Low executive power is destroying your life

In the following situations, you may often encounter:

The mouth was about to lose weight. As a result, a few months have passed, and the gym has only been there twice;

I want to learn a skill after work, but I return home in the class and start lying on the bed to play with my mobile phone;

Read more books, and finally buy a lot of books, but throw it in the cabinet to eat ash;

In this way, the Flag set up at the beginning of the month has never been completed at the end of the month.

In the final analysis, they all died in execution.

Many people are in the state, good ideas, perfect planning, but the execution is negative, so what you want to do is not done.

San Mao once said: "Waiting and hesitation is the most ruthless killer in the world."

The gap between people is often opened.

If you refuse to take a step, don't want to pay, even if you know more, you can't reach the life you want.

In the world of walking people, only by improving their own execution can we turn the heart into reality.

Zhou Guoping said: "Knowing yourself, everything in the past has explained, and everything in the future has direction."

The first step of doing things is to recognize yourself in conjunction with reality. You must not see yourself too low or to see yourself too high.

I saw Xiao Hu a circle of friends that day.

It is said that starting this week, the plan that needs to be completed on the same day every morning at 9 o'clock in the future.

On the first day, she wrote a full page and listed seven important tasks.

In addition to reports, reply emails to be written at work, after get off work, she also planned to learn English, read, practice words ...

As a result, before going to bed that night, I found that I only completed the four of them, and there was no time to do the rest.

Then she realized that she did not recognize the reality and caused too many tasks to be completed.

People, always overestimate their own abilities, just like the psychological "Dak effect":

"Most people's evaluation of themselves will be higher than the average level. This is a cognitive bias phenomenon."

Many people see others doing so many things every day, and hope that they can be filled with many things.

However, when you think too much, you must recognize whether your ability is enough to avoid blind action.

Most of us are ordinary people and cannot do everything well.

The most correct way is to find their own position in practice, and then maximize their strengths.

Only when a person recognizes himself and can bear within the scope of ability, can he be more firmly executed in the right direction.

Some time ago, I saw a blogger who wrote an article.

He said that he had a bad condition in those days, and many things were piled up together. He often felt anxious. This could not be done, and that could not do well.

Write a plan for the customer, watching the deadline for the deadline, and his heart is panicked, and the other party is constantly urging.

Obviously it can be done better, but in a hurry, it did not play well.

The reading clubs he participated in the online seemed to see other friends in the community earlier and output a lot of reading notes, but he did not complete himself, and his condition was poor.

But even if the anxiety was connected, he did not have been in the emotion of internal consumption. He said:

"When a lot of things are piled up together, the more we think, the more irritable, the less the state is.

At this time, the most needed to do is to solve one by one, first solve the simple, and then solve the difficulty.

After passing the pass, you will finish these things, and you will find that you have grown. "

In life, we are often anxious because of some things.

Think of a sentence in "Round Table":

The antonyms of anxiety are specific. When you step on that specific path, you do n’t have this anxiety when you walk step by step.

We often see that others have made a lot of achievements, but we have not done anything, and it is inevitable that there is a huge sense of gap.

While worrying about what happened in the future, there was a waste of precious moment, and the mentality was easy to collapse.

But life is like this, it will not go smoothly, it is like the stock market, it is impossible to just rise and not.

Encountered obstacles and setbacks, reshape the mentality, solve it, and then continue.

After hearing a sentence: "It is not the position of the stood in life, but the direction of the dynasty."

It is true that if you look for himself, you will not be confused.

There is a story in the "Law of Target".

The 12 -year -old Ford went to the city with the father of the farmer, and accidentally saw a car with steam.

At that time, he was thinking: "Since the car can use steam as the skill, then gasoline should be okay, I must try it!"

Although it is a magnificent dream, he has set the next goal and gives himself ten years to complete it.

Because he clearly knew that he didn't want to be a peasant for a lifetime, he wanted to be an inventor.

After leaving his hometown, he immediately went to the industrial Greater City Detroit as a mechanical apprentice and had an in -depth study of mechanical manufacturing.

Even if he is tired every day, he still uses the time after get off work to engage in research and development.

In this way, he has always been 29 years old, finally successfully manufactured the first car engine, and mass production in the world, and Ford has therefore become a famous American king.

We look back at the reason why Ford can succeed because we recognize the direction, the goal is clear, and persist.

Thinking of Kanegi once said:

"Anyone who has a successful person has absolute main goals. He will make a plan for achieving the goal, and he will invest most of his thinking and energy to achieve the goal."

When a person has no goals and directions, doing things can be easily confused by various conditions and external appearances.

Even if you make a choice, it is often uncertain.

We often say that the direction is greater than hard work, and it is more meaningful only if we find the direction.

There is a saying that said this:

"Even if there is the best idea in the world, if there is no action, it will never become a reality."

When the steering wheel of your life has been determined, the next step is to drive immediately to reach your destination as soon as possible.

A little friend she met, she is a second child, and she wants to develop a sideline.

She started from scratch and set up a goal for herself. After a year and a half, a single manuscript fee was able to achieve thousands of manuscripts.

Since then, she worked at the company during the day and waited for a child to sleep at night before she could take the time to write a manuscript.

I will take at least an hour to write every day every day.

At the beginning, she could only complete one manuscript in a month, but after half a year, her efficiency came up and the writing was greatly improved. She could write several articles a month.

Now a year and a half has passed, she not only achieved the goal of thousands of manuscripts, but also signed a contract with a large platform to become the permanent author of the other party.

Someone asked her how she made such a big progress, her answer was simple: "dry, right!"

It can be seen that whether a person can do things is inseparable from TA's execution.

If you always hang your goal on your mouth, or always think there, and don't put it into practice, then your goal will always be just a goal.

On the other hand, those who realize their ideals are not as smarter than others, and they are not natural advantages, but they will win on action.

They will not hover repeatedly in one thing, but do it first, and constantly reflect, grow and iterate in the process of implementation, so as to find the optimal solution.

Thinking of a concept that the founder does not spend, it is called "reckless law".

Doing things requires some recklessness, don't always think about it until everything is ready before doing it.

Do it first, and on the way forward, time will naturally give you the answer you want.

I like a word very much: "Do a person have a future, just see his execution."

Why do you understand a lot of truths, but still have a bad life?

The reason is that we have been staying at the stage of "thinking", but we rarely act.

Those who are big things can always be united, while mediocre people build a Great Wall of Wanli between "knowledge" and "doing".

The old saying is good: "People who do big things do not tangled, and those who become large do not grind."

The fastest shortcut to realize the ideal is to clarify what you want, strengthen your choice, say it, never hesitate.

Light [watch], don't let your low execution block the steps forward, be a fast -running person, today's actions will definitely get feedback in the future.

Author | Xiaoshan, seriously squeezing books, doing things downright.

Picture | Visual China

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