8 thinking habits that keep your mind keenly
Author:Ten o'clock reading Time:2022.09.19
Sanjay Guba wrote in "Adverse Brain": "It can improve and have a better brain at any age. Through scientific methods, anyone can build a better brain and keep the brain sharp. ","
Jumping out of the inherent thinking framework and upgrading our thinking mode are a shortcut for our rapid growth.
A way of thinking has created what you look like today, and also determines your future ending.
Share 8 thinking habits that keep your mind keen thinking, so that you have a wider pattern.
Corol Dwick divides people's thinking patterns into two types: one is a fixed type and the other is a growth type.
Comparison chart of fixed thinking mode and growth thinking mode
People with fixed thinking are unwilling to change the status quo, and they think that people's talents are constant.
Those who grow up thinking have a positive attitude. I believe that wisdom can be cultivated in the future, and they will continue to work hard to improve themselves.
It can be seen that the gap between people is not talent or ability, but the thinking mode.
If a person wants to continue to grow, he must learn to adjust the thinking pattern into growth thinking.
When you jump out of fixed thinking, you may not be able to solve the problem immediately, but at least there are possible opportunities.
With growth thinking, it can maximize the potential and exert its own advantages, so as to become a better self.
When you reshape your thinking mode, you will have more lasting competitiveness and embark on the road of lifelong growth.
The story shared by the writer Sun circle.
After she resigned, she did not choose a single shot to start a business, but set up a company with several like -minded friends.
When she encountered a field that was not good at, she took a good friend to talk about the project, and then divided it to other people in the company.
Sun circle said: "A person's efforts and ability are important, but if you learn to use your strength, you can do more with less and achieve a new height."
Each of us is eager to succeed, but when we are unavoidable, learn to borrow external forces, and we just make up for our own shortcomings.
Throughout the ages, those who have become big things are those who know how to do their best to realize themselves.
With the strength of the good wind, I will send you to Qingyun.
Those who have the strength to think about knowing how to avoid strengths and avoid weaknesses, and they become the winners of life.
Marquez once wrote: "Life is like tea, the empty cup is right, there is a good tea that can not be finished, and there are endless joy and touch."
Thinking of empty cups, that is, clearing yourself and imagining yourself as "an empty cup."
Many times, we feel stressful, often derived from the filling of our cups.
On the road of life, too many past achievements or failures will become a barrier that hinders running.
If you want to learn new things, you need to be a empty cup to maintain a humble mentality;
If you want to get new opportunities, you must let yourself go and free up.
The cup is empty to install more water; the mentality is empty to find more keys.
When we learn to clean up the memory regularly and face the world with empty cups, you will see a more vast distance.
The "wooden barrel theory" we have known: How much water can a wooden bucket depends on the shortest board.
As a result, many people desperately make up for their "shortcomings", but the results often run counter to the end.
As everyone knows, it is not a "short board" that can really make a person stand out, but "long board".
Beckham has won the Silver Globe Award of World Football Graduate Graduate by FIFA twice.
He once said that his shortcomings are very obvious, and he will not pass his left foot, and he is much slower than most offensive players.
However, he has a very good positioning technique that he can always find a best position to defeat the opponent's guard.
After ending the training, he still stayed on the court to practice free kicks, and it was a few hours.
Because Beckham knows how to avoid strengths and avoid his weaknesses, he has played his advantages to the extreme, and he has become one of the greatest free kick masters in the history of football.
People who are really powerful have already abandoned the "wooden barrel theory" and have "long board thinking".
Rather than spend time to make up for the shortcomings, it is better to cultivate things that are good at.
To do one thing to the extreme, it is better than doing 10,000 things.
Your skills are your core competitiveness.
When the torrent of life is rolling, your long -board advantage will become your strongest protective armor.
The person in charge of a team promotes a project within the company. As a result, when the meeting was discussed, it was opposed by many people.
She was embarrassed and angry at the time, and felt that she was working hard, but she did not get everyone's recognition and understanding.
But she quickly calmed down and realized that everyone's opinion was right, and there were really places to improve.
Later at the meeting, she said sincerely: "It's not perfect for my thoughts, and you are welcome to add."
As a result, the response was strong and the project was promoted smoothly.
When he heard different opinions, he had a rejection and desperately looking for reasons to refute it. It was called "red light thinking".
Those who "green light thinking" will accept it with an open mind and analyze how to use it to improve themselves.
Learn to listen with green light thinking. Every criticism and advice you hear may be the help of your inspiration and benefit yourself.
Only those who open their hearts and make their thinking light up can have more possibilities, and the road of life is more and more common.
The so -called wide door is a simple mode; the so -called narrow door is the hard core mode. In real life, most of them choose wide doors, and as a result, the narrower walking back.
And truly smart people will choose a narrow door. Although it is difficult to start, the wider walking forward, the less walking.
This is the famous "narrow door thinking".
In fact, there are no shortcuts in this world, and all the ways are going downhill. Those who choose the road of ease will find that there is no way to go in the end.
People with narrow door thinking dare to get involved in the muddy road of thorns and thorns, and take every step until they become top masters.
The secret of a person's success is often not opportunities and abilities, or even hard work, but the choice of his life direction.
Chrisdov Liwei was a famous Hollywood movie star, and his starring "Superman" had a sensation in the world.
But unfortunately, due to an accident in a equestrian game, the body was paraplegia, which made him unable to stand up again.
He was unable to accept this cruel fact and even wanted to end his life.
During a trip, he looked at the mountain road where the peak was turning, and suddenly realized: Instead of suffering from pain, it is better to use his professional knowledge to do some other fields.
As a result, he began to focus on the director and writing, and bit his pen with his teeth.
Later, the film he directed for the first time won a high award, and the new book also reached the best -selling book list.
Many times, the size of a person depends on the difficulty he encounters. The higher the fence erected in front of you, the higher you jump. This is the "cross -column thinking".
On the road of long life, no one can always be smooth. When we encounter setbacks, we can only surpass ourselves with bravery.
The so -called iterative thinking is to study in practice.
When you decide to do one thing, you don't need to wait until the plan is perfect to implement it. You can revise it while acting.
In the process of doing it, constantly summarize and think, use practice to strengthen yourself, and gradually approach the expected goals.
So how to be a person with iterative thinking?
First, "now" is the best time
No matter how complicated, as long as you start doing it, it will become easier and easier.
Second, collect results feedback and improve improvement
Verify what you do by investing as small as possible, and adjust and optimize according to the feedback information.
Third, the best cycle iteration is the best
Iteration is a periodic behavior. The purpose of iteration is to be better than the last time until the best.
Life is a process of continuous iteration. Each change will make you closer to your expectation.
Liu Run said in "5 minutes of business school": "If you just want to make some small progress, then change your behavior; if you want to make great progress, then you must change your thinking."
Different thinking habits affect a person's perspective of looking at the world, and also determines the level of his life.
Remove the wall of thinking and break the inertia of thinking, so that life can achieve transition.
May you and me be able to break through yourself, have a wider vision, and meet better with your own.
Author | Tang Tang, trivial life, writing is export.
Picture | Visual China
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