New Era and New Rural New Wedding

Breaking the constraints of traditional wedding customs and pursuing new rural weddings that pursue personality and creativity, not only reflect the dilapidated changes in rural areas, but also reflect new farmers, including young people and parents. The fundamental change, conveys the recognition of the new fashion of marriage customs

■ Chinese Women's Daily All -Media reporter Xiao Ting

A simple lawn, a wheat field, and the yard in front of the house, as long as it is arranged by heart, the rural wedding can also be very fashionable and full of ritual. The inconspicuous cattle and sheep adds the fairy tale atmosphere of the wedding. The old objects carrying history in the family can also become a wonderful time flowing in the memory, with a long aftertaste.

Today's new rural weddings, fashion and "face", saving money and a sense of ritual, is becoming a new choice for young people who have taken root in the city to go to their hometown to get a wedding.

Break the traditional "earth smell" label

The evolution of marriage reflects the development of socio -economic to a certain extent. From the "three turns and one ring" in the 1970s to the "refrigerators, television, washing machines" in the 1980s to the combination of furniture, audio, and video discs in the 1990s, to houses, cars and deposits in recent years.

The survey of "Social Sciences" shows that since 1978, the total cost of wedding costs consisting of engagement costs, wedding banquets, colorful gifts and wedding room costs has risen absolutely. From 2010 to 2015, this data was as high as 40326.14 yuan, which was 153 times the difference between the two compared with the beginning of reform and opening up.

With the upgrading of the consumption of the wedding industry, whether it is urban or rural youths, it is discouraged when facing the high cost of marriage. Increased the cost of marriage and childbearing for young people, and also made parents overwhelmed.

How to break the bad habits of marriage? Guide the masses to consciously "reduce the burden on love"? In 2019, the No. 1 Document of the Central Committee focused on the "moving customs and customs" in rural areas for the first time, requiring the governance of bad social atmosphere such as marriage and funeral habits and "sky -high prices", which has attracted widespread attention.

In May 2020, the Ministry of Civil Affairs issued the "Guiding Opinions on Carrying out the Pilot Work of Marriage and Customs Reform", pointing out that it is necessary to carry out in -depth marriage and family counseling services to rectify unhealthy winds such as "sky -high prices", wasteful marriage, vulgar marriage, and comparison with rituals.

In April and September 2021, the Ministry of Civil Affairs announced two batches of 32 national wedding and custom reform pilot zones. Advocate the concept of "storms and rain, each other, responsibility, and respect for each other, and respect each other", and promote the pilot zone to introduce the bad customs such as curbing sky -high prices, curbing big exercises, and drafts waste.

On the one hand, it is necessary to break the restraint of the traditional wedding customs, and to avoid "sweet burdens" caused by comparison, big operations, and waste of waste; on the other hand, with the improvement of living standards, young people's requirements for weddings continue to continue renew. Today, there are more and more young people, especially young groups who take root in cities and return to their hometown to host weddings. They are breaking the tradition in their own way, simplifying the process, getting rid of the "earth smell" label, and redefining the new era. Rural wedding: turn the front yard and backyard of the home, the lawn wheat fields in the village, into a romantic wedding scene; let the sunlight, flowers and flowers become a witness to love.

At the end of the wedding, they will also share with more young people through social platforms to share with more young people through social platforms to convey the new era of rural weddings through social platforms.

My own wedding is the master

We see that more and more young people have controlled the decision of the wedding in their hands, and in the form of weddings, they no longer pursue powsing and face, but pay attention to personality and style.

"This wedding is the artwork I created." Recalling the rural wedding I had handled in one hand, Ms. Zhang's pride was overwhelmed. Ms. Zhang worked in Beijing. Two years ago, Ms. Zhang chose to refuse in the face of the traditional rural wedding customs in the yard and the whole village.

Ms. Zhang has been looking forward to holding a wedding in her dream, but she has a little retreat when she thinks that she is not affluent. Ms. Zhang's mother and her own girlfriend have been persuaded to encourage her not to give up the long -awaited wedding.

After watching various forms of wedding in Xiaohongshu, Ms. Zhang decided to have a western rural wedding in the countryside. Ms. Zhang's husband had doubts about this idea. "I think she can do it alone, not professional." But out of support for his wife, he chose to trust his wife. Ms. Zhang carefully prepared this long -awaited new rural wedding.

On the wedding day, Ms. Zhang was a bride and did not accept everyone's blessings at the wedding like a traditional way. "I really don't look like getting married. I thought that the music should be switched. I took the microphone to call Si Yi on the stage to pay attention to reception." Even if I was so busy, Ms. Zhang didn't feel tired.

This unique wedding wedding refreshed the family and villagers' awareness of the new rural wedding concept. And she was also very happy to share her DIY rural wedding notes to Xiaohongshu after marriage. At present, more than 300,000 people have watched it. "Copy homework" during my wedding.

Like Ms. Zhang, the wedding planner far away in Hangzhou has changed the stereotype of rural weddings with their own weddings with their own creativity and experience. At this new rural wedding organized by the hometown of Dahuanghuzhou, in the Chinese courtyard, the warm color ring is matched with blue and white porcelain flower wares.

This novel and unique, traditional wedding custom, and fashionable new rural weddings, interpret the romance of love. Seeing everyone praised their own weddings, Rhubarb is particularly proud. She said: "For the countryside, many young people have excessive stereotypes and resistance. We must use their initiative. Everyone is still willing to see more beautiful weddings We can also experience more comfortable rituals. "

It can be arranged by only a thousand yuan, but the romance is not discounted at all. "Life should not be regrettable." Due to the restrictions on the venue, Ms. Tan's grassy wedding or paddy field wedding that Ms. Tan had always wanted was not realized, so she decided to hold a wedding on the top of her hometown. She first planned and settled with her husband. Later, her father -in -law also joined in and helped to set up shelves and background cloths. The whole family completed the retro -roof theme wedding that spent less than 2,000 yuan.

Ms. Tan has great autonomy in this wedding planning and marriage process. Before she was engaged with her husband, she confirmed that there would be no bad habits such as weddings. "The determination of Cai Li is also discussed between the two of us. Both parents did not pull."

As for holding a wedding on the top of the building, Ms. Tan's father -in -law and mother -in -law did not know it in advance. After they started to arrange the site on the top of the building, the father -in -law's thoughts praised the idea of ​​daughter -in -law. Top the sun to leisure. "

In the end, the top wedding of less than 2,000 yuan, gained praise from the villagers, and became a benchmark for weddings in the same village. Recalling the original intention of holding this wedding at that time, Ms. Tan said: "It is not important to be in the countryside or the city in the countryside. The important thing is to make a lottery. It is cool. And all kinds of vulgar wedding troubles. "

Although the new rural wedding practice started shortly, a small, refined and beautiful new rural wedding organized by young people has been accepted and supported by more and more new rural areas.

New rural weddings are highly respected and loved by young people. In terms of practical significance, this form saves expenses and eliminates comparisons, which can effectively drive and promote rural customs and customs, and have achieved greater results, and it is also positive for further promoting rural revitalization.

How to view new rural weddings coming out

Nowadays, more and more young people, like Ms. Zhang, rhubarb, and Ms. Tan, are redefining rural weddings, changing people's stereotypes of this "earth smell".

Breaking the constraints of traditional wedding customs and pursuing new rural weddings that pursue personality and creativity, not only reflect the dilapidated changes in rural areas, but also reflect new farmers, including young people and parents. The fundamental change has conveyed the recognition of the new fashion of marriage customs.

Professor Yang Hua of Wuhan University Social College believes that the new rural wedding reflects the overall changes in society. There are three main characteristics: First, rural weddings have changed from the past to husband and wife. The transfer, especially the northeast and Sichuan region, is at the forefront of the country; the second is that the individuality is highlighted, and the young people have the right to decide the form of personalized wedding; the third is that the new urban ideas have contributed to the emergence of new rural rules.

"Traditional rural weddings are the power of social structure and a reflection of the collective will. Everyone is in a difficult and wasteful predicament." Professor Yang believes that when young people with the right to decide, given rural wedding weddings to rural weddings Bring new ideas and methods, this inherent traditional structure has changed. The new rural wedding makes everyone participate in the wedding happy, and the older generation is also happy to achieve a win -win situation.

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