Whenever you accept yourself, you will reduce the chance of making mistakes.
Author:Xiao Erni said childcare Time:2022.08.12
This is the 86th/100th day I continued to write
I don't know if you have done this too. When you make a mistake, you have delay in doing things.
What is your first reaction?
It is likely to constantly blame yourself and complain about yourself.
But do you think it is useful?
Does it seem to be useless, what wrong you should make a mistake or a crime, should be delayed or delayed.
for example,
I have forgotten the key several times before. Although this is just a simple mistake, I have to ask the company.
Although I forgot to bring the key every time, I blame myself in my heart and scold myself a few words.
It didn't take long to make such a mistake, blame yourself, and then scold yourself a few words.
But I found that I was still not memorable, and the offender was still a criminal.
Why do this?
Because I didn't know, although I knew I was wrong, I just woke myself through blame.
I hope that I will not make such a mistake, but I have not went to the response method at all to solve this problem completely.
Teacher Fan Deng said in the book "Adverse Business": The first step of all changes is awareness.
When you make mistakes and encounter setbacks, you keep complaining about yourself, and you are likely to make yourself make the original mistake.
If you know you are wrong, but you don't blame yourself, but accept yourself at this moment, forgive yourself, and let yourself be aware.
You will find a way to let yourself no longer make similar mistakes.
So, now when I make the same mistake, if I only know myself to blame myself, I can't solve any problems.
It is better to accept yourself, and then ask yourself, whether there is a good way to solve this error.
It is impossible for people to make mistakes, but after making mistakes, how to deal with it is the focus.
After the full text, it is another day of growth. I hope this article can also bring you some thinking and help.
If your friends have the same problem, please forward it to him!
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