2022 The second half of the year: All the loss will return in another way

I feel that time is getting faster.

It seems that the pen was summarized in 2021 not long ago. In a blink of an eye, half of the 2022 passed.

Are you doing well in the first half of 2022?

How many streets have you walked, how many landscapes have you seen, what kind of person you have met, and what kind of things have you done.

Or maybe for you, it is not easy for these six months.

But it doesn't matter, no matter whether good or bad, it has become a scenery.

The charm that time is inevitable is to push people to run forward, and meet the next mountain top to pick another strand of starlight.

You just need to continue and say goodbye to the past.

Recalling this long half of the year, maybe it is difficult to forget for a long time.

For two months at home, some people involved in the wave of unemployment, many goals were not completed, and there were countless nights of insomnia and countless self -doubts.

The hardships and unsatisfactory life, one after another, slowly defeat people.

Most people can remember that they are lost and uneasy, but few people realize that no matter success or failure, every step forward is actually going to a better self.

I always believe that many arrangements in the world have their own meaning. You think you have lost everything and actually get more.

A good life may not be magnificent, but no matter how hard the road ahead is, as long as we can firmly go out of every step and firmly stick to each effort.

Efforts to dance out of the dust is already a better self.

Not long ago, a friend resigned from the iron rice bowl from nine to five and went to a small seaside town in Zhejiang.

She said, "In fact, I didn't think so much, I just felt the same life every day, there was no expectation or enthusiasm."

I understand the state she said very much, and I am very envious of her, but I don't have her courage.

There are always too many restrictions and concerns about the life of adults.

Parents are growing old, children grow up, and they spend money every day like countless black holes to suck you in.

There are mortgages, car loans, dare not resign, and cannot be unemployed.

Whether making money is never a choice of life, but making money well can make you live better.

So admit it, admit that you love money, and admit that you need money, this is not shameful.

The confidence of adults is given money, and first make money, so that they are qualified to hurt the spring and hurt the autumn.

When everyone is very tired, the kind of invisible, physical and mental fatigue.

Sometimes, there are thousands of grievances hidden in my heart, but the face is still light and light, and said to the world with a smile:

"I'm fine, I'm fine."

In fact, it doesn't matter, even if it is pretended, it is not so unbearable. As long as you can face everything with a smile, this is enough.

We must all understand that life is there, and what life is like depends entirely on your own attitude.

Therefore, even if life is full of sores, please cure yourself with a smile.

Sometimes laughing and laughing, sometimes laughing for others, passing by life, there is no problem that cannot be solved.

We are just an ordinary person and we don't need to put too much pressure on ourselves.

The smile on your face is really rich.

It is a more difficult ability to precipitate it than trying to catch up.

This is a truth I only understood at the age of 35.

Just like many people will unconsciously fall into such a misunderstanding:

As long as you work hard, the results will not be too bad.

However, the facts may be endless overtime and long and useless meetings, and such things occupy a lot of time.

In the end, I made a lot of efforts, but it was useless and no valuable gains.

The growth of things must follow a certain natural law. The growth of people lies in learning and precipitation.

Effectiveness is just a necessary prerequisite for achieving goals, but more important than hard work is the ability to think deeply.

The best solution is to ask for inner, and constantly accumulate experience in self -reflection to form wisdom.

Have you found that the most correct thing in the world is actually the simplest, such as going to bed early and getting up early.

Go to bed early, do not need to brush the boring circle of friends, short videos every day, do not impulse shopping to place orders, and do not have to be chased by time.

The main thing is that you don't need to stay up late to lose your energy, hurt your eyes and hurt your body.

Get up early, have enough time to make a breakfast for yourself, you can also think and plan quietly, and have more disposable time.

If you persist, your body will be very healthy, which is an intangible property.

It seems a small thing to get up early and get up early, but people who can insist on doing this little thing are not easy.

This lifestyle may not really save life, but the self -discipline and progress behind them all change our destiny trajectory.

Everything will be better, tomorrow will be another day.

As long as we go to bed early and get up early, we will be closer to dawn.

In this era, everyone has a lot of impetuous air, some people want to get rich overnight, and some people want to become famous overnight.

Most people only see everything in front of them, which is moving emotions by trivial things.

Wang Yangming said:

It is a normal heart if you do n’t like your wealth; it is a normal heart if you lose your heart; your reputation is universal;

You know, life is complicated, and everyone's feelings and meaning are different.

If it is always trivial and falling into various negative emotions, it will inevitably be overwhelmed.

Although life is not simple, the most rare thing is to cultivate a normal heart.

Regardless of the situation, always abstain from arrogance and irritability. Keep your own heart better than anything.

I have seen the selection of the top ten regrets of life online.

In fact, everyone has never stopped doubting the choice of the past and chewing the past repeatedly.

But if you think about it, it is not a avoidance of reality, but also a deception for yourself.

Always agree with one sentence:

"Memories are not worthy, no memory is worthy of you trapped, no."

If you always regret the previous mistakes, the high probability will make an error in the future.

There is no way back in this journey of life. Don't stop when you start. Don't regret it.

What we can master is always now. If there is any regret, we forget to learn from it.

From now on, don't look back, don't regret it for yourself who made mistakes in the past.

There is no nostalgia for the road, and only the front is the front.

There is such a paragraph in "The Painted Bird":

People can't understand each other at all. They attracted or conflict with each other, embraced each other or trample each other, but everyone might only be himself.

In the past, we have experienced too much harm and too much grievances, and everyone owes "sorry".

After all, we must understand that the most important subject of a person's life may be to learn to love ourselves.

Life has nothing to do with others, only you are the protagonist of your own life.

Focus on yourself more, pay less people who do n’t want to do. When you no longer create a false yourself for others ’opinions, the easier you will be.

Don't live up to time, be the protagonist of your own life.

Life is always busy and tired, and daily repetition also makes people have an illusion, as if everything is too late.

But you have to understand what it looks like, which is determined by yourself.

If your life is not your wish, then don't stop running, don't wait.

In the next day, please continue bravery, continue to be kind, and continue to be positive.

When you are standing at the end of growth, you will find that this rugged hope has long been in full bloom.

This is the cruelty of time and the tolerance of time.

Click "watching", in the second half of 2022, we all work harder.

I also wish that the outliest of the previous journey can be done in the next journey to worry -free.

Author | Ten o'clock little 十

Picture | Visual China

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