of the family, the two met.

However, Gu Weijun was dressed up rustic and did not impress Huang Qilan.

He was not discouraged, and said he came to see her again the next day.

What is unexpected is that the next day, he wore a gorgeous diplomatic dress and took a special car with diplomatic privilege licenses provided by the French government.

Seeing such a mad pioneer, Huang Qilan's heart couldn't help but be happy.

Later, she was also invited to enjoy opera in a spacious state -owned box.

Even if he was born in a wealthy man, he had never enjoyed such high -standard treatment.

With both the happiness given by money and the glory of the rights, Huang Qilan's heart has never been satisfied.

Moreover, Gu Weijun, who has always been working hard, was a wonderful words, vivid and interesting in a sentence, like a grain of stone, and opened her heart.

The glory and romance of this unique diplomat also made Huang Qilan look at him unconsciously.

With Gu Weijun's hot pursuit, she was excited.

In less than a year, they determined the marriage period.

From the perspective of others, the wealthy and noble Chinese, the diplomats of the universal career and the official career, have come together, which can be regarded as the fate of heaven.

In this way, Gu Weijun's career has a strong guarantee, and Huang Qilan's identity has a distinguished and expensive blessing.

Some people say, "The most beautiful life is the first sight."

The two right people met at the right time, no harm, no separation.

At that time, they looked at each other's eyes, full of affection.

Huang Qilan's heart also looked forward to it, and Gu Weijun "began to see at the beginning and ended old."

In the name of love, for "love" crazy

On October 2, 1920, a grand wedding was held in the Chinese embassy of Brussels.

The indoor layout is elegant and elegant.

In the melodious wedding, in the endless blessings, Huang Qilan, wearing a white wedding dress, walked towards Gu Weijun, who was handsome.

They promised each other to love each other and love each other to the end of life.

After marriage, clever is like her, and naturally knows how to help her husband.

At that time, China had internal and external problems, and foreign funding was stretched.

For Gu Weijun, who is still dilemma, Huang Qilan's beauty has supported his face:

The clothes are not gorgeous enough. She bought the latest models and is not inferior to various diplomatic occasions;

The Chinese embassy in Paris is very shabby. She paid for her own pockets, purchased furniture and utensils everywhere, and renovated a new decoration to maintain the image of a large country.

In addition, she often accompanies Gu Weijun to foreign affairs activities.

With the knowledge of knowledge, elegant temperament and funny talk, helping her husband into the social circle of Eurasian elite socializations also closer his relationship with the politics of various countries.

For a while, because of her outstanding performance, she was praised by the high -end diplomatic circle in Europe as "the most beautiful pearl in the Far East".

The generous economic guarantee and the identity of the richest son -in -law became the booster of Gu Weijun's career.

Soon, he began to follow the clouds.

Of course, all this, Huang Qilan contributed. But for a long time, as a traditional Chinese man, Gu Weijun's heart began to imbalance.

In his opinion, her money was pity, her fashion dress was shaken, and her pearls were showing off.

Gu Weijun has also mentioned opinions, and Huang Qilan feels that it is incomparable to spend money for her husband and the country.

The unequal family and cognition slowly caused their feelings to crack.

Her luxury and generosity, he can't see it; her waywardness and publicity, he feels unreasonable.

In fact, in a marriage, there is no other person in the heart, and the other party is wrong.

Gu Weijun's disgust and disgust, Huang Qilan looked in his eyes, pain in his heart.

The relationship between the two is also increasingly alienated, and the dying marriage is immersed in endless coolness.

What made Huang Qilan even more sad is that Gu Weijun never gave her love, but turned to others.

He had no patience about himself, but he was very concerned about others.

It turned out that he didn't understand love, but she never walked into his heart.

Huang Qilan also tried to express her indignation and dissatisfaction with some excessive behaviors. It was a more terrible indifference that Gu Weijun could be replaced.

Perhaps because, she was in love with him; at this time, she had to live with his indifference.

For anyone, this is undoubtedly the biggest tragedy in marriage.

She knew clearly that they could never return to the beginning.

Since she can't get a perfect ending and she can't lose her dignity, she decides to let go.

The philosopher Alan Dapaton said, "Many pains in marriage come from the misleading view of romanticism."

And when the romance of the past becomes far away, your affection is also blowning.

The two -way love for love is meaningful. One person's dedication cannot afford the marriage of two people.

In the name of love, she was crazy for love, and finally suffered bruises.

One life is infatuated, century -old loneliness

After the divorce, Huang Qilan went to Manhattan alone.

Since then, one person, one dog, one house, three meals, four seasons is her life.

Coinciding with the war, her property in Java was all requisitioned, and her only economic source was also cut off.

Homesome, betrayed by her husband, and encountered war on fire, she really realized the hardships of life.

In the face of difficulties, some people bowed their heads to fate, and even abandoned themselves;

And some people take it as a stepping stone and step on it, until they see a wider scenery.

Obviously, Huang Qilan belongs to the latter.

After many considerations, she began to earn money to support herself with speeches.

After fading the Chinese suit, she stood confidently on the lecture.

Whether it was dazzling in the past or the current suffering, she could talk about it.

In the eyes of others, she was insignificant; in her world, she shone.

During her free, she began to write a autobiography "No Feast".

In the book, she reviews her life experience, and her sweetness and bitterness are all.

When it comes to Gu Weijun, she wrote:

He is a respectable person, a person in China very much, but not the husband I want.

The stories of or scattered the stories spread in the heart, or the distant or nearly connected in time. The sense of loneliness that has no branches allows her to have a little grievance when walking into those long -term stories.

Slowly, those unspeakable words, those forgotten words, disappeared in the time of time.

All the past events of love and hatred have become words and phrases in the pages.

When she came out, she was alone, only firm and relieved.

In November 1985, Gu Weijun died.

After hearing the news, Huang Qilan stood up when he came to the window. He didn't say a word. After a long time, he murmured: "You are a good person, those years, thank you!"

For decades of sadness, she no longer has the slightest resentment, she is beautiful and grateful in her heart.

People can only become so sober and transparent after suffering and suffering from the wind and frost.

Think of Zhang Ailing's passage,

In this strange world, no one can live a cloud. But I always believe that people who have traveled through Pinghu and rain, and those who have gone through the number of calamities and taste all over the years will be more vivid and clean.

Eight years later, Huang Qilan left calmly in his apartment at a time value of 100.

When others cleaned the room, they saw a stunned scene.

It turned out that the wall was filled with photos of her and Gu Weijun's visiting countries.

In the photo, she is close to him; in life, she is separated from him.

In this life, his feelings for her, such as white clouds.

In her, the person in memory became eternal in her life.

If you do n’t love, it may be a regret of a lifetime; love has become the suffering of his life.

After all, her infatuation has become a century -old loneliness.

As at the end of the feast of life, the disabled people were scattered, and they were no longer blooming.

There are thousands of happy marriage, and unfortunate marriage is different.

Some people also say:

"Marriage without love is like a building without a foundation, and the wrong marriage is like a dangerous building, crumbling; and marriage that loves each other but torture each other is like a mirage, leaving only illusions."

After two people have been with each other for a long time, the more they can see the nature of marriage.

Huang Qilan loved one person wrong, lonely for a lifetime.

When she met at the beginning, she was his Bai Yueguang. When he looked back, he was her stranger.

God gave her beauty and wealth, but did not give her a happy luck.

Zhu Lianhe went to the wind, and the prosperity fell into a sigh.

She had a lifetime for love, and after all, she had never escaped the fate of love.

However, after experiencing vicissitudes, she realized her life and understood the world.

Life will not live up to everyone who strives to pursue happiness. As long as they are brave and persistent, they will eventually gain.

Therefore, I hope all your sincerity will not be squandered, and all your affection will not be disappointed!

Author | Buyi, roaming clouds and water, leisurely remembered red dust.

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