The biggest enemy of a person's life is yesterday's self

Author: Hard See Muye

The biggest enemy of a person's life is yesterday himself.

After reading a word, if people can't update themselves, they can only be confused in "old" and "duplicate".

The clothes are dilapidated and you have to change a new one; the house is old and renovate.

The same is true for people. To continuously update themselves, we can always grow.

01

Update image

American psychologist Loccins has proposed that in interpersonal communication, there is a "first cause effect".

The first impression between people is the most distinctive and firm, and determines the process of the two parties in the future.

Economists have also proposed a "beauty economics". Studies have found that good-looking people have increased by 3%-5%than ordinary people's income.

The image is human's first business card, which is equally important as the interesting soul and abundance.

Entrepreneur Matsushita Xingzhi was at the beginning of entrepreneurship, and because of busy work, he often ignored his personal image.

Once, he went to the haircut, and the hairdresser couldn't help saying to him after seeing it:

"Your appearance represents the image of the company. Even you are so casual, do you think customers will be willing to buy your product?"

I felt very reasonable when I heard Panasonic, and determined to change the habit of not repairing the border, and asked all employees to sort out their image.

Mark Twain once said that the effort in the image will give your knowledge, qualifications, and education points.

It is natural whether a person looks beautiful, but your overall image is carved from the day after tomorrow.

Packing yourself well is respect for others, but also a pleasure to yourself.

To update your image and face life in the best state, you can get life.

02

Update thinking

After years of exploration of a crow, he finally pondered the method of throwing stones into the bottle, drank the water smoothly, was praised, and was written in textbooks.

But it did not expect that the other crow did not throw stones in the bottle at all. It contained a straw directly in the mouth, and it was easy to drink the water in the bottle.

This is the story of "New Crow Drinking Water".

The way the crow drinks water has changed: one is still throwing stones, and the other has already used a straw.

Ten years ago, the thinking of ten years, like a crow of stones, wasted a lot of time.

Now that a diploma is used for a lifetime, a unit stays for a lifetime, and the era of making money on a facade has passed.

How far you can go, how far you can go, and you can't change your pocket without changing your head.

"Fighting all opponents, but lost to the times."

Many people are not unfamiliar with this sentence. This is what RT -Mart founder Huang Mingrui said when he exited.

Huang Mingrui founded RT -Mart, which was claimed to be a legendary shopping mall in the retail industry for 19 years.

In the field of malls, no one can defeat it, including Wal -Mart and Carrefour, but he lost to the times and was acquired by Alibaba.

At that time, the e -commerce industry emerged, which caused a huge impact on the retail industry. However, Huang Mingrui dismissed e -commerce. He believed that the logic of e -commerce burning money did not comply with business laws.

Later, her daughter told him with her mobile phone that as long as she searched casually, she could see the location of more than a dozen restaurants around. The online handling business has become the general trend.

Even so, the thinking of many directors of RT -Mart still stayed in the past, thinking that physical stores are still growing, there are still opportunities for the fourth and fifth -line market, and RT -Mart does not need to do e -commerce.

It was too late to wait until Huang Mingrui was completely awakened.

The world is changing every minute and every second, and your stagnation is essentially regression.

As Darwin said, in the jungle, what can survive in the end is often not the highest and strongest, but species that can make the fastest response to the change.

Only like a computer update system, constantly updating his way of thinking can he keep pace with the times.

03

Update the circle

I saw a scientific experiment by accident, which was shocked.

The pendulum with a completely different frequency is placed in the same space, and due to the influence of each other, it can naturally adjust the frequency in just a few minutes.

World Potential Master Boycais pointed out:

Whether in your real life or imagination, those who are used to getting along with each other will have a great influence on the goal of you want to be an ideal character.

In the early years, there was an article that brushed the screen called "I am Fan Yusu".

Rural private teacher Yu Su, who wanted to see a larger world, resigned at the age of 20 and went to Beijing.

After coming to Beijing, after several turns, Fan Yusu became a family nanny.

During her free time, she went to write a circle and ran to the "Workers' House" literary group in Pipi Village in Beijing to listen to the lessons.

Here Fan Yusu met a lot of like -minded friends. These friends and her nanny friends were very different.

The babysitters were together, and they were short of parents, and Wenyou gathered together, but it was literary and art that made her obsessed.

From the rural hometown to Beijing, and then from the nanny to participating in the literary group, Fan Yusu has been updating her circle.

Because of this, her literary dream can be realized.

Luo Zhenyu once said in the New Year's Eve speech "Friends of Time":

"There are two components of a person's wealth basic disk:

First, your own ability; second, the ability to connect with others, and the latter is the former amplifier of the former. "

It's been a long time in the low -level circle, and you will stop growing.

Only when you break the barriers of the circle and enter the higher -level circle, your life will always go uphill. 04

Update skills

The authors of "Centennial Life" have predicted that every 5-10 years, our work will encounter a challenge.

This means that we will face professional transformation and professional skills at any time, and updating professional skills will become the norm.

Share two stories with deep feelings.

The protagonist of the first story is a chef of a high -end restaurant.

In order to return home to take care of the sick mother, the chef went to a small restaurant in his hometown to apply for, and the boss asked him, "Will you make Sichuan cuisine?"

The chef shook his head.

The boss asked him if he would make Cantonese cuisine, and the chef still shook his head.

The boss was a little impatient and said badly, "What will you do, I have never seen a chef who can't cook."

The chef heard it when he heard it, and said, "I only need to do the face. Why do you need to do everything you need to do here?"

In the end, the chef left the restaurant without applying for appointment.

The second thing happened in a watch factory.

One worker worked very hard. His task was to assemble watches on the production line.

He has been doing this for 10 years. He has very skillful operations and rarely makes mistakes. He is an excellent employee every year.

However, later, the enterprise put on a new set of automated production lines that were completely operated by the computer. Many tasks were completed by the machine. As a result, he lost his job.

When he left, the director said to him sincerely:

"Actually, I introduced the new equipment plan. I told you a few years ago. I want you to have an ideological preparation to learn about the operation methods of new technologies and new equipment.

Xiao Hu, who works at the same time as you, not only learned his computer, but also came to the instructions of new equipment. Now he is already the director of the workshop. I don't have the time and opportunity for you, you give up yourself. "

In the times, there is no stable job.

Your housekeeping ability yesterday may become worthless after a few years.

Stagging, no one who knows that the old book will one day be eliminated by ruthlessness.

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I have heard a word: "Your biggest enemy is never someone else, but yesterday."

Although the process of forcing yourself to transform is painful, every time you experience the pain, you can get one step away from a better yourself.

Like a praise, from now on, don't keep the old and update yourself.

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