Why are you working hard and the poorer?醍醐 醍醐 醍醐 醍醐!

Some people once said: On the wrong road, every step forward is backward.

As the experience grows, it is increasingly discovered, and it is not hard work, and life will definitely improve.

Whether our life is rich is essentially not just on hard work, hard work, the key is how we choose what life and life we ​​choose.

As an economist said:

The essence of poverty is not laziness, but that the poor are always easy to fall into a high -risk life trap.

Recently, I watched the documentary "Poor Suspy". The people who were filmed were all busy life, but they still couldn't climb in poverty.

After having a child, Ms. Suzuki resigned from her original stability, but she divorced after three years of marriage, and lived with her two sons alone.

As a single mother, it is difficult for her to find a formal job, and she can only do some zero -workers with strong replacement, which is very unstable.

When I interviewed her, it was already the eighth job after her divorce.

Relying on the meager income of such a job, she was not enough for their mother and son to live, and she chose to work part -time at the bento factory at night.

Every night, she settled in her children and she was going to work. She could not go home until two or three in the morning. She did not rest on holidays. She could only sleep for four or five hours a day.

But even so, all the costs are deducted from one month, and the money can be used for only 1,300 yuan, and life is stretched.

For her, such a high -intensity and unstable busy life must be maintained for at least 10 years.

It is difficult to say how their future life will be.

There are too many people in life like Ms. Suzuki. In order to make a living, they put all their time on work.

As long as there is a job to make her make money, they will pay all hard work.

Choosing this effort also made their lives like a ghost to hit the wall, and they could not get out of the established cycle.

However, such a busyness may solve the urgent need to make the eyebrows, but it cannot make life look like a long time.

Over time, it is inevitable that people have inexplicable anxiety and hopelessness. In the end, only one day is left.

Just like "Scarcity":

The reason why the poor is getting poorer is not to work hard enough, and the culprit is the scarce mentality.

At any time, please do not just solve the crisis at the moment, but ignore the long -term planning.

After all, hard work is not a natural and correct word.

In the comedy "The Stock Wary", because of his father's bankruptcy, Kellylin came to Max to work as a waiter and moved into Max's house.

After Cyloren found that Max was the masterpiece, she began to persuade Max to save enough $ 250,000 to open a small cake shop in partnership.

For Max, this is simply a night.

This is impossible in her concept.

She feels that it is good to have a job to support herself, and it takes so much money to open a store, and she is a poor person.

But Kellylin has repeatedly insisted, and she continued to persuade, while pulling Max to act.

Under the continuous influence of Calillin, Max changed his previous views on work and money, and in the end, the two moved in the direction of dreams step by step.

I did n’t understand the show a few years ago. Later, I found out that the real difference between the two of them came from cognition.

Max was a very "short -sighted" poor at the beginning. If she did not meet Kellylin, even if her craftsmanship was good, he may never dare to open a cake shop.

As people say: a person can never earn money other than cognition.

What can everyone live in the final analysis, in the final analysis, is determined by his cognition.

Blog owner@博 小 博, after entering college, he felt that he was admitted to Tsinghua University from a small cities in the fifth -tier line, thinking that he had completed a counterattack.

But for a few years, it was crushed by a person who was similar to himself.

At the beginning, two people participated in the same society and discussed academic knowledge.

Later, the classmate not only turned around, his grades became better and better. He also went to Berkeley University to exchange. Finally, he went to one of the four strongest physics universities in the world to study.

The fundamental reason is that Xiao Cui's classmates have enough vision, and I believe I can achieve their goals through hard work.

Many of us start with the town as a question, and the social information that has been exposed to is too little, so that that one is the world, in fact, it is just the tip of the iceberg.

Most of the changes to achieve a living pattern have a broad vision first, and then supplemented by sufficient efforts.

What we have to do is not only efforts, but also constantly breaking through the spiritual horizons and broadening the vision.

When we have enough spiritual bandwidth, we will be really rich.

For most people, to get rid of poverty, we need to maintain a long -termism.

What we have to do is never to persist in the end, but to pull the time to long, and then work harder after making it more conducive to our judgment.

1. Open the horizons, get information, make a more wise "judgment"

The writer Jiang Fangzhou once said: If a person does not read, his values ​​have to be determined by relatives and friends because he has no other knowledge to obtain channels.

We must recognize one point that even if the Internet is sent to this day, the difference in information has always existed.

Without sufficient information to broaden your horizons, how can you know which direction you work in?

Only when we open our horizons and have enough information to fill our brain can we clearer the direction. 2. Invest in yourself, there is more vision, let yourself continue to appreciate

Dave Bresford has proposed the "marginal gain theory", which has made British bicycle teams that have not won the "Ringfa" medal for 110 years to become the "Tourism" champion.

The principle is this: disassemble each link related to the game, and improve each small link that disassembles to 1%.

A 1%force is tiny, but the disassembly is meticulous enough, with enough 1%superimposed, the growth of the formation is huge.

For us, we need to continuously improve ourselves.

Never stop at the current level, but grow on each node to keep yourself on appreciation.

3. Know how to delay satisfaction

Since the media master Liu Yuanyuan told such a story: Everyone can afford the bag, and everyone can't afford it.

The price of a bag is fixed. Even if the conditions are not very rich, most of them can still afford it. But after buying it? What kind of clothes do we have to use and what kind of transportation do we have to match.

This will cause yourself to fall into a vicious circle.

Instead of letting yourself up, you can buy it first, and then buy it when you can buy it when you want to buy it.

Delaying satisfaction is not a necessary condition to make your life more smooth and up.

Economist Xue Zhaofeng once said:

Poverty is actually the combination of two words. Poverty means that your current financial situation is poor, and poverty means exhaustion and no hope. Many young people's human capital itself is the greatest wealth, but it has not yet reached the age of gaining a lot of asset realization.

Many people's current situation is only "poverty", not "poor".

When facing difficulties, be sure to lighten your eyes, don't be wrapped and unable to extricate yourself.

Always remember to be a real long -termist, and really think about what kind of life you want to live and how to do it.

Doing the right thing is always more important than doing things correctly.

mutual encouragement!

Author | Weilan

Picture | Visual China

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