The most comfortable relationship between people

What should people look like the most comfortable relationship with people?

Some people say that it is a passerby; some people say that it is what they first see.

In fact, it should be the most natural look of you and me.

Because of nature, so comfortable.

A comfortable relationship is not just to make the other party feel comfortable when getting along, but also comfortable.

In each, you are you, I am me, they are independent and free.

In my opinion, the most comfortable relationship with people is probably the following three.

In the show "Time Concert", Xu Ruyun shared the story of himself and his sisters.

In 2007, she met 3 best friends in her life, Yang Caini, Li Xinjie, and Liang Yongqi.

When I met for the first time, the four people kept talking about the restaurant at first sight.

After that, he went to Liang Yongqi's house together and talked about dawn.

They formed the "Little Yellow Flower" sister group, and they continued to interact with social media. Blessings of birthday wishes have never been absent. They also met the concerts of sisters.

For a long time, they have guarded each other. No matter who made her boyfriend, they must first pass the sister.

They are the bridesmaids at each other, no matter how far they are, they will fly to each other.

Moreover, they also established the Little Huanghua Charity Fund to fund poor children from various places.

Their feelings are like the song "Want to Sing Me to You":

Open the flowers, decorate your years of my buds.

When Xu Ruyun announced the wedding news, Yang Caini said on Weibo:

My dear, I always hope that you can be loved and cherished well. I believe many people are like us, and I have been looking forward to your happy smile ... I can laugh and cry together, find happiness and heartfelt moves for everyone. Thank you God. This natural, relaxed but precious affection.

Today, they have known each other for more than ten years. With such a simple and beautiful affection, they are a rare happiness in their lives.

There is a magnetic field between people.

People who meet the same frequency will attract each other. This is the "law of attractiveness" in psychology.

The law of attractiveness means that when ideas are concentrated in a certain field, people, things, and things related to this field will be attracted by it.

To put it simply, it means that things are gathered in class, and people are divided into groups.

This is why, in the relationship between people, we will prefer to be with those who have the same interest and hobbies with ourselves.

Similar points between people, once collisions, will immediately produce sparks, like magnets, attract each other.

There is a saying particularly good:

The most comfortable relationship is the same frequency resonance.

If the people around you make you feel uncomfortable, it may be because you are not the same frequency.

If you want to attract better people and make yourself more comfortable, the best way is to make yourself better first.

Life keeps moving, not only to meet better people, but also to achieve a better self.

Any relationship in the world is the most difficult thing to do is freedom, either with politeness, or utilitarian utilitarian.

In order to satisfy others, we are always used to asking ourselves with the standards of others and living in the eyes of others.

Even sometimes, you need to hide yourself and do your words with caution.

We are used to living with a mask, and in the end, we almost forget what we are like.

In fact, the most comfortable state of getting along with people is to be able to do it casually.

You don't have to be restrained in front of me. I don't have to hide it in front of you.

When Feng Zikai taught in Chunhui Middle School in Zhejiang, he associated with Zhu Guangqian because of art.

On one occasion, Zhu Guang dives his birthday and was very grand. When colleagues came to the hotel, they brought gifts, but Feng Zikai came empty -handed.

Before dinner, a colleague took Feng Zicai aside and reminded: "Teacher Zhu celebrates his birthday today, how can you be embarrassed to eat in vain?"

Feng Zikai laughed:

"Don't you be happy with each other, why do you have to get so tacky?

I am a tutor. I ca n’t afford any valuable gifts. It ’s okay to paint. "

After dinner, Feng Zikai asked the waiter to come to the paper and draw a painting for Zhu Guangqian in public.

The colleagues laughed at him: "Lao Feng, a painting can't be eaten, you can send it."

Feng Zikai was just talking, but Zhu Guangqian carefully put away the painting, and said:

"This is good, this is good, I like it."

Soon after, Zhu Guangqian took a special product to find Feng Zikai. Feng Zikai resolutely did not accept it, and also "warned" Zhu Guangqian:

"We do not let those customs be involved."

Since then, the relationship between the two people has become more and more casual, and the relationship has become better and better.

As the saying goes, the gentleman's friendship is as light as water.

Without extra politeness, not mixed with any utilitarian, this relationship can be simple and pure, and getting along with each other is easier and comfortable.

It is not a good relationship that requires your exhaustion to maintain your effort.

You know, people who like you will like everything you.

Those who don't like you, the more laborious you are, the less you don't take you seriously.

It's better to be casual, do yourself well.

The person who makes you comfortable is to treat it sincerely; the person who makes you painful see it indifferently.

Bi Shumin once said: "Our life does not exist because of asking others."

Life is short, and you can please yourself with little time. Please be comfortable with people who get along.

Knowing how to make your inner joy be worthy of our years of hard work.

someone said:

"Every life is a train running forward. Every road will always travel with you, watch the scenery passing outside the window, share their stories together, and their mood."

They make you like a spring breeze and add color to your life.

But unfortunately, they can only accompany you for a while and get off at the station.

Even if you have a lot of reluctance, you can only choose to wave farewell.

Netizen@网 网 Share his own story.

A Yuan and her girlfriend met in the third grade. From middle school to universities, they have been with each other.

In their student days, the most innocent and beautiful memories are each other.

After graduating from college, my girlfriend returned to her hometown, and A Yuan stayed in the capital due to employment direction.

At the beginning of the work, both sides were connected with each other in a comfortable way, or they were as before.

Perhaps because of environmental problems, or maybe because the trajectory of the two people deviates too far, the concept of the two has gradually biased.

Even though the two sides have been working hard to run this friendship, there are still differences, and sometimes even the degree of incomprehension.

Finally, once, A Yuan discovered that they hadn't chatted for a long time.

She opened the chat history of the two people, and the content of nearly half a year was nothing more than potential surface topics such as "What are you eating today" and "pay attention to the body".

It turned out that they had already faded out of each other's world unknowingly.

It is said that the farewell of adults is silent.

Perhaps inadvertently, one turn around, it will be lifeless.

Far gradually away is not necessarily a broken relationship. Many times, just the way for life is different.

You chose the Sunshine Road. I set foot on the Mid -wood Bridge. Without the intersection of life, separation is inevitable.

But don't be too sentimental, let alone forced, flowers bloom, and the edge is scattered, which is the normal state of life.

The more you go back, the smaller the circle, and the limited position in your heart. If someone comes in, someone must go out.

Accepting the arrangement of destiny, letting everything go naturally is the most comfortable and decent farewell.

I like a word very much:

"I don't want to be intimate, I just want to be accompanied by each other; I don't want to be separated, I just want to leave a good memory."

Thanks to the other party to appear in their own lives, think of each other, bless each other, enough!

someone said:

"Life is a person's practice, but it is actually the practice of 'relationship". "

On the way to grow, we will encounter various people and build a variety of relationships.

If you want to meet with good people and want to build a comfortable relationship, your ability and character are critical.

Expand your own vision, expand your knowledge, cultivate your own personality charm, and strive to enhance yourself in order to better attract common people.

All in all, the practice of "relationship" is not good or not, but never others, but on yourself.

In any case, don't be grieved in order to cater to a relationship, and don't disappear because of a relationship!

People are alive, in the final analysis, or for themselves, otherwise they will lose their meaning.

Do yourself and know how to make yourself comfortable.

At the end of the article, [watching], the rest of my life is very expensive, I hope you and I can find a comfortable person, simple and comfortable life.

Author | Cake, Pen Ink Paper Paper, Chai Mei Yanyan, first -hand text, one -handed life.

Picture | Visual China

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