Five signs of mature people

When people are young, they are often revealed, and they are unreasonable.

After going through a lot, I gradually understood that speaking, doing things, and being a person must have a ruler.

Really mature people know how to speak and leave virtues, pay attention to things, stay in the way, live in sincerity, and stay in white. The art of being a life is between this inch.

· Speaking and staying

The ancients said: "The sharp blade cuts the body marks, and the evil language hurts people."

The tongue is soft, but some languages ​​are as sharp as a knife, stabbing others, and cutting themselves and blocking blessings.

Good words with others, warm as cloth. It hurts, pain is like a knife cut.

Only when you are happy and regardless of the feelings of others, sooner or later, you will cause your body because of loyalty.

Every time I speak, sooner or later will become the arrow of turning back, which in turn hurts ourselves.

The most exposed person's heart is language, the most sad is language, and the most deepest is language.

Staying under the mouth, mastering the square inch can we show wisdom, show character, and achieve the future.

· Pay attention to things

There is a saying: "There is no difficulty in the world, I am afraid of people."

Some things are not complicated, the key depends on what attitude you treat.

No matter what you do, serious or not serious, the results you get are different.

Every time you perfunctory and every time you are, it seems that it is only irresponsible to things. In fact, it is not responsible for your own life.

There is no shortcut to success. Only by dive your heart and focus on doing it, we can achieve extraordinary results.

Do every little thing with your heart, and life will naturally not treat you.

· Being a person to keep the way ·

"Cai Gen Tan" has a saying: "The road is narrow, leave one step with people;

No one is an island. If you want to get a foothold in the world, you must understand: to keep the way for others, just pave the way for yourself.

In ancient times, a monk was purchased with Sha Mi down the mountain.

When passing by a river, the monk moved to many big stones. Every time he took a step, he moved a stone and put it on the foot.

Sami said puzzled: "We can cross the river, why do we still have a hard work?"

The monk didn't speak, but he continued to move stones.

A few months later, when they went down the mountain again, Sami found that more stones were piled up next to the stones paved last time, and it was also filled with gravel, and it was flat, and it became a stone bridge.

The old saying often says: "Given people to help others, middle people are crowded, and people step on people."

Those who really have a pattern have passed the river and do not forget to pave the way for others. From then on, the road of life will become wider and wider, and the more stable.

· Life sincerity · sincerity

"Sincerity is the best way to act in the world."

Since ancient times, it has been unreliable, and only sincerity. You know, no one is stupid, are you sincere, in fact, others know.

Sincerity is not a beautiful coat, nor is it a set of masks that can be worn at any time. Sincerity is a personality power that is accompanied by life.

You are really, others are true; you are fake, and others are fake. In the same way, sincerely meet sincerity, be kind to meet, and calculate the calculation.

There is a saying: "No road can lead to sincerity, sincerity is the road."

A mature person can be full of inner sincerity. You must know that any hypocrisy, smooth, and unscrupulous test of time can not be reached by the test of time.

· Life leaves white ·

Water is full, and Yueying loses. It seems that things that are too complete are often lacking.

"Eat seven -point full, say that seven points are good." A person who will lay out will never stuff life too much. Knowing how to leave white is the great wisdom of life.

Leave white for life. Sometimes, slow is fast, less is too much. Knowing how to leave a white life, the stamina is more sufficient.

In life, there must be a quiet time for reading and thinking. When you slow down the steps of life, the goal is more clear, and the strength also knows which direction to make it.

In interpersonal communication, "leaving white". Without the sense of boundaries, it is a taboo for people. Maintaining a proper distance is the basic etiquette of people interaction.

Passionate to inquire about the lives of others, infringe on the psychological boundary of others without knowing it. This "closeness" is often a offending.

The fundamental relationship of a long time is not intimate, but to be close.

Source | Rufeng everyone, Ziyi Shangshang, ten o'clock reading, Lao Tzu Tao Te Ching; the picture comes from the Internet

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