Be a "noble" person

Text | Zhou Walnut

-The book and signing author-

Don't waste time in cheap things

I bought a broken corn on the way to hurried and encountered a poor front desk for business. Similar things were not big, but it was easy to cause quarrels and affect mood.

At this time, we need to tell ourselves: our time is much more expensive than a corn, and our self -esteem does not require the attitude of others to enhance.

After reading the story of a netizen, let me go:

After the netizen Xiao A and the decoration company signed a contract, the other party found that he forgot to calculate the management fee of more than 2,000 yuan.

At that time, the designer and the little girl responsible for making budgets were anxious, because in addition to worrying about the company's punishment, they also worried that Xiao A might not be relieved after knowing it.

However, after receiving the news, Xiao A did not have difficulty in the other party. Instead, after asking the situation, the time to modify the contract to pay.

Later, in order to express gratitude, the decoration company took the initiative to discount, the plan communication process was very harmonious, and the overall effect of the last came out was very satisfied.

When we encounter the increasing cost of signing the contract temporarily, we may want to argue with each other as soon as possible, and then whether it can save money will not say, it will affect the trust of both parties.

Xiao A was very angry at first, but she decided to solve the problem, so she consulted professional institutions and found that there was indeed management fee.

Rather than holding the contract loopholes without paying management fees, losing each other's trust, delaying the construction period, it is better to solve it calmly and.

There is a way: things are rare.

In this world, the rare and most precious time. Therefore, every minute and every second should be used to make us happy and make ourselves gain.

In contrast, those people and things that consume time are annoying, and even people who make life worse are "cheap". We must entrust the limited time to the worthy people and things.

In the cheap things, it is the most worthless behavior to waste time in unnecessary pulling. We must let ourselves live a little more "expensive".

Even if the concession may be regarded by some people as weak, there is no need to justify. As long as we are determined and become better and more expensive, we are more true than anyone else.

Don't consume energy in useless emotions

Zeng Guofan has a cloud: "Lingming is not available, things come in response, the future is not welcome, at that time it was not mixed, but he was not in love."

People often annoyed what they have already happened, and it is best to make mistakes on the external factors in order to be relieved.

Once I planned to go shopping with my mother. When she went out, she accidentally crushed the kettle to the ground. Her face was ugly.

I was accused for no reason, and my mood was also affected. I didn't buy my favorite clothes when I shopping. I blame my mother to stop me from losing weight on weekdays.

Shopping that should have been happy, and the two of us accused ZTE of all.

Fortunately, after returning home, Dad had changed a new pot for the family, humming Xiaoqu, and apron in the kitchen.

I heard me complaining and said with a smile: "I have been pleasing to the eye for a long time. I want to throw your mother a few days ago. This time, I can do it. It's about to grow.

Girl, you are not fat either. Besides, is your dad, do you cook? You have been so big, your mother has made a few meals, and the credit of the meat can not let her grab ... "

I smiled with my mother, and the bad mood disappeared immediately.

Later, when I had more life experiences, I knew that the unsatisfactory thing was the normal life of life, trapped by stress, and disturbing emotions.

And wasting energy on complaining and annoyance is more complaints and annoyance, and it is also the most lost investment.

Not only can it not solve any problems, but it will quickly ferment your bad mood, even swallow the ignorance, and make more unwise actions.

Each of our emotions will greatly affect life. Good emotions can make us rejoice, happiness, and many beautiful memories. These are particularly precious to us. Compared with it, bad emotions appear "cheap".

Life is a one -way trip. It is only once for everyone. We should use their emotions to harvest precious memories.

Living "expensive" is not without emotions, but there is a calm heart. It is not a way to waste time in things that cannot be changed.

Don't live in the rest of your life, you will live

I don't know if you have observed the "noble" people around you are not wearing Chinese clothes and pearls, but that they have a unique charm that is calm.

I did n’t go to study for a day, but I raised my hands and had a kind of indispensable temperament.

When she was first involved in Beijing by her brother, I was responsible for picking up the station.

I wore a hidden blue woolen coat, a shiny old -fashioned bag with oil, wearing a sun hat, and came from a distance.

When a relative at home, when she went out to eat a banquet, she would wear one or two accessories to make the ordinary dress differently.

I have made tailors before, so I have my own unique insights on the clothing. I saw a fashion show on TV in the past few years, and I will see it for a long time. Then I will share with us. Or buy new clothes for us.

Many people think that they are so old, why do they have to live so "delicate", but I said that every day life is a good day and should be treated seriously. I am a "rich" old lady who could not help laughing when she mentioned a few of our sisters. Her love for life seemed to be born. She did not deliberately pursue a sense of ritual, and she was elegant and elegant.

There is a saying: "Others will treat you by observing your way of treating yourself." Because of the cherishment of life and ourselves, we usually see good -looking and fun on weekdays to give her Essence

Her clothing, food, housing, and transportation are used in ordinary things, but she lives "noble", and her image in others has become "golden".

Be a "noble" person for the rest of his life, maintain his curiosity and love for life, and place your own self -properly and decent.

Living "expensive" is a lifetime practice

In this life, the first person to respect and love is always themselves.

This respect and love is not the material filling in the simple sense, but the seriousness and solemnity of life. It is because you know how to listen to yourself and understand yourself.

Living "expensive", expensive, being calm, precious, interesting, the preciousness in the bones is the cultivation of a person, but also the practice of a person's life.

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