5 amazing golden effects, understand and change your life

Every day, one person from morning to night, at least 30,000 choices. And 90%of them are completed in "unconscious" by inertia.

Behind the powerful inertia is actually determined by our mentality.

May you learn from the six psychological effects below, learn to identify your mentality, and not be left or right by inertia.

1 Blitan effect: decisive choice

The so -called Britani effect means that some people are indecisive when they face the choice, consume a lot of time costs, and they missed the best time in vain.

A swinging puppet, no matter how strong other crickets are, are always easy to throw behind.

Schopenhauer said: "Life is all the way, understand all the way."

Many things are not the only correct choice at all, and trying is the biggest thrust of progress.

You have to believe that no matter how you choose, as long as you implement it firmly, the results will not be too bad.

If hesitant, you will question yourself if you accidentally happen.

"Doing the right thing" is even more valuable to have the courage and capable of "doing things well".

To grasp the timing decisively and determine the direction of the journey, it is more than half.

2 Bird cage effect: delete complexion and simple

Once Harvard Professor James bet with his friend Carlson, saying that he could let him raise a bird in a short time.

Soon, James gave Calson a exquisite bird cage, and the incident began to change due to this bird cage.

After that, every time a guest went to the Karlson's house as a guest and saw the bird cage, he would ask him: "The professor, when did the bird you grow?"

After the explanation over and over again, Karson was uncomfortable and had to buy a bird.

This is the famous psychological effect "bird cage effect" -

When the external space, the inner energy, are occupied by debris and miscellaneous things, we will gradually lose their sense of control of life. Therefore, "disconnection" is a rare wisdom.

As the so -called subtraction for life, you can make additional methods for life.

3 Critical point effect: persist to the end

Only when it is obtained on demand, delete complexity and simplification, will it not be overwhelmed by the "bird cage" and have a more comfortable life.

The ice exceeds 0 ° C will turn into water, and the water will turn into water vapor when the water exceeds 100 ° C.

When you reach a certain boundary, you can get completely different results. This is the critical point effect.

The greater the challenge is often facing, the greater the opportunity, and the other side can reach the other side of the ideal.

There is a saying good: as long as you do not give up hope, hope will not give up you.

"Half a hundred steps for a hundred steps", it is difficult to persist in doing things and persist.

When you feel tired, you can go uphill. Maybe you can reach a new height. Continue your love and keep refining yourself, the world will give you a wonderful.

4 Rress effect: positive incentive

The implication effect is that through the induction of psychological and language, the impact on people's ideas, so that his behavior is consistent with the implied content.

The negative hints make people emotional, and positive hints make people confident.

In the book "Famous Fun", it talks about the fun of the writer Ye Shengtao.

Mr. Ye suffers from chronic insomnia. Whenever he sees ads to improve sleep, he is always anxious.

Because of the constant emphasis on the various hazards of insomnia, this made him even more worried, which caused the symptoms of insomnia to become more and more serious.

He must take three slices of sleeping pills before going to bed to sleep safely, but who can think that the sleeping pills provided by his wife are only vitamin tablets.

Don't underestimate the power of positive hints. In the face of difficulty in overcoming, an optimistic mentality is a good medicine.

There is such a sentence in Murphy's theorem:

"There is no desperate environment, only a desperate mentality."

Knowing the positive suggestion, you will inject energy into yourself, stimulate huge potential, and promote yourself to become better and better.

5 kick cat effect: management emotions

The "kicking effect" is a typical negative emotional infection: once a man is in a bad mood, he will find a way to vent. Therefore, negative emotions are more contagious than positive emotions.

A father was upset because of his unsuccessful work.

When he returned home, he saw the child jumping around on the sofa, and scolded the child.

The child felt wronged and turned and kicked the cat fiercely.

The cat fled out of the house and ran to the road.

Coincidentally, a truck passed, and the driver was too late to avoid, and hit the child who was playing next to him, causing an accident.

The infection of bad emotions is like pushing Domino. Volusion at will will lead to a vicious cycle.

The best way to prevent the "cat kick effect" is not to suppress emotions, but to manage emotions.

When you are angry, let yourself be calm for three minutes and shout a few times in an open place.

Only by managing your emotions can we avoid becoming the initiator and conveyor of "kicking cats".

Source of data | Ten o'clock reading, Fan Deng Reading; the picture comes from the Internet

Source: People's Forum Network

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